zeusbheld Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 "why do some women hit their men?" training to audition for thai soap operas? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 ....the cultural backlash for doing it isn't a strong enough deterant. i haven't noticed asian men as being any more violent than men from anywhere else, so i believe that has a lot to do with it. not just cultural backlash but legal prosecution. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 thanks, no one hitting me.( I left the one who does. )Infact is in Thailand happen a lot with Thai men.(One time I see on the street.) I just curious and want to know how you guys control when you phisically stronger. It is not about who is stronger, at least for those of us who don't beat women. For me it is about why would I want to hurt the person I love? Unless someone does something so outrageous as to make me very very angry, there is no anger to control. Maintaining a cool heart always provides a better solution than getting angry anyway. If you can remember that you will always win one way or another. This is really hard to express without seeming like a bad guy to some, but it may not always be the man's fault. Some women will test their limits just as children do until they find the point where they can't push the guy around anymore. The woman in this case becomes very abusive especially to the man who has a legally binding marriage license. The animals inate response is fight or flight when it comes to the point of confrontation. The man feels trapped in the corner. He wants so much to preserve the relationship but he cannot because he is hearing all kinds of demands and nagging and verbal abuse. He cannot easily escape, and he gets frustrated and in an effort to save the relationship will hit the woman to try to put her in her place rather than abandoning her. I am not condoning the hitting of women, but I understand some guys who do it. I have been pushed a few times to the point where I considered it (only momentarily). But I decided just had to leave the psycho biatch and pick up the pieces of my broken heart and move on with my life without her. Violence solves nothing. It only escalates. well i've dealt with psycho ******* before and it occurs to me that i'm enough bigger than them that if i hit them hard enough i could injure them severely in a hurry. i haven't dated any well-trained martial artists (a couple of jockettes, though) and really wouldn't be physically intimidated by them. i dont think "putting her in her place" works it just makes her more of a psycho. and "putting her in her place" means you're playing her psycho-game too, and you've crossed the line--if you do this, then congratulations! you're a nut job too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 My mates sister in law just went back to her ex after one year apart she left him because he repeatedly knocked her about.This girls mother says some maybe she likes the attention she gets after she gets knocked about. You cant really help a girl like this, who wont help herself. She might think he change .... Like my best friend said "First time is shame on him second is shame on her." if she believes he will change, then her psychological problems are at least as severe as his. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle Posted October 31, 2006 Report Share Posted October 31, 2006 if your hitting each other then something is wrong, unless of course if its because the handcuffs are on too tight :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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