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But we are different , Yanyan :( people here dont send you message because you dont looking for bf, but to me, there are actually some guys sent me messages asking if I'd like to be freind with them so I replied that I have many friends already, I want a bf, then they gone

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Sorry to butt in.

I'm gonna be completely stereotypical here.

All us ladies say guys are afraid of commitment, right?

When you tell them that you want a bf maybe they get a bit put off?

Maybe they're not sure what they want, they see your profile, think 'she looks great' & just wanna have some dates & get to know you without feeling pressured or like they have a time limit etc.

(or maybe they're one of the ones, in abundance on TF, that just wanna shag lol)

If a guy messages me & I see that he's got loads of soppy stuff all over his profile & seems to be selling himself cause he's actively looking for a girlfriend, I know if he's hot I get a bit cautious.

Was just a thought that popped in my head when reading this thread.

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Oh Yanyan, you are so optimist :). They run off because they find it hard to believe when i told them so.. ( and i was just joking, decent people wont run around tell people they are pretty and nice but ting tong one - lol )

Well, u DO look nice ;) Esp in that cooking outfit - a perfect homely, girl-next-door look! ;) And I am always under the impression that many guys like gals to act all nice and sugarpie, even if it is a lie! Cos I often have more dates when I act all innocent and sweet, than when I am honest pesonality and all! ;)

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Sorry to butt in.

I'm gonna be completely stereotypical here.

All us ladies say guys are afraid of commitment, right?

When you tell them that you want a bf maybe they get a bit put off?

Maybe they're not sure what they want, they see your profile, think 'she looks great' & just wanna have some dates & get to know you without feeling pressured or like they have a time limit etc.

(or maybe they're one of the ones, in abundance on TF, that just wanna shag lol)

If a guy messages me & I see that he's got loads of soppy stuff all over his profile & seems to be selling himself cause he's actively looking for a girlfriend, I know if he's hot I get a bit cautious.

Was just a thought that popped in my head when reading this thread.

Agree that many guys here are out for shags. But to be fair to the boys, I also had PM from female hoping to do the same. So I shut down my TF account some time back. Sorry, I don't dislike lesbians but I am just not into it, and like the meaning to be clearly understood and taken that way after I said so to the gal.

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Sorry to butt in.

I'm gonna be completely stereotypical here.

All us ladies say guys are afraid of commitment, right?

When you tell them that you want a bf maybe they get a bit put off?

Maybe they're not sure what they want, they see your profile, think 'she looks great' & just wanna have some dates & get to know you without feeling pressured or like they have a time limit etc.

(or maybe they're one of the ones, in abundance on TF, that just wanna shag lol)

If a guy messages me & I see that he's got loads of soppy stuff all over his profile & seems to be selling himself cause he's actively looking for a girlfriend, I know if he's hot I get a bit cautious.

Was just a thought that popped in my head when reading this thread.

Thanks for contribution, Teila. Please feel free anytimes ..

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Sorry to butt in.

I'm gonna be completely stereotypical here.

All us ladies say guys are afraid of commitment, right?

When you tell them that you want a bf maybe they get a bit put off?

Maybe they're not sure what they want, they see your profile, think 'she looks great' & just wanna have some dates & get to know you without feeling pressured or like they have a time limit etc.

(or maybe they're one of the ones, in abundance on TF, that just wanna shag lol)

If a guy messages me & I see that he's got loads of soppy stuff all over his profile & seems to be selling himself cause he's actively looking for a girlfriend, I know if he's hot I get a bit cautious.

Was just a thought that popped in my head when reading this thread.

Nice on Teila. Very well said.

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Sorry to butt in.

I'm gonna be completely stereotypical here.

All us ladies say guys are afraid of commitment, right?

When you tell them that you want a bf maybe they get a bit put off?

Maybe they're not sure what they want, they see your profile, think 'she looks great' & just wanna have some dates & get to know you without feeling pressured or like they have a time limit etc.

(or maybe they're one of the ones, in abundance on TF, that just wanna shag lol)

If a guy messages me & I see that he's got loads of soppy stuff all over his profile & seems to be selling himself cause he's actively looking for a girlfriend, I know if he's hot I get a bit cautious.

Was just a thought that popped in my head when reading this thread.

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Well, u DO look nice ;) Esp in that cooking outfit - a perfect homely, girl-next-door look! ;) And I am always under the impression that many guys like gals to act all nice and sugarpie, even if it is a lie! Cos I often have more dates when I act all innocent and sweet, than when I am honest pesonality and all! ;)

Thank you, Yanyan.

Forturnately that most of my dates appreciated me nasty and agressive -lol ( I found myself exhausted anytime when I came home after went out on date with my innocent and sweet pretending, then i gave up ) - lol

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