If you've ever wondered why you may be finding it difficult to find your perfect match, it may be time to analyze what it is you are offering.

The following questions are aimed at helping you discover your dateability. hahaha...

***Are you happy?***

People pick up on unconscious thoughts. If you're not happy, it is pretty safe to say you are permeating the air with your negativity. Find out what would really make you happy, and do it!

Positive people are people magnets. Find yourself and you may also find the other half you are looking for.(",)

***Do you say "my ex" more than 5 times a day?***

What's done is done. If you want a potential partner to remain interested, don't give off signs that you're still emotionally committed. Allow yourself the freedom to be free.

Sometimes it is easier to cling to the past than to face what is right in front of you. Don't let thoughts of an ex hold you back from enjoying your future!!!

***What are you doing for you?***

If you aren't engaged in any hobbies, self-improvement or other interests you may be giving signals that you will be overly dependent on a potential partner.

***Do you know what you want in a new partner?***

If you haven't taken the time to narrow this down, this could very likely be the reason you are without. When creating your list, be sure to include things you do not want as well. uumm...Mark off which things are red flags and which things you can live with. If you find an interest entering a red flag zone, do yourself a favor and look for someone else...

***Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship(s)?***

The first step to overcoming a problem is to realize there is one. If you haven't already, take an objective look at your past relationships and find out how you contributed to their demise.

------More questions to consider...

------Do you feel you may be too insecure?

------Are you focusing on the past more than you are focusing on the here and now or the future?

------Do you feel you may be overly critical or negative towards other people or life?

the most important is.....Would you date you? /////

I'd never date me!

how about i date you, huh!!!!!!

Please date me!!!! :-)

i have no hobbies! lol but i have date

I'm trainable , and willing to learn hahaha

please date gigabyte! He needs it!

" the most important is.....Would you date you? /////"

i'd never date myself but i'm not above having my way with myself.

Im a **** head!

This insecure guy is always ready ready for a date ( if she want a crazy guy to make her day... )......but I am not gay so I can´t - won´t date myself for sure! /// wink: wink:

i need a date leh!

me?... same w/ barfly....

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why bother with a date its to complicated and expensive,stay in pub and watch other relationships go down the hole.

If I was totally pissed, I might date myself. Since most of the ladies I meet are sober, I don't even expect them to consider me