I am not drunk but I think now is the good time for me?.or too late

I do not know what kind of a man I want. I think when I meet him I will know.

I am not a perfect woman and not a beautiful one that you can show to others.

Everything I said on my profile is true. If a woman like that is wanted, it should not be hard for me to find someone??.

The problem is ??I am a very caring person?sometimes I think ppl do not want someone to take care that much??..

I tried to list what kind of a man that will fit me

1. Think positive and like to do something silly and fun

2. Like to go out but not more than once a week for pub/bar and like to go to cinema

3. University degree, sometimes I want some idea that will work for university as I am a lecturer

4. English native speaker ? I do not know how we can be in relationship if we can not 100% understand each other and I can only speak Thai and English

5. Older than me?.about 3-12 years should be ok

6. Like to help others as I always do

I am well born woman and I have trained to be a good girlfriend and wife.But I can not find someone that I think he is the right one.......

good luck ka

things like this happen when you least expect it Fay; you will meet someone when you least expect it

(how does next Friday at 8pm sound??) : )

Iain_D : sound good , I think ...hehe.... I did not expect much just write it down

they say < and i also believe... > " love will find you when you are not looking for it "

also it is never too late...

EmoKitty: yes i knew,it happend to me last time i met a man i loved

Milk_Biscuit: thank you very much

5 computers at home!!, now we know why Bkk has power cuts every so often...

"I have trained to be a good girlfriend and wife"

Please list your talents and strengths referring to the above statement.

biachung:do not tell anyone I have another 3 old one at my mother's house

condotown:not easy to tell, but well born girls will need them ... my grand mother really conservative.being a good wife is something that i have learnt from her.....such as ;always dress well ,know how to cook,think and try to find the way out before you ask your husband(dont put any problem in his head as he also work hard and take care of you),dont say no if he want you that way ......bla...bla...bla....anything that a good thai woman should do.......but I do think i will do them all as she said,,, time change ppl change I think i just do if it base on good reasons

you can probably write a book that lists good qualifications that you want (in men).. but in the next few years you will, perhaps, lower your standards and try to accept that unexpected person... I donno.. I used to have a long list and found out that there is no Mr. Perfect, superhero...or whatsoever.

I used to believe that I was perfectly made to be a VERY good partner..but sometimes (at the wrong time,wrong location, or with a wrong person) things didn't work out.. I guess that things will always be alright if you stay with the right soul-mate (a person that shows up unexpectedly)

Never ever try to be a good girl... men love *******... you should read that book too enjoy life while you can.

What book did you read???? Men don't love *******!

They love sluts.

"everything I said on my profile is true" including your status as 'not looking' ?

Dr_Sassy:thank you ,, you alway be my good friend....hehe as i said when i see him i will know if he is the right one ::: I just have fun listing what i want ,,, if i get 60-80 % i would be happy.....I dated a man with nothing in my list before .........

SweetieBabie:I know time and place to be a good girl i do not follow everything my grand mother said ... too much for a modern thai woman like me

well, I put this personal thing on because i want to know what other think hehe

thanks for your comment

your fay

Don't you know TF fashion 'not looking' is the new 'looking' !? geez....

Hope u lucky ka ^____________^

I can't speak for other men, but as for me, I prefer a ***** to a slut any

day of the week.

A true "*****" is a girl that knows what she wants and she works to get

it without taking any crap.

A slut is a person that gives it up to anyone without any reason and

does not have the backbone to stand up to herself.

To be successful you MUST be assertive. Otherwise you are just

part of someone's cheap vacation package.

Smiles!

You can't go off and find a boyfriend yet.

How will you have time to give us our free Thai lessons? :-D

you'll find your mr right, no worries

I tried to list what kind of a man that will fit me ....

5. Older than me?.about 3-12 years should be ok.

3. University degree, sometimes I want some idea that will work for university as I am a lecturer.

am well born woman and I have trained to be a good girlfriend and wife.But I can not find someone that I think he is the right one....... ? ? ?

>>>>>>>

I guess im still old fashioned but falling in love isnt about a list of things he/she should be its about really falling in love and the person you fall in love is usually totally not what you think you are looking for.

And what training is required to be in love with someone ? ..you dont train yourself to be a good wife or girlfriend.....its a beautiful natural unplanned thing,its not manufactured in a factory with instructions.

I suggest you dont look and let him find you ...good luck

Thank you for all comments

I set this journal for some reasons . I got what I want now

you all always be my good friends

fay