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I don't know about you..but I think it is amazing !!Being a parent, being a mother.My heart was torn in two when I heard of one student got injured when she was standing by door while other customers walked in and out.As soon as my manager knew, she took that poor little girl with her mother to the nearest hospital. There the girl had 10 stiches  on her finger and my heart was broken in pieces to know that she was a special child whose father left the family for another girl.My heart was broken when I heard the story. I could die if that was my own child just to hear her cry out in pain.Yesterday, I was babysitting a girl whose mother is a single mom and my best friend. I wanted to cry when I had her in my arms. I never felt so strong for someone like this before though I had worked with children but none of them had made me feel that way. When I wanted to love someone so much from my life and I felt how my best friend felt. When the girl rested her head on my chest, I felt nothing but she was a treasure. A beautiful treasure.And it is such a priviledge to be a parent. I was about to have that chance years ago when I was a bit too young, too naive and too playful. I asked myself if I didnt miscarry, would I be able to love my child as much as I think I would do now.  Whenever people comment about my best friend being a single mom... I always say....

" You have right to doubt her love, but shame on you for its that same kind of love that you have been given from your mother. "Unconditional LoveThis Sunday is my mother's birthday...Once, my aunt told me about how my mother carried a big load when she found that she was pregnant before marriage and my dad already had a fiancee..Those tears that she cried when her father cried because he was disappointed in her. But how strong she was for me. I don't want to say Happy birthday..I don't want to buy her flowers..I don't want to buy her cake.Just want to say "I love you too" and rest my head on her chest again like when I was just a girl.

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I don't know about you..but I think it is amazing !!Being a parent, being a mother.My heart was torn in two when I heard of one student got injured when she was standing by door while other customers walked in and out.As soon as my manager knew, she took that poor little girl with her mother to the nearest hospital. There the girl had 10 stiches  on her finger and my heart was broken in pieces to know that she was a special child whose father left the family for another girl.My heart was broken when I heard the story. I could die if that was my own child just to hear her cry out in pain.Yesterday, I was babysitting a girl whose mother is a single mom and my best friend. I wanted to cry when I had her in my arms. I never felt so strong for someone like this before though I had worked with children but none of them had made me feel that way. When I wanted to love someone so much from my life and I felt how my best friend felt. When the girl rested her head on my chest, I felt nothing but she was a treasure. A beautiful treasure.And it is such a priviledge to be a parent. I was about to have that chance years ago when I was a bit too young, too naive and too playful. I asked myself if I didnt miscarry, would I be able to love my child as much as I think I would do now.  Whenever people comment about my best friend being a single mom... I always say....

" You have right to doubt her love, but shame on you for its that same kind of love that you have been given from your mother. "Unconditional LoveThis Sunday is my mother's birthday...Once, my aunt told me about how my mother carried a big load when she found that she was pregnant before marriage and my dad already had a fiancee..Those tears that she cried when her father cried because he was disappointed in her. But how strong she was for me. I don't want to say Happy birthday..I don't want to buy her flowers..I don't want to buy her cake.Just want to say "I love you too" and rest my head on her chest again like when I was just a girl.

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My mum is a single mum too but I was with her only for 2 months then my grandma and my aunt (dad's side) stepped in. I'm not close with my mum at all, but yeah once in a year... I would say "thank you" to her.. on my b-day.

I can't imagine myself being a mother... it's a very big part and need lots of responsibility. But one day I might be... I don't know when I will be ready so maybe I will just let it happen like happy go lucky since I will never think that I'm ready but to have kid when u are old is not good for both urself and the kid so I'd say it might not be later than when I'm 32... not much time left from now...

I heard people say that they love their mum more when they became a mum themselves... yeah Im sure it must be amazing!!

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Uncondition love.... that's what I always get from my auntie... she's a wonderful woman and I miss her... I wanna hug her but never dare to do so and we only say I love u in letters/emails... I must try harder..

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a lovely story and I think that you will be a fantastic mum when the time comes Nave!! Just make sure you do what you thought on your mum's birthday; cuddle up on the sofa with youe head on her chest and say 'I love you mum.' Thanks for brightening the start of the week!! : )

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