Sometimes we need this feeling from our partner... cuz some people say.... jealous is a sign of love feeling.......but sometimes cuz of it also can make the relationship over....so i wanna ask u guys.......what is the limit of jealousy???? in what way we can be jealous to our partner? and do u need your partner to be a jealousy? Thank You ^ _ ^  

hmmm . . . tough call. Some jealousy in a relationship is very much like flattery. It shows you how strong your feelings are for your partner. On the other hand, you have to be careful not to be over-possessive. This is when the relationships usual come to a firey end. It's just another one of those uncontrollable emotions that really needs to be controlled.

Whiskers you are a man of my own heart and every thing you say is true and I could not agree more!

Jealousy is a lowsy feeling, you should be with a partner that brings out the good qualities in yourself and vis-versa! I think it's natural, best to not show it's often ugly head though, it is really unattractive. Some people try to evoke it, that's just NOT cool. If you feel jealousy you have to look at the symptoms, you might find it's a different problem altogether. As for limits.... Hmmmm, when it becomes a problem you've reached the limit! Very good question for sure!

echy can I ask you a question? Can a woman be jealous for various reasons?

Maybe not love,but frightened some one else could take the man?

There is no limit to jealousy......

you can use it to what extent you choose.....

jealousy is really a sickness.....or a fault in nature that most of us possess

PIANT >>>>> u are my master of love hahhaa... learnnnnnnnnnn lol....

BJ >>>>>>well.....hmmmm..... u make me confuse hahaha............from my own experience .....gubraaaaaak hmmm.... honestly.... i am a jealousy girl but i think it's normal 4 me although seems my eks get annoyed....well of course i am afraid someone else will take him (MY LOVE) away from me.... but don't u think it's cuz i have love feeling to him?????

WHISKER >>>> there is another question from ur comment .... how to controll it??? well if u get mad or upset to someone maybe u can go to shower and wash your head until u calm down..what about jealous??? tie his hand and his feet on the bed so he can't go to anywhere??? lol.....

i think jealousy does show love, IN SMALL MEASURES. i also believe that jealousy it very, very destructive as it shows lack of trust and confidence in your relationship.

Try to leave all jealousy behind!!! i dont think jealousy is necessary or acceptable really. better to tell your partner that you trust him/her and love him/her and try to act in a way that doesnt cause jealousy. takes time, understanding, but i think it is much easier to survive a relationship wear jealousy doesnt rear it's ugly head!

I think there is no definitive answer to this, but if you look at jealousy as an isolated phenomena (without the background story), it is indeed an egoistic feeling..

Jealousy is an emotion!! You cannot deny it . . . even if you hide it. Some people hide it very well . . . but don't be fooled. . . it is in ALL of us. It has more to do with confidence in ourselves rather than confidence in the relationship. The more sure of ourselves we are. . . then the more confident we are . . . which means less jealousy. If someone tells you they never get jealous . . . you cannot believe them . . . they are in denial.

Jealousy isn't love. It's a feeling of inadequacy and lack of confidence/trust.

When in a relationship, I don't want my partner to be jealous, and I don't want to feel jealous of her either. But it depends a lot on your partner's behaviour too. If he or she is very flirty and "keeps his/her options open", you are going to have a tough time.

Jealous can help your partner feel more valuable

but it kill you while youself for lack of trust and belive on your lover

what is the limit of jealousy????>>>>>> You can use my method : (Trusting + Loving + how your partner treat you) = your partner fault

This disease is at plague levels in Indonesia....Not just with relationships, as you know. Start a trend in Jakarta and don't go there!

And...have a happy day ; )

as long as its not too much or totally unreasonable then is fineand cute...

BALIBATMAN >>>>>>>>>>>>>>> i JUSt Booked a ticket to ireland... Gonna KILLLLLLLLLL u sooon ).....

KuNgNOI >>>> wow new method huh??? lol

WHISKER >>>> agree with you

OTHERS >>> thanks the comment guys... hope can change me a lil bit about jealousy lol...

I'm super jealous kind of girl :-p

Beat me....beat me...stop it... I like it!