One of my friends telling me that she is just found her soul mate through a dating website. Which she mentioned that they have so much in common and they are planning to meet soon, and also they plan to make commitment shortly after meet. I’m happy for her.
 
Talking about soul mate I was thinking of some of my friends who already met her husband not long and then marriage. Mrs. HR who’s met her husband through a famous dating website in Thailand, she was chatting with him for a month before met, it was late December 2009. And they met in late January 2010 and then got engage in mid February 2010. Now she is married and living in Europe.
 
she was telling me while they were dating is they both have deep connection even  they’ re not talking but only eyes contact can understand each other mind. A part of it is their sexual compatibility is incredible as if on/off button of electrical machines. The frequency they sex the more intimate they access. They both young and successful in their career paths. Mrs. HR is an honest and sincere girl together with her high spirit & sophisticated. She knows how to charm a guy, know how to play along. That is how she can close her deal easily once she met the right one but that is not only her who put afford, it also her husband as well.
 
Another friend that I want to talk about….let call her Mrs. Denis, whom I just met not long ago she is in late thirties, but her body is perfectly feminine. I thought that I have a good body proportion but when I met her I consider myself as athletic tone because she has perfect body with slim waist, big round butt & full breasts size. I was wondering and couldn’t help to asked if her boobs are real or surgical. She told me to touch her breasts and I did but still doubt until she told me to go deeper and I did because I’m curious and realized that she got a real thing. Apart from her perfect body & pretty face she also an honest and sincere person which I like it a lot. At first time I met her she is incredible friendly and charming.
 
We talked about everything, and while we chatting one of a friend asked me “will you invite us to your wedding?” I was thinking before telling her that “if you can eat rats, snakes, & dogs you shall be invited.” I noticed that the friends face changing color as if she wanna puke, When Mrs Dennis hear I talking about rat she joining us:
 
Mrs Dennis: I love rat grilled its very delicious, are you talking about wild rat, right?
 
Me: yes, that’s right.
 
Mrs Dennis: you know the most delicious part of rat is its balls. That is my favorite part, so yummy.
 
Me: wow, I think I missed something coz I never try rat’s balls, too bad wild rat is died out now.
 
Mrs. Dennis: andsnake curry is delicious too. Snake fresh taste like chicken, its good.
 
We have similar life style when we were young because I was born in Isaan and Mrs. Dennis was from Lao PDR. I was curious about her love life so I asked her how she met her husband because I used to meet her husband once or twice in some event a couple years ago, and now he is completely changed. He looks younger & more handsome, which I presumed it was his mentally happiness of having loving wife for sharing. He is a lucky man!!!
 
So here is what she told me but I’m not sure if it correctly what I telling you due to the pub we met was quite loud with football fan cheering voices. She was married with Vietnamese guy for 9 years with no kid, and she was traveled to BKK to her hometown most of time to do commercial (buying jewelry to sell in her home town which she said she made a lot of money). And after that she found out her husband has an affair and having a kid, she was deeply hurt and disappeared from ppl for awhile. She did mention that her ex husband was very handsome guy.
 
Then she mostly stays in Bangkok by during of sad moment and her friend created her a profile on TF. She said she cannot speak English at that time and also she can’t write Thai so most of time on cyber net she was just pretending sit and typing keyboard but actually her friend did typing for her. And that is how she met her husband here. They were exchanged writing for 6 months before meet, (she met many guys on TF but the reason that she choose her husband I surmise that she probably see his genuine more than others) and when they first met she told me that she asked to sleep with him at first met. I was curious and asked her of how her husband react after he hear that she said he was silent in thought for a while and comply to her desire. She told me that she use sign language together with a paper that her friend wrote for her.
 
Since the day of first met they stay together for couple weeks, then her husband grab her hand into a jewelry shop bought her a ring. He must see something in her, maybe her honesty & sincerity and probably they were mean to be. She told us that the reason she wanted to sex him is because she was wondering for the last 9 years with her ex husband why didn’t she conceive a child, if something wrong with her she wanted to be proved. And if she conceives a child she would keep a child to her relatives whose childless or something I’m not sure. I surmise, she probably told him that no need to worry incase she’s pregnant.
 
And now they both married and very happy couple that I ever see, her sweet & lovely husband keep asking her most of time when we sitting together to check if she’s ok or anything she wants. I can see that they are true lover. She is genuine by saying that sometimes they have a little argument but not a big deal. And I told her that I understand two ppl living together you cannot be sweet & romantic most of time coz it going to be boring because opinion of partnership must developing when you living together for a long time to plan, to agree, to share, to give & to get.
 
The forth is my lovely cousin, Mrs. Grasshopper. Mrs. Grasshoper & Mrs. HR. were born in same date/month & year but their life style slightly difference. Mrs Grasshopper married on March 19, 2010 & Mrs. HR married on May 14, 2010. Mrs, Grasshopper met her husband four years ago, her husband is Mr. Grizzly’s friend who joined our small parties at Mr. Grizzly condo. They both were 24 when their first met and their simple relationship keep continue slowly. He is her first man and only man she has. They both born in same year and Mrs, Grasshopper is a few months older than her hubby. They respect each others and they both sensitive. They have healthy and stable relationship, even sometimes she tells me that they arguing over this & that, but it’s just for fun & teasing.
 
The fifth is a couple that I’ve met them not long ago, we lunch together one day with a couple of friends. Let call her Ms. Sweet. Her fiancé is from Kent when I met him he reminds me of Mr. Kiwi, he is calm and not really shy but let just say more like reserved. They both have so much in common as I’ve noticed, they both born in same year/ age so they are friends & lover at the same time which make their relationship more compatible & balancing. They are planning to marry sometime next year and move to England after. She is a sweet, lovely, & romantic girl I have no doubt why her fiancé love her dearly. When I look at them I feel great because their affectionate is natural & genuine. What a lovely couple!
 
Most of girls that I mentioned as above they are genuine and sincere which I assumed their partners can see that. They are feminine and sweet, which attracted to a girl like me as well. I like them a lot I don’t know why but I think I can see their inner mind while they are talking & sharing and I understand why their husbands choose them as live partners. We are drawn to the same type of who we are so whenever you meet/see someone who have so much in common it is likely that he/she is mean to be. but the bigger part of the first start is chemistry, I have a strong ordor of chemistry when i first met Mr. Kiwi, it is rancid, putrid and irresistable........... 
 
 
 

"rancid, putrid and irresistable".......as always an interesting jnl sodawater!

"I love rat grilled its very delicious, are you talking about wild rat, right?"

Yeah, I hate the tamed rats. :-)

thanks for sharing my dear , another fun reading despite the sound of sweet and romantic but the rat part is stand out indeed! LOL

Soda good buddy you should compile all your journals and take them to a publisher. There is a certain innocence about them that is very charming.

Rancid, putrid, and irresistable....lolol. sounds like fermented fish soup? You are sounding more worried about your relationship in your last few journals. That is just what I think because of the things you are writing about. You sound worried Soda.

It sounds like Mr. Kiwi isn't matching up to what your other friends are going through in their relationships. Don't be worried. Everyone is different, and all relationships are different Soda.

I have some beautiful fried wild rat, and live bamboo rat pictures from the market in LuangPraBang that to some are mouth watering, but........I didn't notice any rat balls.....lolol. But then again I wasn't looking that close....lolol.

hummm..." strong ordor of chemistry " hummm wondering if these other friends noticed "it"

interesting idea ....