bobbyboy112003 Posted March 15, 2004 Report Share Posted March 15, 2004 Ok then, someone got me thinking a little more on this subject than I have in the past. The hidden agenda, what is it really? Does it pertain to men and woman, I think so, but only if I'm clear on what the hidden agenda is, so, what is it? Is bobby being nice in order to lure in the ladies? Yeah right!! Maybe this or ideas like this are all to common in the experiences of Thai ladies? Watch those farangs girls cause you know what they really want. This is probably very very true, but i need more info. Anyone have any ideas on this? Please, speak freely, ok? bobby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicflower Posted March 16, 2004 Report Share Posted March 16, 2004 it's good to be clear. it's your own reputation i understand that but... hey..my words to share are that... if someone misunderstood me, i don't try to fix that...go ahead lets believe that way... sooner or later time will gradually reveal the truth. if it doesn't work that way...that means the person has nothing to do with me and vice versa, hence theer's nth to care. otherwise, s/he will get to know what it is someday... there is no rush in getting to know who we really are for others...and also the other way around. clear? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indman Posted March 16, 2004 Report Share Posted March 16, 2004 Hey Bobby, good one to bring up. Everyone has a hidden agenda for most situations whether they're concious of it or not. Hidden agendas aren't necessarily bad either. Let's imagine a situation where you're buying a car for yourself. The main purpose for this is to get from your house to work/shops/places of convienence etc...now for this all you need is a small car to get you from A to B right. Yet somehow you decide to finally buy that massive SUV because somewhere in the back of you head there's a voice saying hang on Bob, I can use this baby to take the mates out for camping trips on weekends as well! There's your hidden agenda...just a reason to make you do something differently. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steel Posted March 16, 2004 Report Share Posted March 16, 2004 I feel that your example is more like a excuse to get the car you want Indman.. You want the car but are a bit shy to admit that you want that car even if you don`t need it! *S* I don`t think any wife will buy that story.. For me, the hidden agenda is the reason to get in contact with somebody.. Of course we want something, or else we would not bother! I think many people are here at TF just for the fun, but the hidden agenda can be many things.. We want new friends and are thinking that something good might come out of that, you never know.. There might be a princess (or prince for the ladies) out there just for me! :-) I think most of the men are dreaming about a real hot date.. That was my hidden agenda for logging in her in the first place, I am going to Thailand in two weeks and tought that a date ore two would be nice.. I love to meet and have fun with new friends! :-) Now that is not so important anymore, at this point I hang around because it is refreshing to bee here.. Tommy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted March 16, 2004 Author Report Share Posted March 16, 2004 Yes Miss Atomicflower, you are clear! Indman, good point. I was however being a little more specific to say farangs going to Thailand, or Thai ladies meeting farangs. Sorry, should have been clearer. Steel, Your honesty is refreshing. It makes me feel good that now you enjoy coming here for the friendship and fun. bobby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Artfuldaze Posted March 17, 2004 Report Share Posted March 17, 2004 "You want the truth..you can't handle the truth!" sounds familiar eh.well i guess the absolute truth is more often than not hard for us to swallow...for me at least..so i prefer to adopt the "What i dont know won't hurt me"..or if i happen to know, then "Don't give a FLying F@$k" attitude..depending on the situation. Be honest..not Sorry. Naz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Artfuldaze Posted March 17, 2004 Report Share Posted March 17, 2004 Damn! Is that my Virgin post in TF? muahahaah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tux Posted March 17, 2004 Report Share Posted March 17, 2004 Ok then, someone got me thinking a little more on this subject than I have in the past. The hidden agenda, what is it really? Does it pertain to men and woman, I think so, but only if I'm clear on what the hidden agenda is, so, what is it? Is bobby being nice in order to lure in the ladies? Yeah right!! Maybe this or ideas like this are all to common in the experiences of Thai ladies? Watch those farangs girls cause you know what they really want. This is probably very very true, but i need more info. Anyone have any ideas on this? Please, speak freely, ok?bobby Each and everyone of us have our own agendas in every aspect of our lives. Each and everyone is entitled to the privacy of thoughts. This being said, pretense is most likely to be frowned upon like for example (totally taken at random ) : - Farang pretending to be friends just to get l..d - Lady skipping the pill to force long tem relationship etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tux Posted March 17, 2004 Report Share Posted March 17, 2004 Damn! Is that my Virgin post in TF? muahahaah Well i guess that makes for the two of us (you being a few minutes faster). And it didn't hurt, did it? :-) Cheers Tux Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ling_dtua_khaao Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 Sometimes.. I think we can't even admit a hidden agenda to ourselves. (This is in general, not just about farangs guys and Thai girls.) It's hard to be clear about your own motives sometimes, and hard to admit some things to yourself. --Ling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnnyFavorite Posted April 4, 2004 Report Share Posted April 4, 2004 Hi Bobby, I have not had the pleasure of meeting you as yet, but have read a lot of your posts and you have a pretty good head on your shoulders. One thing I try to avoid in life is the hidden agenda (unless I am playing Texas Hold 'em and have pocket rockets). Honesty, truth, integrity, etc are never quite apparent enough about the one with a hidden agenda. I had a lot of thoughts on this subject. No one ever said I had one and the truth is the very nature of my work these past 3 decades caused me to have one, but only about work. So I consulted the experts, did not have to go far and if you and the other readers would like to know what they say pls go to: http://www.socionics.com/advan/hiddena.htm/. I found it interesting but kind of any "empty subject. Later Bobby, dial me up sometime. JOHNNY FAVORITE S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted April 6, 2004 Author Report Share Posted April 6, 2004 Thank you JohnnyFavorite and glad to meet you. That link is interesting! Let me see where I fit in?? haha. The replies to my post are making me think a little more deeply about the hidden agenda. Boy, we have some very intelligent people on this forum!! bobby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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