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.......and then things went terribly wrong!

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   I would like to say that things went great today.......however,  I had to deal with an issue with this lady I had recently began to see.  To be more to the point, I had to let this lady know that things did not seem to be "clicking" between us and I thought it would be better if we simply remained friends and nothing more ( boy was this easier said than done!!! ).    I had just finished work and I don't know why, but I should have seen this coming "a mile away".   Seems this lady "ambushed" me in the parking lot of my work place ( wich just happens to be a state correctional facility!!! ) and wanted to talk......Immediately.  Not wanting  to cause a commotion, I asked her to het into my car and drove off hoping to calm things down a bit as she seemed a little "upset".  Without going into too much detail, I told her that after much thought,  and seeing that I had just come out of a 5 year relationship, I was just not ready to commit to a really serious relationship with her and told her that I did not want to "lead her on on" and waste her time.  I told her that although that is what I wanted, I would like to remain friends with her......no luck!!!!!     After expressing my thoughts,  the look on this lady COMPLETELY  changed.  It did not take a rocket scientist to figure out that things were about to go bad.....fast!!!!!!  Her tone of voice immediately got loud and she started shouting "take me to jail....I want to kill someone!!!!! " (not good by any ones standards).  After hearing this I really wanted to get this "person" THE HELL OUT OF MY CAR!   Lucky for me, I was in a part of Honolulu that I knew pretty well and took off down the street at an extreem speed.......right to the Honolulu Police sub-station. Needless to say I exited my vehicle very quickly and asked for the assistance of one of the officers.  I asked the desk officer (who actually turned out to be a friend of mine......what a coincidence!!!!) If he could remove this now hysterical lady from my front seat......he did.  What a commotion this caused, really degrading and embarrasing.  This lady was yelling and screaming at the top of her lungs and telling me that if this were Thailand it would not happen like this.  Sorry to say that I had to remind her that this was NOT Thailand and at this point she was acting like a @#*#ing idiot.     The officer asked her for her I.D. and told me that it was O.K. for me and to just go.  The last thing I saw as I drove down the street and looking in my rear view mirror was this small Thai lady running at top speed, srcreeming, crying and showing me that "one finger salute".    I've heard before that Thai ladies have "hot" tempers,  I certainly hope that this is not the "norm".  I guess some people just  take things badly.  
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   I would like to say that things went great today.......however,  I had to deal with an issue with this lady I had recently began to see.  To be more to the point, I had to let this lady know that things did not seem to be "clicking" between us and I thought it would be better if we simply remained friends and nothing more ( boy was this easier said than done!!! ).    I had just finished work and I don't know why, but I should have seen this coming "a mile away".   Seems this lady "ambushed" me in the parking lot of my work place ( wich just happens to be a state correctional facility!!! ) and wanted to talk......Immediately.  Not wanting  to cause a commotion, I asked her to het into my car and drove off hoping to calm things down a bit as she seemed a little "upset".  Without going into too much detail, I told her that after much thought,  and seeing that I had just come out of a 5 year relationship, I was just not ready to commit to a really serious relationship with her and told her that I did not want to "lead her on on" and waste her time.  I told her that although that is what I wanted, I would like to remain friends with her......no luck!!!!!     After expressing my thoughts,  the look on this lady COMPLETELY  changed.  It did not take a rocket scientist to figure out that things were about to go bad.....fast!!!!!!  Her tone of voice immediately got loud and she started shouting "take me to jail....I want to kill someone!!!!! " (not good by any ones standards).  After hearing this I really wanted to get this "person" THE HELL OUT OF MY CAR!   Lucky for me, I was in a part of Honolulu that I knew pretty well and took off down the street at an extreem speed.......right to the Honolulu Police sub-station. Needless to say I exited my vehicle very quickly and asked for the assistance of one of the officers.  I asked the desk officer (who actually turned out to be a friend of mine......what a coincidence!!!!) If he could remove this now hysterical lady from my front seat......he did.  What a commotion this caused, really degrading and embarrasing.  This lady was yelling and screaming at the top of her lungs and telling me that if this were Thailand it would not happen like this.  Sorry to say that I had to remind her that this was NOT Thailand and at this point she was acting like a @#*#ing idiot.     The officer asked her for her I.D. and told me that it was O.K. for me and to just go.  The last thing I saw as I drove down the street and looking in my rear view mirror was this small Thai lady running at top speed, srcreeming, crying and showing me that "one finger salute".    I've heard before that Thai ladies have "hot" tempers,  I certainly hope that this is not the "norm".  I guess some people just  take things badly.  
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Dan501

Hi Afook06,

Believe it or not, she hasn't been here all that long....no more than 3-4 years!!! As a matter of fact she had just received her "permanent resident alien" card. Needless to say I needed a few beers after this day was done.....lol

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Dan501

Hey casper100, I think this probably rates as one of my worst experiences!!!! Believe me that there was no indication that she was like this when I first met her....lol

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afook06

Involved with her, meaning sex, and afterwards, put on your pants and said see ya around girl? Sounds like a lot of similar stories in Thailand, and maybe broken promises and lies and pack up and leave...You're lucky she did have a gun in her purse! Now , we just have to hear the other side of this story........lol

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Dan501

Hi Afook,

No, this was not a "one night stand" ........mmmmmmmmm, although thinking back, I probably would have been better off...lol Oh, and trust me...had she had a gun, you probably would have been reasding of my death in tomorrows Honolulu Advertiser!!!!!

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BJ

Why would you after 5 years only see this type of behaviour?

I have had a bad experience also but wasn't until after I married the female I learned she was an alcoholic and even passed a medical in Thailand with sclerosis of the liver which indicated she was an alcoholic.

Any way good you seen the bad behaviour and took action.

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afook06

Dan: I never read obituaries, and I don't get the Honolulu Ad on a daily basis, just weekends........I probably would have heard about your tragic end from TF's..........haha..........be careful, she maybe stalking you, I hope you didn't take her to the shooting range? lol

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babyoiy

To be more to the point, I had to let this lady know that things did not seem to be "clicking" between us.

I told her that after much thought, and seeing that I had just come out of a 5 year relationship, I was just not ready to commit to a really serious relationship with her and told her that I did not want to "lead her on on" and waste her time. I told her that although that is what I wanted, I would like to remain friends with her......no luck!!!!!

I might ask, for how long since you first met her till the time you realised that you are not ready to be in serious relationship?

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