Love your mother
It was a bad day for me. Today I went to the hospital to visit my mother (read my former journal). She's now hospitalized after she was not able to live alone anymore. My sisters did their best by helping her at her flat, cleaning, doing the laundry and ironing .......... etc. But last week there was a point there should be somebody constantly with her, day and night, because we feared that she would do crazy things (like making eggs on the electric plate without using a cooking pan, she really did). And we were afraid she'd do something when nobody was there and hurt herself or worse. And like we all still work the only option was bringing her to the hospital for further examination.The doctors said there that she was physical good, despite the cancer who's in her chest and in her abdomen. They say it's not really malign and those tumors don't not grow really fast by older people and she'll healthy physically for years to come. The problem is that she's dementing quite fast. They also discovered two little and quite recent brainstrokes, which would have fastened the proces. I went there again this evening after work. My sister had to leave to take care for her childern (she was very emotional upset). I went with my mother to the cafetaria to drink a coffee and later went back to the room and put butter and cheese on her bread and was watching and encourage her to eat. She always eat good if there's someone of us with her. But it was nearly not possible to have a reasonable conversation with her. She talked about a train and later she start dressing herself to leave with me or asking me if I stayed sleeping there. I was upset when leaving and more close to crying than a laugh (even some things she says are funny). They told us that we should look for an elder home where they can take proper care for her. I realise now even more how much she meant and means for us all. She brought 14 children on this earth and it feels like injustice she has to end her life like this.At this moment I realise that my mother is so special in my life. That I love her so much and I appreciate even more what she has done for me and all my sibblings. Love your mother, she's the most precious thing in your life.
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