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Have you ever been in love?


Benjawankha

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 Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind.  

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 Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind.  

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and they say

- love hurts

- love sucks

- love is the most wonderful feeling

- love is a lie

- etc

I think it depends on that person's luck, karma, when-how love was created... frankly.. I'm not normally luck in love.... no matter how good I try

but ... good luck with the next one ja :)

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Is not horrible when it happens... you get those ideas after you reach conclusions on what went wrong. Just look for balance, not perfection. And always willing to adapt and accept, then you would be closer to the meaning of love.

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Dr SASSY.....>>>>>> thank you na kha .... but I think I am good for the next 5 years lol.....eeeyyyyy....by then I will have enough aging creams waiting for me too...

andon....>>>> thank you for advice kha...^&^... I think I am good for now......no more..not anytime soon!!!!

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^^....^^... I am happy for you kha Pee Sinenat....^^...^^ I will give myself 5 years to learn how to love and be able to have have just one Darling again...ooppp....^=^....ssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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buy a dog---unconditional love, only wants a little attention and to be feed an taken care of.

been truly in love 3 times it all ended in pain and heartbreak. the last time i even had to give my dog away i think that might have hurt as much as the relationship ending.

sometimes i think the human race is stupid for trying to maintain a loving relationship with each other

then i think of my grandparents who were married 43 years before my grandmother passed away. grandpapa never did remarry. they really did love each other.

thats what i would want

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trocks69>>>>>>>>wow......that is a beautiful couple.... I have a good role model myself . my mom and dad been married for almost 30 years now... but I cant even keep keep my married for more than 5 years lol...

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Love hurts

But sometimes it's a good hurt

And feels like I?m alive

Love sings

When it transcends the bad things

Have a heart and try me

Cause without love I won't survive...

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Love is an over used word.

Most people confuse love for desire. Even when both people desire eachother that is not necesarily love.

Love is something that comes with time understanding, through good times and bad.

This is just a temporary feeling you have and will pass with time. Let this person go as real love is something you share not something you own!

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