I have seen Nave's journal this morning about leave or stay (something like that) but right now I couldn't find it.It made me think about my small case. Before I start the story, I wanna let you know that I don't blame anyone but myself. Once I went to join TF party at a nice place... I won't tell you the name cuz people would know about it. Anyway, I helped the host booked table and drove him there... but that was ok, that was small stuff. When I was there I found that I was alone... no one talked to me at all. I meant people talked to each others, and when I tried to start conversation, someone changed my topic. I stayed there more than 1 hour. Then I made up my mind that I should stay or should I go. In my brain I spoke to myself (kinda crazy) "OK, Neung, if you stay here,  you might keep quiet, and you can't talk with anyone cuz you can't get into anyone conversation, but if you leave right now, you can be home in 30 mins, take warm shower and sleep in bed peacefully."A bit later, I could make up my mind. I opened my wallet and gave my money to the host. Suddenly, someone asked me "Are you leaving?" OH ----- MY ------- GOD-----------------MY BUDDHA---- someone could see me...almost cry indeed. Mostly I was invisible. Especially that night.  After that day, made me think so much about going to join TF party, I'm sorry to say. 

sometimes you are never more alone than in a crowded room P'Neung...thank you for sharing your thoughts. I promise If I see you at any events while I am over, I will always find time to talk to you!!

I experience the similar situation like yours too.

Lucky I went with Dave and another friend that I know. So when we cant join the conversation, we started our own conv.

We left when they wanted to move to the karaoke as we felt the same way which was a not comfortable feeling.

I didnt blame anyone coz at least I got to meet one of my friend anyway.

it made me think carefully when i wanna join TF event later too.

Cheers!

I've been on TF since 2004 but this is my new profile. anyway, I never join TF party/event 'cause i was thinking about i might be in the same situation as you ka.....'cause i think i'm nobody (invisible person) as you said

i agreed with you p'nung i think some tf party they will talk to only their friend or ppl that they know them well before. I sometime think I m not belong to this place hahaha ( or i think too much ? ) I like to go to small party ka heehee

Neung, dear, you don't have to worry about that at my event! You have been so helpful to me and I appreciate all that you have done! Can't wait to see you, my friend. :-)

you better bring someone or a group with..... so you dont feel alone... if i were you, i would....... at least you have someone to gossip with... : p

anyway, just choose to go to the party that you feel comfortable and warm.... at least you feel sure before leaving your place

PIan_D, Thks so much kha... I'm a big target but I'm not talkative person for new friends, I'm too shy to speak

Nong Blue, I feel you kha... I remember we met at a restaurant, chilli chilli... right?

Nong Curious Andie, not every TF party's bad na... I love to go to Aom lovely's party, power TTT's party, p'bigKus's event etc. and dinner at peeMarc's place with Sala council is great, lol. you should try na kha. I will give you "avoid list" if you want to.

nong Anny, same here kha... but you always nice to people na... you are nice to me.

p'petey, It's ok kha, I'm glad that I can help you kha... no problem at all. can't wait to see you too...

nongAAAum, lol that's so true ja....

p'Nicky, that was weird, he went to your party and didn't talk to you. hmmmmm... anyway, p'Nicky, it was nice to meet you there finally, I like your voice naa.

Hey !! I met you..and you are fun to be with !! but again..thats why I avoid big party where I hardly know people though that's the chance to know more...but well... I'm a weird type and small parties of family and friends attract me

Hence my intro post on here even when I'm in a room filled with other people I still feel alone. I hope to join in a tf party or get together soon. I've joined in others before and found myself totally out of place. Hope it's different here on tf!

An event I enjoyed very much was at a pizza place in Sukhumwit.. errrr.. 20? The place we had Shall We Dance event. It was a night I met Mickeyjb in person after I thought he's a fake... (hoho~) I had so much fun that night run around talking to anyone and I spent a few thousand that night coz I always ordered double shot.. I could just open a bottle with that amount but I didnt know I gonna drink that much.

Whenever I joined TF event alone, I just ran around and talk... I found myself being quiet if I had friends with me..

It been so long I attened TF event tho' so many new faces I dont know them...

ps: That's weird he went to p'Nicky party and ask who is she...

hi, my story is also like ur story when i`m online msn and u don`t answer when i try to chat .............;-)

Seriously.. i cant imagine that could happen to you Nueng-bCool. I feel comfortable to have you around because you are friendly and ÃÕ¹éÓã¨

I never push myself into any conversation when i was in TF events. but I prefer to enjoyed listen to them and enjoy to see people having fun take pictures etc.. Once if people ignore me. I do the same to them ja...Don't think too much ja.. Dont' loose your self confidence ja. You are a cool lady like your profile name

I don't like big events. I'm never good with big crowd. I prefer a small event like when we met. U r a cool perspn like ur ID. Will be free soon. Is there event that i should look forward to?