If you have a very good friend of the opposite sex who you have known for 3 years, who suddenly professes that she is in love with you (after she has just broken up with her boyfriend), would you;

- as a guy make the move?

- as a lady think she is on a rebound?

depends on your long-term or short-term goal.

just broken up?.....never make a move on a gurl who is on a rebound...unless ur goal is a weekend shag.

Just be there for her...

To make it quick: I think she is on the rebound just a though

depends if her breaking up with her boyfriend was because maybe she had strong feelings for you and wanted to make something of it.

but ya .. take it slow... if its rebound it will fade over time.. don't give in to anything big and she will let you know how serious it is with time.

When girls break up woth a real love, their brains short circuit for a while

Just be nice and wait for her senses to return

Don't take aedvantage of her temporary insanity

{sabaisabai} weekend shaggggg....ahrrrrr, there is an great idea (just kidding), I hear what you are saying dude...I am prepared to lose a very good friend over a quick shag!

{Dr Sassy} I thought you were going to prescribed something - thought you were going to say go for it...considering that the five of you ladies was sharing a room and plenty of Vodka last night with Punisher.

{Ghee} she is in her mid 20's (she will kill me if I tell anyone her exact age), she is very intelligent and like everyone else, love is irrational and blinds us....guess I am not in love becoz I am still rational!!

{g0mer} oh, she always had strong feelings for me as a friend becoz she always tell me I am always there for her, how much better as a person I was, etc...but the love confession from her came out tonight in a phone call...certainly took me by surprise! Certainly gave me something to think about!

{superskater} Yes, wise words like the rest of the commentators above, I have decided to pull back and let her cool off...not interested in losing a very good friend.

Oops, mistake.....{sabaisabai}...I mean I am not prepared to lose a very good friend.....damn, I am losing it....the stress of it all....

I certainly need a cold shower now.

cosmo.. I hope you dont become her cuddle *****. the fate worse than death

shuddering at the thought of it

Shes on the rebound, so let her make a move on you.....then she cant blame you!!

cosmo.. I agree with g0mer. If she is your good friend, just be there for her. Time will tell...

Oh, it is so good after a shower.

{paddy26}....you are right mate, I am becoming the cuddle *****..oh sh*t!

{hawyadobber}....buddy, she has already made all the moves, now she is thinking I am rejecting her too! Guess I should call her to clarify....and I don't think she will blame me, I have known her for 3 years, she tells me more about herself than she has ever told her family or ex b/f.

{sirakarn}....thanks for the advice, you are right, if I was any sort of a friend, I should not take advantage of her when she is in this situation.

hard to say, some people fall in love quickly after broke up if she was not serious for her ex.

for ur case, better dont make the decision yet till shes totally calm down.just take time to know more what both of u really want.:-)

//Cosmo [ 5 August 2006 | 9:12PM ] Oops, mistake.....{sabaisabai}...I mean I am not prepared to lose a very good friend.....damn, I am losing it....the stress of it all....//

calm down player! go out and spend some quality time together....relax. You havent lost anything (yet). (",)

I'd be absolutely delighted if one of my long-term lady friends expressed a romantic interest in me, provided that I also had a spark that could be ignited. I can think of no better way to have a rock-solid foundation for a great relationship!

you really drama in deed heheeh Van hehe

ahh i get it she must be the lady u told me before right??? thai girl i don't know what going on with u and ur friend but very hard to explain feelling between friend and lover ja she have thing in common with u or not?? or u just feel inlove easy if someone very nice to u?what u really want from ur partner??... Mai roo si hahha but what wrong with me why i need to come back every year to read ur journal heheh so silly me drama again and again