zeusbheld Posted September 28, 2004 Report Share Posted September 28, 2004 i think one way or another, long distance or same town, u gotta get 2 know the person really well. no shortcut in my opinion. my only experience with long distance, i met the girl first, spent time with her, and then had to go away for a while. lasted 9 months. long distance wasn't the problem. and if one person lives in new york, they can find many cheap phone cards. i know some ppl have decided they have a relationship b4 they meet face to face, they are very brave in my opinion, i could never do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted September 28, 2004 Report Share Posted September 28, 2004 SPRITE, tell us how ya really feel. come on, don't hold back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
namie_so_lovely Posted September 28, 2004 Report Share Posted September 28, 2004 Long distance is just a temporary obstacle, if you can get through it, then your love will be stronger !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beautiful_angel Posted September 28, 2004 Report Share Posted September 28, 2004 Actually I don't believe in long distance...but finally happened to myself...I accepted it...and I am trying to make it work...yes,its very difficult..I need to be with my bf all the time...need him to be by my side...everything seems good and we get along... the most important is believe in LOVE and believe in yourself that you can make it..being faithful to yourself and to your bf/gf...one day, we will be together, not being apart that long.... be strong !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jayjay37uk Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 The thing that you can really miss in an LDR is the close personal contact, not just talking about the sex here, you know what you have had a hard day and just want someone to be there for you, thats what you can really miss about LDR's. Sprite is quite correct LDR's are really difficult and often don't work well, you return to each other as strangers. How do you cope if you both have a high sex drive??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbykha Posted November 16, 2004 Report Share Posted November 16, 2004 Only Trust each other that will help U kha!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rosy2u2 Posted November 26, 2004 Report Share Posted November 26, 2004 Yes, I do believe in LDR na...but can't be too long not to be together aswell! Just be faithful and keep in touch, everything will be just fine , but it hurts alot sometimes too ... :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maggie_babegirlo Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 It poses some real problems, but nothing that can't be overcome. It does take maturity and the "right" sort of people to handle that situation. Certainly helps if you have cash flow for lots of travel..and untimately someone has to relocate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lace Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 "..and untimately someone has to relocate" NO they don't. you can have the best of both worlds....as you said nothing can't be over come, you just have to be able to handle the situation. Cash flow...yes, kind of a given...but it would seem the reason for NOT moving would be work/ busnines...ergo cash flow is not the main problem. But what do I know??heehee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rubkordaikrab Posted December 19, 2004 Report Share Posted December 19, 2004 while you are away some one else is living in your house if you know what i mean. It does not work never going to work never have worked and i never going to do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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