There's a great difference between the two. Both involve the same physical kind of contact but with different levels of emotional attachment and feelings...

Which one do you prefer?

Which one do you do more often?

Like to get some girls' feedback..

Well, prefer both, but generally the prior is what a newlywed experiences. I don't know, maybe in 7-10 years it will be a different story.

See the Sex Fairy Journal from RC as a health guide companion to HBKBKK question.

Well the guys answer are as expected. The girls are pretty quiet...

What does the girls have to say about this?

Well, I'm going to be the dissenter here. Sharing your physical being with someone you're emotionally or spiritually engaged with, or in love with if that's how you want to put it, is the far superior experience. And that sharing doesn't end when the physical deed is done.

Nonetheless, just plain old great sex can be great fun. And even guys who are in love and making love, still want the occasional hot, meaningless sexual escapade. Sorry ladies, but that's the way we're wired. It doesn't mean, however, that we all act on those urges. Although most men, at some point in their lives, do. And increasingly, so do women.

hbkbkk, good question. I think both are natural, but one is a bit more special when love is involved. As for my choice? Well...?

Hey thaibeast, hahaha!!

i'll take it any way i can get it. can't they both be one in the same?

hbkbkk, curious to hear what your thoughts are on the topic?

Moving foward, a couple of my thoughts in regards to the replies above:

People here seem to be confusing the basis of great sex and linking it to whether or not a person is in love or not in love with their partners. imo, it's not that black and white. Great sex stems from great passion, whether you're truly in love or not.

Also, "quikies" carry certain primal benefits, but done to often, and it can be detrimental.

I plan on elaborating on both topic in my journal at a later time.

Sex is an emotional experience for women... She wants to know the guy she's sleeping with doesnt just look at her as some conquest :-)

I don't know where you got that from 2unique. You're reading it wrong. That's not what I said.