Before i start this journal, i wanna let u know this is not another heart break story of myself. I write it in here cuz i really don't understand with somebody's life and their idea..

I know it's none of my business but .... it's so hard to keep my mouth shut...

A couple days ago i forgot my wallet on my desk, i tried to call my coworker, her name is "O" to keep it for me... i was so surprised that i couldn't reach her...

and in the morning i've got the answer from my friend, Chick, she saw Nong "o" was tearing her sim card and crying, oh yeah that's the same prob i guess

Nong "o" is the cutie and nice, but her BF sucks.. he is totally bad guy in my idea...He cheated on her so many times... and always hurt her.. i mean in physical naa such as slap her, hit her.. etc.

Nong O told me once, she got the phone call from her BF at 2 o'clock in the morning to pick him up cuz he was horny, Great, eh??

and this time he hit her at her house cuz she knew that her BF was cheating on her

So... what i said... "i know it's hard for u nong O but pls walk away from this guy, dump him for ur better life.... u should have someone else better than this beast"

nong O said "But i don't have someone else"

Me "No matter what u have someone or not, u should keep urself, ur time, ur mind, and ur heart for someone who love u, pls. Plus, if i was u i would tell the police about it"

I don't understand why she let this guy hurt her, i really don't get it.... is it cuz of LOVE??

well i don't have someone else, but i know it better to be alone then with some one that treats you like ****.

my story too personal to put up for the world to see

-- Sometime someone's life is too complicated for me to understand..:-( Im sorry for her 'O' hope she find the way out soonest...

There seems to be a "type" of person (both guys and gals) who seem to be happiest when they are abused (physically, verbally, and/or emotionally) and can be in a weaker position. If somebody treats me like crap, I leave. But that's because I'm just as happy to be by myself. Nong O could probably due with some professional counselling to teach her how to get out of these kinds of abusive relationships.

Physical abuse happens much more than most people know. I have a friend who has the same problem...her bf gets very violent when he gets upset. I've asked her many times why she doesn't dump him and her answer is that she's 30 already and is quite sure she won't find anyone else. Pretty lame, but she believes it.

Yes, I agree that "O" ought to dump him for sure. If she has no one else HE IS THE REASON WHY!

Sorry to hear that too.

If I were "O", I would dump him no matter how much I love him as I will never let the guy beats me but if he did ,I would give him knife in return!!

Love should have no harms

girls tend to be really dependent onces she's with someone. dependent emotionally is much worse than in other aspects. the only thing that one can do for her is to encourage her to be more secure about herself and realize that no one has the right to treat her like that no matter who they are.

hope u can talk her into something better in life!

thks for the comments here, no matter how i wanna help her, i can't do ... i'm just somebody else... SHE is the ONLY one who can solve this prob. hrrrrrrrrrr..... now he can't contact her on mobile phone.. hope she won't turn back to this bad guy again... (she always do)

breakofdawning...yes i talked to her yesterday... i said she was cute and nice girl pls dump this shitty, she had no one right now.. i thought the bright future is waiting for her....

she told me she had no one right now... i said i had no one as well, she was so surprised that i broke up with my BF already but never cried....(actually i did 5 mins)

we can take care ourselves if we have no one take care us...

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So... what i said... "i know it's hard for u nong O but pls walk away from this guy, dump him for ur better life.... u should have someone else better than this beast"

I think so ;-)

>> is it cuz of LOVE?? <<

Love always make ppl blind >,<