Flashback to last couple years, I was taking Latin Ballroom dancing class at that time with a girl friend at gym every Sunday. 

One Sunday after class i told a friend that i cant go for after class hang out with her because i had to go to airport pick up a company’s guest from Sweden who had private trip to Cambodia 1 week before coming to work with my company. 

After I dropped him to his hotel, he asked if i free for dinner with him, I said okay but can i have a friend join us.  At that moment I just too lazy to making / having conversation. Going out with company’s guest never feel relax for me.  So, I called her out join us dinner. Guess what, they were hooked up ! I was so happy that i would not have to attach him to everywhere but just for work. 

They went out together some time during one week he stayed/worked with my company. 

After he left I talked with friend that if they would keep in touch and continue the friendship/relationship, she said she think this guy would just like to have her just as a “BKK PORT” I was not understand then she clarified. She said His role is the region manager he has to travel to many different countries in Asia Pacific he might has his girls in some others countries too and takes them like the port for his vehicle to be LANDING. 

She had funny view about it yet sad for me. 

I got that kind of experience...It was moment that I was a newbie of community websites. I knew some guys acted just like that. Right now, I learnt those thrick... She has very good EQ. Is she someone I know?

bC : Is she someone I know?

Navie : Not me !!!

to bK : it is sad ÃèÃ, it is so sad when a woman chooses to be 'chosen' !!! oh well I'm just too tough and too strange from the average..

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nice story. and good to relive it again and again and ...

this way you can feel sad about it forever

So, not only guys act like that...I know some businesswoman who also have a few lovers in few cities...everybody has a choice and a free will, dont u think so?

@ travelarven...No i dont think so, having relationship is emotion investment, I dont think anyone would be happy to be 'some kind of something' for choosing.

Why dont just think that we girl could use guy(s) for fun too.

@ bC...If you meant guys from websites, I think its hard to avoid wah as its too risky. But now, since you are nomore newbies what have happened..?? hehe

Q: is she the one I know ? A: you have met her ja.

@ Navie ... The guy might not choose even any port that he used to be landed. Friend made right decision to refused to be one of the ports. Dont be sad, you can change the word 'choose' to 'prefer'.

@ PJack... NOTHING on earth can makes/keeps me sad forever. NOTHING!

@ babyoiy...of course, you can.

@ bC...If you meant guys from websites, I think its hard to avoid wah as its too risky. But now, since you are nomore newbies what have happened..?? hehe

>> no more.. I know how to deal with those guys... The easiest way, just kick him away.

Posted by babyoiy [ 9 June 2009 | 7:26PM ]

Why dont just think that we girl could use guy(s) for fun too.

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I did and I still do.... well, but for sure this kind of fun is not what I want my kid(s) to have at all. That's telling me something (which is kinda too late).

I was tricked (twice time with same person) and I was so miserable and very angry at that guy and also cant help thinking that why I was so stupid to let him do it again. However, someone who didn't know me before but I rang her to ask for some help. She told me to calm down and let it go and said it's not worth to do all things coz I was very angry. She said, I might like him a lot enough, otherwise I won't be with him so just think that I had some good time and forgot about the loss of anything but think about what I gained and yes calm down.

Of course, my story is totally different from the story in your post just to make u understand a bit more about why I choose to think this way. I would say that it could be either I'm just a loser and don't want to accept the truth or I just choose to be positive on my own mistake.

if that relation is win-win, I never regret for them.

I'd say some guys/girls act like that, it depends on ppl's perspective.

ok. so, really. Did she fall for him or did he fall for her?