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Nobody is perfect till you fall in ♥ with them


Aphrodite

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When one is surrounded by love, The feeling of excitement fades away, And one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, Even very small and cheeky forms, It has never been a model, It could be the most dull and boring form... Flowers, And romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship.

Under all this, the pillar of true love stands and that's our life. Love, not words win arguments.

Sometimes we expect far too much of the people around us. And because no one can ever live up to those expectations. We are almost always disappointed.

Wouldn't it be better if we just let go, And let people be who they are? Then we would be able to see them as they are -- With all their beauty and goodness in which we take joy, And with all their faults which we can also see in ourselves.

When we have put someone up on a pedestal, Sculpturing them to fit our needs and desires by smoothing out the rough edges and creating new curves here and there, We can not see the real person underneath our work. All we see is the illusion we have created. That is denying the person's real identity and is disrespectful.

It's much better for our friends and for ourselves if we drop our expectations and illusions, And accept them all just the way they are.

Whether we realize it or not, Everyone we know is very special to us.

The most important thing to remember is...

" Always appreciate the friends that you have. "

A fight may come and go very easily, But a friendship could last forever.

The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, The most money, Or the most awards. They are the ones that care.

Have an awesome weekend everyone

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When one is surrounded by love, The feeling of excitement fades away, And one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, Even very small and cheeky forms, It has never been a model, It could be the most dull and boring form... Flowers, And romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship.

Under all this, the pillar of true love stands and that's our life. Love, not words win arguments.

Sometimes we expect far too much of the people around us. And because no one can ever live up to those expectations. We are almost always disappointed.

Wouldn't it be better if we just let go, And let people be who they are? Then we would be able to see them as they are -- With all their beauty and goodness in which we take joy, And with all their faults which we can also see in ourselves.

When we have put someone up on a pedestal, Sculpturing them to fit our needs and desires by smoothing out the rough edges and creating new curves here and there, We can not see the real person underneath our work. All we see is the illusion we have created. That is denying the person's real identity and is disrespectful.

It's much better for our friends and for ourselves if we drop our expectations and illusions, And accept them all just the way they are.

Whether we realize it or not, Everyone we know is very special to us.

The most important thing to remember is...

" Always appreciate the friends that you have. "

A fight may come and go very easily, But a friendship could last forever.

The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, The most money, Or the most awards. They are the ones that care.

Have an awesome weekend everyone

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Oh so true May! And friends become even more important to you when getting older (I speak with experience :-P )

...you have a fantastic weekend too! :-)

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"Nobody is perfect till you fall in ♥ with them"

... and then they aren't perfect, but for a little while... a very little while... it seems like it. The real test of loving someone comes later on, when you've come to experience all the things about them you don't like, and that initial infatuation, drugged state of being in love has worn down. Can you still love that person enough to accept all of the things you don't like?

Good friends are awesome, but it's hard to go through life not actually falling in love.

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ok may, *i* think this is the best journal you've put up this year.

--Ling>>The real test of loving someone comes later on, when you've come to experience all the things about them you don't like, and that initial infatuation, drugged state of being in love has worn down. Can you still love that person enough to accept all of the things you don't like?<<

only time can tell huh?

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