I have a friend. He is Romanian. He's married with a Thai woman. I would say he's my male best friend at work. As usually I don't talk much with men ... but it's not that I don't wanna talk with them. I just always have problem to start conversation to the one I don't feel close. And I know that my character might not also look friendly as my character is a quiet person (I have different character once I know them well enough). .. I feel close with this guy because he always starts the conversation ... I think he's friendly and he knows how to approach woman ... (like me)

But the point is ...

I have changed my dressing style which I have already consulted with friends about it ... to make sure it will look good or appropriate to go to work. And after that ... I feel that he got upset with me sometimes without reasons. He doesn't really show his feeling but I can feel it. So I just leave him like that.

Why do I feel like this? Because I saw his face like a bit upset every time when he sees me dress that way and sometimes he also said my shirt is not ok ...whats the word ... like a can see through ... even I told him that I have a vase inside ... but he still keeps complaining me that ... then I go ask friends.. and they agree that it's ok! but it's not only that ... many times ...

I know it sounds doesn't make sense but I just can't get it out of my head ... as I keep asking myself what I did wrong? ? ? why he got upset with me?

Last time I was thinking 'Is he jealous of me?' my meaning its not a man jealous of a woman (for his lover) not something like that ...but like a jealousy among woman....

so what do you think about my story???

am I thinking too much???

It sounds as though he feels protective over you for whatever reason. He might feel like he is your big brother, father, or even a lover. I think you know more about that part of it.

If the world is telling you that it's ok, and he is telling you that it is not, I would hope that you'd believe the world. Emotions are clouding is judgements, and you need to see that for what it is.

You're doing fine. Dress the way you want, and feel the way you want to feel. He will come around and get better with time.

if you consider him a friend then why don't you just ask him...if he is really a friend he should have no problem giving you a truthful answer...

good luck

Sounds like he wants to be more than friends.

@ Garlic: I asked him every time he complains about the way I dress ...I always says 'whats wrong with the way I dress....I even say 'pls don't be worry about me too much, I am not your wife' but I never get the answer ...that's why I have question here..

@Bill: it's impossible as I considered him as a friend who has married.

@Japamerican: yes I always dress the way I want

Thanks for all opinions

When did you ever hear of a well-dressed Romanian?

Exactly!

You know Borat was filmed in Romania? That's how they all look... Like jobless gipsies.

Post some pics of your new look.

I agree that you should post some pics of the new look. Vote counted.

Sounds like he fancies you my dear, be careful the full moon, these Romulans are prone to change ;-)