Joopjip Posted February 2, 2005 Report Share Posted February 2, 2005 As we sat on a green bench with the eiffel tower as a background watching two little boys playing nearby...my bf at the time turned to me and said "IF i ask u to marry me,what would u say?" I'm sure he's not proposing as he said IF but why ask and what did it mean??? At the time i thought it was just becos he was caught in the moment and he just wanted to say he loved me but i could be wrong...Any ideas?Just wanna hear some male opinions on it or female with the same experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 2, 2005 Report Share Posted February 2, 2005 probably he wanted to make sure you're interested before he spends a lot of money on a ring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted February 2, 2005 Report Share Posted February 2, 2005 As we sat on a green bench with the eiffel tower as a background watching two little boys playing nearby...my bf at the time turned to me and said "IF i ask u to marry me,what would u say?" I'm sure he's not proposing as he said IF but why ask and what did it mean??? At the time i thought it was just becos he was caught in the moment and he just wanted to say he loved me but i could be wrong...Any ideas?Just wanna hear some male opinions on it or female with the same experience. i reckon he was gagging for a shag ............ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khun_lung Posted February 2, 2005 Report Share Posted February 2, 2005 As we sat on a green bench with the eiffel tower as a background watching two little boys playing nearby...my bf at the time turned to me and said "IF i ask u to marry me,what would u say?" I'm sure he's not proposing as he said IF but why ask and what did it mean??? At the time i thought it was just becos he was caught in the moment and he just wanted to say he loved me but i could be wrong...Any ideas?Just wanna hear some male opinions on it or female with the same experience. I would NEVER ask a lady a question like that. It's a rhetorical question that deserves no answer unless this is the guy of your dreams and you are sure your answer would be "Yes.". It might be time for you to ask him a rhetorical questiom too. Ask him, "If I said yes, what would your answer be?" But what you really have to ask yourself is would your answer be yes, no, or maybe? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle Posted February 2, 2005 Report Share Posted February 2, 2005 HE wanted to know how you felt but it was a tacky question. Better to ask do you love me but does he want to marry you is the question right. We men can be chicken buc buc buc bucaaaak Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 2, 2005 Report Share Posted February 2, 2005 HER DIARYSunday 13th June 2004 Saw him in the evening and he was acting really strangely. I had been shopping in the afternoon with the girls and I did turn up a bit late so thought it might be that. The bar was really crowded and loud so I suggested we go somewhere quieter to talk. He was still very subdued and distracted so I suggested we go somewhere nice to eat. All through dinner he just didn't seem himself; he hardly laughed, and didn't seem to be paying any attention to me or to what I was saying. I just knew that something was wrong. He dropped me back home and I wondered if he was going to come in; he hesitated, but followed. I asked him again if there was something the matter but he just half shook his head and turned the television on. After about 10 minutes of silence, I said I was going upstairs to bed. I put my arms around him and told him that I loved him deeply. He just gave a sigh, and a sad sort of smile. He didn't follow me up, but later he did, and I was surprised when we made love. He still seemed distant and a bit cold, and I started to think that he was going to leave me, and that he had found someone else. I cried myself to sleep. HIS DIARY Sunday 13th June 2004 England lost to France. Gutted. Got a shag though 2u: dont get me wrong, you still suck and i still hate you, but youre' a genius. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tallboyno1 Posted February 2, 2005 Report Share Posted February 2, 2005 So what did you say? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joopjip Posted February 3, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 I should make it more clear.He knows very well that i love him becos i tell him all the time.And he doesnt know anything about sin sod or how thai marriage is as we never really talk about it and hes never been in thailand.He's definitely not asking for a shag!! lol We have sex way too often already lol More details...he's only 19 and how we got together was I kissed him and he said he loved me from the 1st time he saw me...(Of course i was thinking maybe this guy watches too much soap pr just being french!! lol wasnt touched at all) 3 months later he asked that question..in fact i said yes..and we kissed and that was it!!! We never talk about it after that but it doesnt bother me much cos im not exactly planning to marry a 19 yr old boy, as much as i love him.If it was for real i would say no cos i cant imagine being married at this age Im too young.He never mentions it ever since and im just curious whats going thru his mind thats all...to make it more interesting he used to tell me all the time he doesnt believe in marriage lol that its old fashioned and has nothing to do with love...Maybe hes just a confused little boy!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joopjip Posted February 3, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 I should make it more clear.He knows very well that i love him becos i tell him all the time.And he doesnt know anything about sin sod or how thai marriage is as we never really talk about it and hes never been in thailand.He's definitely not asking for a shag!! lol We have sex way too often already lol More details...he's only 19 and how we got together was I kissed him and he said he loved me from the 1st time he saw me...(Of course i was thinking maybe this guy watches too much soap pr just being french!! lol wasnt touched at all) 3 months later he asked that question..in fact i said yes..and we kissed and that was it!!! We never talk about it after that but it doesnt bother me much cos im not exactly planning to marry a 19 yr old boy, as much as i love him.If it was for real i would say no cos i cant imagine being married at this age Im too young.He never mentions it ever since and im just curious whats going thru his mind thats all...to make it more interesting he used to tell me all the time he doesnt believe in marriage lol that its old fashioned and has nothing to do with love...Maybe hes just a confused little boy!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joopjip Posted February 3, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 As for 2unique's diary..I never have a direct experience wih this kind of situations but i think men r different than women when it comes to sharing problems or sadness.Maybe he has something he needs to figure out and maybe it doesnt even concern u.Better u give him the space he needs and im sure he'll come out of his closet by himself ) Best of luck to u Unique... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 .he's only 19 and how we got together was I kissed him and he said he loved me from the 1st time he saw me....Maybe hes just a confused little boy!! he might be a confused little boy, but he's one f**king lucky 19 year old .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vipin Posted February 15, 2005 Report Share Posted February 15, 2005 try to know you r answer would be "yes" or "no"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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