I am moody now.

I need explain from moderator about what are you use for banned ppl here!

Today i log in my old friend profile but i see like this

Member Profile Banned

Inappropriate Behavior

http://www.thailandfriends.com/chris1967

what did he do wrong?

just tell me.!!

errrrr

Dr_Sassy : Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr too.

KevinBacon : ok..i will visit your profile right now...ho ho.

{kungnoi} Look like moderators are running this website for their own benefits and they are only interested in girls profiles. Thy are banning males profile at any time with no explanation whom they think is sending message to their own favourite girl..Be-aware that moderators also frequently checks girls message boxes privately. I know many moderators here who dating with many TFer girls regularly and ban any guy if that girl tell them about any guy. The true example is dating of Loburt (Robert} with Akima_kim who was awarded with Free premium membership for her private company.

Noyna : Awww... checked girl message?? bad thing here!

wow thats controversial nonya... *copy and paste* in anticipation of it being deleted

**************MODERATOR COMMENT***********************

Let's get some things straight.

First, Noyna is a fake profile from a male who lives in Australia and has been banned from this site several times. First because several women complained he was harassing them. Subsequently for making several fake profiles.

Second, what he wrote about moderators looking at messges is a lie. We do NOT have that ability.

Third, his comments about Akima_kim and are also lies. Completely. We've never dated and my understanding is she paid for her membership herself.

Fourth, you've been on this site long enough Kungnoi to know that in a situation like this the first thing you should do is send a moderator or Admin a PM and ask hiim for an explanation as to why you're friend was banned. Starting a journal demanding a public explanation from us is just an invitation to a flaming session, which this has started to become.

You've gotten yourself into a lot of situations during your time on this site and received a lot of help and assistance from the moderators.

Now, for handling this the way you have, you get yourself a yellow card.

**************END MODERATOR COMMENT**************************

I gotta support Loburt on this one. That Noyna is just a clown from Australia who loves stirring up the **** here. As for Akima, she's also a friend of mine (yes, just a friend -- I've known her for ages) and she became premium because she really wanted to get more involved in the site. As for the banning you've written about, Kungnoi, I personally have no idea about it, and it's not common mod knowledge. As Loburt says, the best thing to do if you're not sure is to PM Admin or a mod (preferably one who is more informed that I am

As for checking PMs, that is something we absolutely CANNOT do. Nor can we see friends lists that are blocked or access any other info that you don't want regular members to see. We do the best with the tools we've got. And it takes _shitloads_ of time trying to keep arseholes like the guy who made this Noyna profile off the site. So please try not to get moody about the mods. Believe me that everybody here is trying to do the best they can in the best interests of the site -- ask us first and you'll get an explanation. But not if it's in a journal. Just my opinion.

I agree with Loburt on this Kungnoi...you really should have known better. Why don't you ask your little friend what he did to get himself banned before looking to cast blame? Listen to his version and then ask Admin...or one of us. We love spilling dirty secrets.

P.S - If mods had the power to view member's private messages I'd have stepped down and left TF for the blatant rape of privacy. We cannot do that.

Actually that wasn't directed at Kungnoi. I deleted the comment because I'm not sure I want to be offering fakers an explanation. Far cry from bragging I assure you.

Admin is the person to ask about that, but as far as I know, a mod will always be able to PM you. If people could block PMs from mods, then all the scammers from nigeria and so on would have to do is block all the mods and go on a spamming rampage. No, as far as I know, we can always have contact with members. Ok, so we have one super power.

Oh, and we can fly and leap tall buildings. But we only do that when nobody is looking.

And I glow in the dark, too! So I'm very handy to have around when the power goes out.

well done...

i think admin is the only one who can give free premium, he only gives to friends,family,cousins,nephews, cats, dogs, and former room mates.So noyna was definatly full of crap