I have been away from internet for a couple weeks due to my mental illness, its something about childhood suffers and Ill talk about it later because its long story. Also I had been minded my friends place for three weeks while hes away to Australia. Last night it was my last night at his place and before I went to bed I watched movie Theres something about Marry after the movie I had been thinking of this movie that so many guys chasing after Marry but to think of realistic world, some or most single woman in their 30s are chasing after guys so I wish one day I could see a movie Theres something about Harry.

A couple days ago I called a friend who in her mid thirties, she complain that she is going to be 35 soon and has been dating only for 3 guys. I told her that it is because you starting late, and then she said how I supposed to know when should I start to date? Im not sure whether she wants to hear the answer or just wanted to share but I thought I must answer her When you first discovered you got pubic hair said I. I didnt hear a word from the end call and thought she must angry at me but after five seconds I heard a sound of burst to laugh.so I think my answer is not that bad!

And I talked to her again today tell her about the movie, also tell her that it is a time that Theres something about Harry about to start! Im not sure if that a great idea but at least I be glad to be of help. One of my friends told me last year that she would find her solid relationship before her birthday which was on last February but after February she told me she will find her solid relationship by April 2011 and Ive asked her again if she is really sure. Now she tells me that it will August 2011. However, I hope shell get one by that time because many of our friends are already getting married this year.

Anyway, I wish all of my friend whos single find their life partners in this year so that I dont have to keep pushing them, and they can share their happiness and fun with me.

Why don't u write more bloggs giving advice for women in her thirties to catch her dream prince?

When you first discovered you got pubic hair said I

haha, a very good (& funny) answer!

Good luck to your friends. Hope they find their 'special ones' soon

Single or not, anyone can enjoy life.

Many peoples want to jump in to serious relationship,have family ,have kids,esp the girl no matter how old are they.I respect their desire.

Iam 43,i am very fine with my single life,i had lots of dating,seeking for a man for my life i thought that would be nice if i can married with a nice guy ,i have only 2 serious relationship before and it's doesn't work,and i don't care,I am happy now,i guess enough? May be not.

I think when the right time come,the right person will appearing,Hope she can find her man soon.

I have heard several stories like the one you tell about a girl who puts her foot down and says she's getting married, a boyfriend, or whatever by a certain date. It scares me because the guys they meet don't know this and the girl often ends up pushing the relationship faster than is comfortable in order to meet her self-imposed deadline. But if she pushes too hard she may destroy the relationship.