methedevdas Posted September 14, 2004 Report Share Posted September 14, 2004 My girlfriend came over last night. We were just hanging out and we kind of get into a tickle fight then from there the lips locked and things got heated. Clothes started to come off and she asked me if i had ever had sex, i said no... she said she hasnt either, but wants to and she knows it will hurt.. im just wondering if there is anything i can do for her sake? i know she is still willing but i thought i would see if i can do anything for her to make it not soo bad? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dojib854 Posted September 14, 2004 Report Share Posted September 14, 2004 The best thing you could do is don't stop and post a question in TF. It sounds like when things get heated you hit the pause button and say "Hang on baby I will check with TF" . We all screwed up in the beginning. Nothing wrong with that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dojib854 Posted September 14, 2004 Report Share Posted September 14, 2004 Eddie_b suggested that you get one of these instruction videos or DVD's. Try to find the ones that are rated XXX wich mean they are Xtra Xtra Xplanatory. Enjoy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
methedevdas Posted September 14, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2004 The best thing you could do is don't stop and post a question in TF. It sounds like when things get heated you hit the pause button and say "Hang on baby I will check with TF" . We all screwed up in the beginning. Nothing wrong with that! lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dojib854 Posted September 14, 2004 Report Share Posted September 14, 2004 methedevdas! Just go for it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
methedevdas Posted September 14, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2004 methedevdas! Just go for it! 8) Thanks ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ngairo Posted September 14, 2004 Report Share Posted September 14, 2004 you could ring your local Citizens Advice Bureau......I think they may be more experienced than anybody on TF..........I don't think sex is a common thing on TF.......they are more inclined to talk about it......but good luck anyway and hope neither of you suffer any great ecstasy.........sorry ...I mean injury..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BobSFO Posted September 14, 2004 Report Share Posted September 14, 2004 Go slow, be gentle, a lot of foreplay and lubricant, and stop if she is in to much pain. Good luck... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Koy_Tuo Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 I remember....college...first time. I so scared later that everyone knew just be looking at me...lol Just be kind and gentle...It help to tell her you love her too..lol. Sometime it help if you in pool or bath to lubricate...just not drown... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loburt Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Well, if you're not into aqua sex, then a little KY will smooth things over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pauld Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 But mate, c'mon ........ The woman of your dreams is staring into your eyes with "that look", taking (tearing?) off your clothes, breathing like she just done a 100 metre sprint ..... and you stop her and say you wanna talk about it :shock: Sorry, I have to admit, you'd be a "better" man than I. Also, if she was in the elevated state of love and lust that is indicated, I really dont think lubrication is gonna be an issue, unless she has a medical problem :? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dojib854 Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Dont do it! Wait until you are marrried. Would you buy a new car without a testdrive? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marcoamericano Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 this story can't be true...if so, marry her already Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pierre_cardin Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Well, if you're not into aqua sex, then a little KY will smooth things over. A little more cud really Slide things in his direction... :twisted: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
methedevdas Posted September 16, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 16, 2004 dont forget to film it so we can all see how it went ! 8) lol..... lol... i will Film it..when i Become Professinal..Ok? :oops: But i dont want. to be.. Just test my self ~ :wink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
methedevdas Posted September 16, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 16, 2004 Actually the best advice I can give is to go slow.. I mean sex is wonderful, but its not everything.. (like some might think) I mean dont get me wrong...I looooove sex.. but I also know that there is more to the relationship then sex.. Talk to her.. make sure you are both ready to take it to that level.. maybe she might want to wait till she marrys and just wants to please you.!!Think about things.. Remember you can do many other things sexually that still keep her virginity intact. Bottom line is.. take your time.. and remember cummunication is the key!! Good luck to you both!! Thanks Man~ :wink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
methedevdas Posted September 16, 2004 Author Report Share Posted September 16, 2004 Make sure you Don't get her pregnant !!!C Dont yu worry~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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