many ppl might have been cheated by someone they loved, it must be hurting a lot as well.

me too, i have been cheated as well... one of them cheated on me with a girl then dumped me as to get married with her... i hated him but then.. he sent me an email.. an extreact is:

"To say goodbye to someone is never easy. Before I do I just want to appologize for hurting you and lying to you. I have found true love and I am happy. I hope you do too. but in order to continue to build the relationship between my wife and I, I have to take some steps, that are not always easy. I am not saying good-bye because she is mean, immature, or anything else. I am doing it out of my own free will because I lied and caused this problem. I put her in a place where she has to wonder. She can see my e-mails, and she knows I am faithful, but she doesn't want to be lied

to, hurt, or even have a mental competition. Every woman wants to be the one and only, and every woman should have that from the one she loves. I haven't given her that 100%. And now I will. She is the love of my life and she deserves it. "

i was so touched for his wife after reading it. if lying to me would make him feel quilty and turn to be good to his next one. i hope everyone who cheated on me would find their true one soon and be faithful to her... to enjoy their life and be happy forever!

Also, i wish that my LOVE~Andrew would be faithful to me without being one of those who lied to me.

you have a very mature attitude...how could anyone not be faithful to you?!?!

Very good outlook on this mandy_c. Although i think besides guilt, he also has some ego to work on.

I agree with bobbyboy, you have a very good outlook. Better than most would have. I'm not impressed by him though. Sounds like he ended his relationship with you by lying and began his new relationship with a lie. Finally, after marriage he decides to tell the truth. He sucks!

thank you very much u guys. it's so sweet and kind of u.

im not angry of him anymore becuase... right now, i have someone that i really love and hope that he would treat me right and stay true.

i am not as kind as u guys may think. i used to hate him so much for what he had done to me as well... anyway.. take care and hope all of u will find ur true love soon; if u have had one... then... stay true!!!

Love can make you happy but often times it hurts, but love is only special when you give it to who its worth.

Dragon Heart