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Ex-CitiChic-to-be


babyoiy

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Today I made a final decision and told my boss that I'm leaving. I don't know what's going on but suddenly everyone just pointing at me for any ****. Since my dear bossy left, no more the one whom can be the back up of the whole team. My new boss came here to build up a stronger team so he's playing the God role, real management which I won't say it's easy. However, for some unknown reason, I have been monitored like I'm a 5 years old kid. I was told lately that what I have been doing for years isn't what I supposed to do. WTH! My boss asked me something and I was like "huh?!?!?!?" What happened? why he said so? It beens awhile already that I don't feel like I'm a part of the team anymore, and that's the most important factor that made me enjoy working with this team a lot so when I couldn't feel it how can I stand working with the feeling like this? In August, I will celebrate my 3rd anniversary with this firm. But now what I got after all is no one in my team appreciated what I have done but blame me for every damn thing. I can't stand this. I'm all done and I had more than enough. No rush to find new job, I need a break... Now I still working, at least till end of May. I don't know the effective date yet. But what I know is my aunt coming in July so by that time I should be free and can join her holidays.. :D 
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Today I made a final decision and told my boss that I'm leaving. I don't know what's going on but suddenly everyone just pointing at me for any ****. Since my dear bossy left, no more the one whom can be the back up of the whole team. My new boss came here to build up a stronger team so he's playing the God role, real management which I won't say it's easy. However, for some unknown reason, I have been monitored like I'm a 5 years old kid. I was told lately that what I have been doing for years isn't what I supposed to do. WTH! My boss asked me something and I was like "huh?!?!?!?" What happened? why he said so? It beens awhile already that I don't feel like I'm a part of the team anymore, and that's the most important factor that made me enjoy working with this team a lot so when I couldn't feel it how can I stand working with the feeling like this? In August, I will celebrate my 3rd anniversary with this firm. But now what I got after all is no one in my team appreciated what I have done but blame me for every damn thing. I can't stand this. I'm all done and I had more than enough. No rush to find new job, I need a break... Now I still working, at least till end of May. I don't know the effective date yet. But what I know is my aunt coming in July so by that time I should be free and can join her holidays.. :D 
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i dont know if i support this. Especially with this kind of economy... it's better to have an income than no income at all. Would recommend you to look around for a new job opportunity first. Otherwise, get a promised job before you quit.

I know i'm not one of those who'd tolerate anything either. But i never quit job to sit around doing nothing. To love your job is important. Comfort in work place is one thing. Security in life is another. How are u suppose to support your lifestyle?

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Agree with OutofOrder..

Looking for the new job now is not mean you will get the job soon (of course, I mean the good job you like). So, Start looking for a job now!!

I often to thinking about to quiet my job..but always think as OutofOrder+ I can't find other job which offer me a lot of chance as my recent job..

So, I'm still here for 6 years!!! Too long already

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I have to agree with OutOfOrder..

You should at least make sure you have a job lined up... Hating your job, and not having fun at your job, is way different than just not having a job. Not having a Job is the worst situation possible.

I don't know what it's like to Job hunt in Thailand, but I imagine, it can't be easy to pick up a good job so quickly, no?

So unless you have some sort of ridiculous amount of money stashed away.Which you can live off of for awhile. I'd start hunting for a new job right now. So you can quite, spend time with the aunt, and than start your new job. [:

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My CV is updated.. It doesn't matter if I get a new job before I quit this one. If I have to stay when I hate to do just because I have to for my own financial that will make me feel even worse, stay coz I got no choice!!! That's not my way. When I had enough it's meant enough. I started looking for new job but as I said no rush which mean I'm not going to start working suddenly after I quit this one (which I dont know yet when). And surely, I have to make a plan to live without getting any penny for awhile. Possibly I will get some money when I quit but not sure how much anyway, my decision will remain the same whether I got any money or not.

I hear you Pam, but I will take it as a holidays not just sitting around doing nothing. I need to relief my brain. In Financial world, thing is pretty tense so let me! You can be sure that I plan thing well before doing anything. You should know, we rarely agree when it come to career.

I'm stubborn and I made decision in my life by myself always since I grew up, once I speak out like this, there is nothing to stop me and I dont even need to consult my aunt coz I'm 200% sure with my decision. If I wasn't I would have discuss with my aunt already, she knows how I'm like. I used to rang her and said I gonnaquit my job but when I did that it meant I was just lost my mind and didnt think carefully enough butnot this time, seriously.

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i wont bother trying to change your mind, im just doing the portion of a decent advice... just so i wont have to feel bad that i didn't say anything . its not my problem, really.

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It doesnt matter if I got a job or not to apply visa, I will have my aunt be my guarantor... even if I have a job I dont think I will get visa from my own documents anyway. Platinum... lol I want HSBC one, I like how it looks...

No worries Pam, I will only blame myself if anything went wrong. And yeah we rarely agreed in anything..

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The first part of Green Teas advice is brilliant and very true.

The second half is total rubbish.............. my money is with HSBC in Bangkok, and the thought of Oiy looking after it scares me.

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OOps??? Beej got HSBC account??? OH really? hmmm... Unbelieveable..... lol...... :P

oh yes.... Oiy.. so i think we can hang out together soon.. na

coz i have no job too... *this month.. so im free for whole month.... lol.......

i wanna see you in real ...

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I have been through similar situation a few months before. I understand you perfectly where you're coming from. I did the same thing, quit my job before i turned out to kill someone at work or set it on fire.

And i also have been through what Green_Tea describe above. I completely lost my power and position in negotiating (salary and benefit) with the new job that i want (when i have had all the experiences and qualification they're looking for) I just happened to be a bum who desperately needed a job at that time... And after doing nothing for a month, although i wasnt struggling with my financial and go out travelling but for the fact that you have been used to working everyday before and ur money is disappearing everyday, at some point it will drive u crazy and tense that u'll automatically tell urself to go get a job right now and thats the time u might make a wrong decision in taking not very good job or offer out there because it happens to be the first opportunity for you.

Anyway, I have been through it and i believe you will as well. Just take it as a reward holiday for been working hard in the past and respect your feelings for not putting up with whatever it wastes ur positive energy out there. Oddly but true that the experience of being a jobless before has taught me to appreciate the job that i have now like i never did with any job before and the value of money and how important to have a saving in an emergency case like that... and the magic of getting up early to work again... :P

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I like your comment, Ammy, after read it, I think of my aunt suddenly. She will said anything that make me stop and thinking carefully once again. She never told me to go right or left but she will somehow got me to do the right thing. I think it's because she show that she believes in me, trust me, respect in my decision and thoughts for what I'm doing or going to do. But there are sometime that she asked me if I lost my mind e.g. when I told her to buy me a 5 mio condominium... LOL

Why people think that way that u are desperated and need a job (money actually)... Maybe it's just what they made u feel that they thought so or it's just the simple way to take advantage on you. I think it makes sense that after working hard for years, we need a break and from what I see, people always look so relax after holidays so it's good to start doing new job when your brain is all fresh. If anyone think that I go to them coz I'm all desperated then I wouldn't want to work with them anyway. Actually, I was asked to take over a job at other dept. in my company but I made up my mind already that if I leave my team then I will leave the firm, not moving to other dept esp* the dept that have to deal with my current team a lot. It's the EGO that I won't do anything to make me look like I got no choice (desperate) and I wont do thing I dont like either. It sounds unprofessional but that's babyoiy.

I gonna add one word in my about me section "stubborn".

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