well, i have seen his journal post today, I was so surprise... After I have seen 50 comments I was shocked. Most comments weren't good... I don't know what you guys who post comments think about Paul.... I haven't met him in person. I have no idea that he was good or bad... i'm blind!! but i did not judge him by hearing what people said. However, before it goes so big... I wanna say thank you to Paul ! If I'm not post this journal I would feel guilty and feel like a coward.The story that he posted what about me... only me... I didn't wanna say the name of those TF guys who gave me a call and asked for SEX alone. I don't wanna say, I think they know themselves. After I got the call and that morning I had to got up early to go to work.... It Pissed me off !! I thought oh they thought I was a hooker or something? to pick up the call and could go to meet them.In the morning before I left to work, I chatted with Paul and a friend of mine. They thought the same way that I should post a journal about that. I didn't do. cuz 1. It was so sensitive, I have seen many forums and journal which against farang, they never get good comments, I have learnt by myself though.2. I didn't wanna disturb people with the crappy story. Anyway, I don't know what's behind or you just get this guy wrong... or cuz he said he appologize for all of you farang guys, Cuz you didn't make anything wrong. I understand that. Paul could just listen and ignore what i said... If he did that he won't get the bad comment like that.

u tell them chatty =] i hate it when ppl judge others for no reaaon

A very courageous post 'bCool'.

Neung whatever was said was between u and the guy. i don't know the full story so i personally can't comment on the rights and wrongs of what was said with u and this guy. however what i (and many others) objected to was mr. white as ******* white Paul apologising on behalf of all other farangs.

just who the **** is he to speak for all of us. now most of the guys see through his little game, mr nice and innocent always coming to the defence of the poor little thai girl against the big bad farang, obviously a kind gentle sensitive type who any girl would love to get to know. yet the same guy is capable of acting like a drunken boor, but doesn't like to be reminded of that !!

as i said in his journal "let he without sin cast the first stone"

As I say pure as the driven snow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

..I envy you,.. no one ever think of calling me. :-(

Thks John and PeeMarc...

P'Ciaran... My point of this journal wasn't tell you what Paul did was right or wrong. I just tell the truth... and tell what happened...ok?

beej.... errrr my Eng. is poor I will come back when i got what you said.

Posted by bigKus

..I envy you,.. no one ever think of calling me. :-(

>>> ok i will call you at 2am and 3 am and 4 am.

Oh.. i wont bother you ja.. Neung Nong Nang.. ( if you do so, i will catch motorbite taxi to your place and... beat you till dead as that is my precious sleeping beauty time, k ? )

bigKus [ 15 January 2008 | 1:21PM ]

Oh.. i wont bother you ja.. Neung Nong Nang.. ( if you do so, i will catch motorbite taxi to your place and... beat you till dead as that is my precious sleeping beauty time, k ? )

>>> hehe p'Tu I don't dare to do that na... but I think those horny guys would love to

You have the choice whether or not you should take calls at these times. You shouldn't get affected or even be bothered, because even if you answer it, and don't want these type of conversation, you still have the choice to hang up. - Why does he have your number in the first place?

booties's call emm ...

damn sorry i did call u once! i was too horny, (j/k)

be cool as ur name naa, just press answer or turn off phone, i got those **** sometime too, even from thai guy, how stupid they are, so i answer and let's them wasting the credit, i actually set auto answer to my phone in that time, lol.

as u know me, i recently even know from one of friend (he's a guy) on myspace. some ppls here said big **** about me before even i never meet her

sometime internet can make us go crazy too, but u know how u are the most, and ur friends know who u are that's is more matter naka.

i remember how u are (when u drunk, mostly), hahaha

your reason for not posting the journal was a good reason. come on drunk people do these things everywhere not only in Thailand. Thats' what makes alcohol so great!!

booties's call emm ...

damn sorry i did call u once! i was too horny, (j/k)

be cool as ur name naa, just press answer or turn off phone, i got those **** sometime too, even from thai guy, how stupid they are, so i answer and let's them wasting the credit, i actually set auto answer to my phone in that time, lol.

as u know me, i recently even know from one of friend (he's a guy) on myspace. some ppls here said big **** about me before even i never meet her

sometime internet can make us go crazy too, but u know how u are the most, and ur friends know who u are that's is more matter naka.

i remember how u are (when u drunk, mostly), hahaha

Bcool, in your profile you say get laid or die trying, obviously the guy who called you tried to help out, don't be angry with him for that ok ?

Posted by Geri [ 15 January 2008 | 2:00PM ]

You have the choice whether or not you should take calls at these times. You shouldn't get affected or even be bothered, because even if you answer it, and don't want these type of conversation, you still have the choice to hang up. - Why does he have your number in the first place?

I never save any number on my phone, only my close friends, family, my colleages, my classmates I save their number in. Besides, I work in the hospital, so i have to answer the phone in case of emergency... such as Fire code or Disaster... i can't just ignore when the phone ring.

nong Sonny >> agree...

R.Win>> my friend knows why on earth i put "get laid or die tryin'" on my profile, and I don't think i have to explain anything right here.

Admin >> OK i will save your number with name "NotAnswerAfterMidnight"

"R.Win>> my friend knows why on earth i put "get laid or die tryin'" on my profile, and I don't think i have to explain anything right here."

You don't have to explain but if you' d have people figuring it would go a little something like this.... get laid or die trying... HEY isn't that one of the best selling hip hop albums of all time? Nah men thatz get rich or die trying. hoooty hoooh, i feel ya. so it is a soulsister begging 4 somebody to smack that thong right thurrr. yea boy or maybe she try to get paid by doing so ya heard? I think she better call on Tyrone y'all

....that's not what I think ofcourse but it would be very likely to occur if you'd have to analize the statement

So, My suggestion : Don't give them the phone number. If they want sex , they must wait until you are online or until you reply their message on TF. Keep TF is TF. Do not join this society together with your real life. That is my strong rules for TF these day

i would have just allowed him to come over, then cut his balls off and then burn his clothes. You're no fun these days!!!

I think you've faced a cultural difference there, and where is difference, there is tension.

- I've actually never been in Thailand, so don't blame me (much) if I'm wrong. I realise that my oppinion would be lightest possible.

- There are cultural differences between farangs and individual too. Especially about gender matters.

- I could only speak about mine personal observtions in the context of my personal background and people I know.

- US medias/entertainment industry ban, censor and filter sexual matters the way european do violence (positive human relations like sex are generally OK, murder is not).

There is actually no one to blame. Just differeces in how cultures who formed peoples' personalities handle it.

For my people (most of of course) having sex is just something people do. First sexual acts are usually at the age of14-16. Till the age of majority one could have more sexual partners than a thai prostitute. And generally society tolerates it. Yes, there is some risk of unwanted pregnancy, but the more a kod play, the less curious and playfull he/she would be as an adult. So the probability to settle down and for a steady family increases. Sex (after the teen age) is something even good friends do when wish to relax. Sometimes complete strangers (and it is not necessary an occasion for acquaintance).

In brief - sex for an farang could be something like watching DVDs for a thai. Don't get insulted, as he could not mean to insult you or offend in any way. Just say "no, thanks". If you like the individual, you could try to explain that sex is something serious for you and your culture (before he/she too decide that there is something wrong with you or you are just terrible in doing sex and therefore shy). Just calm down . Nothing to get insulted of, nothing to angry (as long as nobody goes violent or tedious.

hmm i think you guys just missed my point of the journal... indeed... I didn't say what the guys who called me that time done wrong or not... it's just the past and i don't care about it. OK mai? They just pissed me off that time... If I still feel bad about it I would post about it by myself.

If you read it carefully... I wrote about something else.

OK you can say me a slutty, *****... but hey!! do you know me? if not, you can just take a look at my profile... if you don't like what you see just go.... I don't give a damn with it.

"- US medias/entertainment industry ban, censor and filter sexual matters the way european do violence (positive human relations like sex are generally OK, murder is not)."

what the hell are you talking about? Apart from the fact you never went to Thailand (which makes me wonder why you're even on the forum) it sounds like you haven't spent any time in Europe either. Coz in most EU countries we're not being too difficult about it at all.

If u see haw much stupid comments u get abt ur pf or cultural difference (even when a girl posted clearly here that she get the same calls from Thai guys) it wasn't maybe not the best idea to post this journal. You know there're always bastards who thinks like this, who just presume they can get whatever they want.

Don't let them spoil the fun for you. Just ignore them.

I'll call you when I'm there at 16.00 hrs (not 4 o' clock) ;-).

Talking about MPAAs rules and deppends on what are you watshing.

Mainstreams are ususally made to be sellable in both, but have you tried to find even Almodovar's works in US and how many of them have you find?

Or Gideon's disibutions in Europe.

I'll have to find out I dunno to be honest