friends Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Did anyone become a lover but you didn't meet her/him in real person yet?? How do u think?How does it work? Of course,It is possible but I just curious.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nong_sonny Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 for me na beer, I think it sound like popy love and 'yes' I was. for now i'm a little grow up .. mostly they are friends for me now! like friends! ;=) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friends Posted October 13, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 for me, I wasn't become as lover with who i didn't meet in real person yet.. but love online...YES...but not as a lover anyway..nothing more than a very good friends..We are happy to be friends forever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 hmm don't see how u can become a "LOVER", without actually meeting someone. i know people talk about being bf/gf without having met and are convinced they LOVE someone even though they have never seen them in real life. but to become a "LOVER" implies some kind of physical relationship and i would have thought that would be difficult unless u actually meet the real person. for what it's worth i don't believe u can be bf/gf or fall in love unless u have actually met the person in a real life situation, but that is a personal opinion. however, i think it is factual to say u can not be a "LOVER" unless u have done something in real to become a "LOVER" but i am sure there will be some who disagree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friends Posted October 13, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 so what~? me and Rick is lover~ i haven't meet but we can talk and do stuff , I wonder what do you meant by ...and do stuff ... :wink: :roll: i can besure that me and rick talkin' much more than other real life couple I do agree... I have someone who i can talk with anything more than other who closed to me in real life..but he is not my BF..maybe he is my shadow..lol.. understand and caring is the most important, dun u think? I do think so.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friends Posted October 13, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 How could you call them "lovers", if you never MAKE LOVE? How's about MAKE LOVE but not call them "lovers"??? :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 i agree with paulcollins and sprite, lovers means almost by definition that they make love. i dont see where cybersex counts. it is possible to know someone very well indeed without meeting face to face, but none of the cybersex options count as making lurv in my opinion. i think it is possible to be bf/gf without meeting face to face, i but i personally am not willing to consider that option. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friends Posted October 13, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 I didn't mean SEX for real. But lovers should have some intimate stuff in person, right? .. To walk hand in hand, cuddle and watch movie, morning kiss, good bye hug...etc. I think everyone needs those stuff and then you both will trun to be "lover". I do agree jaaa :oops: :oops: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 um.. i think it's all in how u define the words, but i would say it ain't making love unless u r in love... not that i think there's anything WRONG with sex without love, it's just a different sort of thing. and yeah all that little intimate stuff that only happens in person... I didn't mean SEX for real. But lovers should have some intimate stuff in person, right? .. To walk hand in hand, cuddle and watch movie, morning kiss, good bye hug...etc. I think everyone needs those stuff and then you both will trun to be "lover". But Make Love and don't call them "lovers".. hmm I think I call that HAVE SEX! Very different between the two 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 well as i said earlier i really don't believe u can be bf/gf or be in love until u ACTUALLY meet the person. no matter what ppl r like in chat and on phone and on webcam it is not REAL. it is too easy for ppl to be something they r not while online and while it is possible to be false in a real life situation, it is more difficult to do and easier for the other person to identify fakes emotions or in some instances downright lies. i believe u can meet really nice ppl online and that u can build a relationship online, but i don't believe that it can become bf/gf or true love until u actually physically meet the person. also BadQpiz i don't believe cybersex is quite the same as the real thing but i am willing for someone to prove how wrong i am !! just my thoughts on the subject Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lipp Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Did anyone become a lover but you didn't meet her/him in real person yet?? Personally I never have that feelings with someone i don't meet. He can't be my lover but he could be someone that i feels special with because online friends they r stranger even friends of my friends that i never meet (only heard about them). I could only talk by phone... chat and ill hear his voice, see his face if he have web cam and microphone... but that is not enough to be lover. For me, it takes longer time to decide to meet stranger. As u guys should think the same because u never know what gonna happens just from the first step u decide to meet him... Don't go alone. That's the reason why u has friends. Take them with u! Sometime my friends they tried to make up thing for me, like date or that kinda stuff with their friend... I just need to know him first by talk on the phone if he is boring or funny to be with. I've to feels comfortable enough to meet him...but most of the time i like to meet at the party... Is the best way for me because if i get bored of the guy. I just leave him... and pray for him that someone might replace to talk with him after me. Anyway I prefer to meet the person in real, look at his eyes, see his smiles...feel him, smell him...have some conversations... that's will work out for the next step of relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friends Posted October 13, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 i believe u can meet really nice ppl online and that u can build a relationship online, but i don't believe that it can become bf/gf or true love until u actually physically meet the person. I DO AGREE 100% kaaa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
biachung Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 meeting of the minds between 2 people can do alot more than a physical meeting, how do blind people fall in love?? 8) 8) , after sex?? i don't think so, you may be chatting,or just talking on the phone but if both parties are being honest with each other then there is no reason why they can't fall in love with each other.....anyway thats just my opinion :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 i agree in principle, and have met some of my best friends online (and later met them face-to-face)... and meeting ppl from online is my number one coping mechanism when visiting a new country. so i think online is great. but.... while i agree in principle, i dont wanna fall in love that way. i know of ppl who are doing just that though, so i'll have more of an opinion when i find out what happens when they actually meet face to face... but even if that goes great i still won't do it. i like debating the theoretical possibliity but in real life.... nah. meeting of the minds between 2 people can do alot more than a physical meeting, how do blind people fall in love?? 8) 8) , after sex?? i don't think so, you may be chatting,or just talking on the phone but if both parties are being honest with each other then there is no reason why they can't fall in love with each other.....anyway thats just my opinion :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 how come ??? I never ... I can never tell that I have online bf ... lol but i got online brother..eh ? I feel surprised that when I said I have bf, and u know someone still ask like if i never meet him yet and they said have some girls in that situation >> online bf/gf ..... how come we became a lover but never meet .. for me it's impossible. yes sometime I feel that I like someone via online ... but i wont say that he is my bf for sure... I dont believe in online love at all..... but i wont deny if it gonna happen to me. But I didnt find out love from anywhere coz love is all around .. just it will be with me one day later soon ... :wink: 555+ Love actually I just fall in love this film so much and can never forgot .. as just got soundtrack from love actually that remind me about thisfilm again and again. and Christmast coming !!! Happiness time Cheers ! iclude my Birthday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 i think that being in love in person, has an element of fantasy too it, and rightly so... but i am skeptical of 'true love' online, as there is no reality to ground the fantasy with, or too little for me.. Hmmmmmmmmm I doubt that... For me... being in LOVE with someone but.. never have met in the flesh... IS like... hearing or seeing pics of some wonderful places but you have never been there...... Its only in your head... your fantasy... your dream... Who am I ... anyway... C Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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