Loburt Posted October 5, 2004 Report Share Posted October 5, 2004 Well, I've got about 25 more years than you do of broken hearts and providing a shoulder for friends, male and female, who have had broken hearts. And from what I've seen and experienced, sorry to say it, but you're wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cerberus1264 Posted October 5, 2004 Report Share Posted October 5, 2004 :twisted: There is only one correct answer.....Hunt them down like the dogs they are and and shoot them with spit balls.....LOL :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loburt Posted October 5, 2004 Report Share Posted October 5, 2004 Well, you don't have to take my word for it, but it's true. But most people don't learn things by people telling stuff to them. They have to learn through their own experiences. I guess you'll have to have yours. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loburt Posted October 5, 2004 Report Share Posted October 5, 2004 I did, however, really enjoy the part of your answer that read: deeper ... deeper ... deeper... That really turned me on!!!! 325 on on the kinky test!!! LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loburt Posted October 5, 2004 Report Share Posted October 5, 2004 bkkbird, you're making a judgement based on one experience. I'm not saying your experience isn't valid, but it's one experience. Some people, both men and women, have thick skins. Others, of both sexes, don't. I've seen both men and women suffer greatly from broken hearts. Sometimes I think men actually suffer more, but I don't have any scientific data to back that up, so I'll leave it as we both suffer very badly sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 5, 2004 Report Share Posted October 5, 2004 bkk bird, some men have thicker skins, some are quite fragile. some women have thicker skins, some are quite fragile. this is something i dont think you can really make generalizations about... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 5, 2004 Report Share Posted October 5, 2004 bkk bird, what i'm saying is that not all men move on quickly, and some women do. there are some of each. and the masochistic ones of each gender tend to be good at finding the ones who will walk all over them, so the universe to them seems as though the opposite sex is nothing but predatory. i certainly know men who have been stuck on their ex for years, and women who have forgotten their ex 5 min after dumping them. (ummm... maybe i'm just that forgettable?). Well .... Loburt, Zeusbheld, and Celticcola....What I am saying is that ... we "women" are Masochist... This is so TRUE.. We are obsessed with our Ex for ages before we could be able to manage to move on... but for " Men" they just tend to move on very easily.... "The faster you forget us... the deeper you hurt us" Honestly, it hurts us "women' tremendously... as for us... it is like " We don?t mean anything to them at all... We don?t mean that much...? C Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plato Posted October 5, 2004 Report Share Posted October 5, 2004 i certainly know men who have been stuck on their ex for years, and women who have forgotten their ex 5 min after dumping them. (ummm... maybe i'm just that forgettable?). Hmmmmm probably ...... then we were in the same shoes... All I wanted... is to be remembered forever.... I am so adorable... how could someone manage to forget me in no time...... C Listen Babe I never forgot you! I just choose to ignore you! There is a difference! Yes you were my world Yes you are adorable Yes I did love you, but I changed and wanted different things. I felt trapped so I wanted to be free. That has nothing to do with you as a person but me and my need for change. Why can't you accept I just wanted to move on? I wish you well but leave our relationship in the past.Maybe some day we will be friends when it does not hurt so much. And yes I did hurt too. I am just over you I hope the same will be true for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted October 6, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 This is so TRUE.. We are obsessed with our Ex for ages before we could be able to manage to move on... but for " Men" they just tend to move on very easily.... P' C i didnt know u were wearing the same shoe as me. I think women are the same the fact that they're always obsessed with the one they love. thats why its ******* hard for us to forget the one we love easily. Guyz are probably different i guess.. they're stronger than us and they can just move on. I admit im myself so weak I need someone to support me to move on (Zeusbheld, u know what im talking about :wink: ) As i said, Im really obsessed with this love. I mean there's loadsa things indicated that he could be my last love. time will tell im sure. eric im pretty sure i received ur supporting msg once. i still havent had a chance to reply cos its been automatically deleted (sorry!) anyway thanks for all ur support and concern. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 f, whatever that daft boy does, u will survive, and u have a bright future on every level. u r very young, a LOT happens in life. listen to the wisdom of the ancients girl, and do what u need to do, but keep survivin'. it gets better. i've lost 4 soulmates so far :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted October 6, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 FILURINA--- LAST LOVE? GOING TO DIE SOON? Well i just hope he could be. to me, when I found someone that I love I want that love could last forever. I think everyone thinks the same. Who want to break up so many times and never know when they are gonna find their true love. To me, I'd rather work on my relationship as best as I can, to make it last forever. But if it doesnt really work out, I might have to let it go too. I thought he could be the one.. time will tell. ps Im not gonna die soon i cant die unless i find a true love. well i believe in true love. Miracle is all around Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ludovichus Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 :twisted: There is only one correct answer.....Hunt them down like the dogs they are and and shoot them with spit balls.....LOL :twisted: Nahhhhh... disagree.... No matter what they do ...I have no intention to hurt " MEN" ... They are adorable.. afterall C :wink: Not all of us are adorable some of us are jsut men Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 F: <PHEW> that sounds better, f. time will tell is the key. yeah, miracles *are* all around, but pay attention, they might be tiny, and one could miss them thinking of 'bigger' things... BKKBIRD: as for the 4 soulmates, i do believe in my case that it has been true. if one were to believe in past lives, (i won't say that i do, but just suppose) then that would explain it, wouldn't it... at any rate a sudden, strong and deep connection happened, 3 of them are still among my 4 best friends in the world (the other one a long sad story). FILURINA--- LAST LOVE? GOING TO DIE SOON? Well i just hope he could be. to me, when I found someone that I love I want that love could last forever. I think everyone thinks the same. Who want to break up so many times and never know when they are gonna find their true love. To me, I'd rather work on my relationship as best as I can, to make it last forever. But if it doesnt really work out, I might have to let it go too. I thought he could be the one.. time will tell. ps Im not gonna die soon i cant die unless i find a true love. well i believe in true love. Miracle is all around Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indman Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 If you can have them, then make sure no one can! Just remember to bury then 6ft under and hide the evidence Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 as far as my exes go, i had a choice to make---i could not be with them, wasnt an option. i chose to be friends with them. this was MUCH more difficult than putting them behind me and forgetting, and in order to survive this process i had to decide that i could NEVER get back together with them. i had to basically cut all romantic and sexual feelings for them out of my heart. i guess in a way it was the last thing i had to offer--there was some small way i could still be of use to them, give them something, even if it hurt like hell to do it. in the long run i feel much richer (too bad my bank account doesnt reflect this wealth). i dont think there is a right or wrong answer to how to get over someone, this is just what works for me. if i really loved them then i try to find a way to take that and turn it into a different kind of positive feeling, a different kind of love. I think I know what you mean... I am in love with my Partner...I am ALL his... But, a part of me... a deepest part inside of me, there is always a place for my EX.... a different kind of Love... My Ex is still insisting to be friends... but I couldn?t be able to keep him as my friend..as it hurts me tremendously seeing him moving on with someone else.. I know I am being unfair..."Out of sight.. Out of mind" At the end of the day... I have to protect my own feeling...and my Partner's feeling as well. C Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leaf Posted October 6, 2004 Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 Just open your doors to people... Have a life! Get a date! :twisted: :twisted: Then its up tou you if you want to paint the town red... :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted October 6, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 6, 2004 so the best solution to get over someone you feel you cant live without is to kill them :twisted: I cant destroy my heart! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnno Posted October 10, 2004 Report Share Posted October 10, 2004 yes, i am soooo sorry to hear about this may there is no worse feeling than when you give your heart and soul to someone and then they do this to you i hope that the bluebird of happiness (zach) returns to you soon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zach Posted October 12, 2004 Report Share Posted October 12, 2004 Well why don't i get my two cents in on this one?? Filurina get over him. You have to, I don't think you have much of a choice in this matter. Sorry. I know it will be sooooooooooooooooo easy for you to move on considering you meet so many people, mainly online but it won't be long before you meet someone else. Your so flirty that it shows sorry to say the truth. Just know you can duct tape me in a box or hide me or forget me but i will never destroy throw away or hide anything you gave or did for me. As you may think i don't have love or a heart i do....Its for you but we met at the wrong time unfortunatly that is my problem more then yours i just put a bit of a spell on you my deep sorrows for that. Just know things are already changing for you, you've already met that person that is gonna take your heart. Good luck to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 12, 2004 Report Share Posted October 12, 2004 zach, maybe the guy in question giving up too easily? she really loves him in my opinon... i'm sure he's got his reasons but maybe he should reconsider b4 he throws all that away... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted October 12, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 12, 2004 Well why don't i get my two cents in on this one??Filurina get over him. You have to, I don't think you have much of a choice in this matter. Sorry. I know it will be sooooooooooooooooo easy for you to move on considering you meet so many people, mainly online but it won't be long before you meet someone else. Your so flirty that it shows sorry to say the truth. Just know you can duct tape me in a box or hide me or forget me but i will never destroy throw away or hide anything you gave or did for me. As you may think i don't have love or a heart i do....Its for you but we met at the wrong time unfortunatly that is my problem more then yours i just put a bit of a spell on you my deep sorrows for that. Just know things are already changing for you, you've already met that person that is gonna take your heart. Good luck to you. how can u say its easy to move on noooooooooooo way! I m not looking for someone new cos i dont think anyone can replace him, maybe u just dont understand. u wanna make me giving up on someone ive been in love with.. no.. i might seem flirty but im not. i end up alone every night wondering if that person would think of me as much as i think of him. being online is just an exist way to get away from my deep sorrow. I have to pretend to be cheerful when i am not.. god why cant u understand that everything means nothing if it aint you if i aint got you :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anny Posted October 12, 2004 Report Share Posted October 12, 2004 Think Of your mommy and papa They should be someone u can't live without not just a person who not deserve someone soo beautiful like you. Before u can live without knowing this person. Why u can't live again without him/her? :?: :?: :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
methedevdas Posted October 12, 2004 Report Share Posted October 12, 2004 Think Of your mommy and papa They should be someone u can't live without not just a person who not deserve someone soo beautiful like you. Before u can live without knowing this person. Why u can't live again without him/her? :?: :?: :wink: Oohee oohheee.. Wow.. Anny~ you are.. Great na.. Poet thinking,..~ :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted October 12, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 12, 2004 u guys wouldnt believe how happy and amazing we are when ur together. I know what hes doing and know exactly how he feels. I understand ppl keep saying life goes on, i do. Its not like I stop moving on. I am, only the fact that hes all over in my heart. Even now, hes still by my side. And its only him, only him. My love for him is so valuable no matter no one can see it. I dont care. I only want him to care for me thats all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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