Relationships don't die by themselves. We kill relationships with inappropriate words -- words from the head, not from the heart. - Larry James 

Sometimes we just hurt the one we love by words that have been said with head not heart !

There have been many times that i wish i had just kept my mouth shut and just my heart, mind and ears open...

Ace_of_Hearts>> if we know the result.. so we would learn from that tho' : )

Pandorea>> i ever thought about that too... Think first, then speak.... that means to use "head", right? .... then i was thinking about "rational" and "emotional" talking... i cant match it either... since i would match "rational" to "head" and "emotional" to "heart" .... then i tried to read between the lines (from the article) again...and in the article i found "As often as you can, speak only words of love".... ammm... i think i got it then...

and thank you for your compliment.. happy Loy Krathong ka

PeeMarc>> i think you couldnt keep your mouth shut all the time... just open it at the right time : )

Interesting words.

words spoken with love are not always rosy and flattery. But, if theyre spoken from real love in the heart they are honest in meaning and intention.

Problem is we say before we think, if we would only think before we say perhaps there would be no such thing as rude or bad words. Sometimes our heart will tell the truth of each person good or bad.

hmm agree

sad but true

To live a life of thinking about everything before speaking is impossible I think.

To go through life trying not to upset someone you were living with would cause you to go crazy.

Couples will always find something to disagree or argue about. Things said in the heat of the moment can be hurtful, but holding emotions inside can also hurt.

hmm, what's happened there? just try to be honest to your emotions.

i never hurtful by the truth

Pandorea>>

Q: What would hurt you more, sweet words of flattery and FAKE or unkind words that makes your teardrops start but totally honest?

A: i choose teardrops ka...

PeeMarc>> agree ka...