I don't know how to feel today. Got the news that my brother will die in approximattly 2 or 3 months. Those who read the journal I posted in February, will know what I'm talking about. They discovered a briantumor and the docs did every possible threathment (chemotherapy, rays and even a medicament from America). But it couldn't stop the braintumor from growing. Now the doctors told my brother thay will stop every threatment and that he has still about 2 to 3 months to live. It's sad, knowing he is just 1 year older than me.

You understand I will not be lot on TF the following days (or maybe weeks). I just try to get over the shock. I will not answer to comments or add journaks or forums. Just need some time to recover from the news.

My good TF-friends knows to find me on MSN or Yahoo.

I don't ask for pity or empathy. It's live and it can be hard.

PS: Anyway thanks to those ppl who sent me PM in February to give me strenght and let me believe everything is possible. But I think that now it's the time to say farewell to him. I'm happy that we got a big family so we can share these difficult moments and can be sure there always somebody with him in his last days.

Sorry to hear this, I lost my dad 2 years ago and still not over it.

It's a bad time for you and I wish that you and your family make it through as best as possible.

Take care of each other.

Sorry to hear that " but hey !! u knew he can live 2-3 months and Im sure he doesnt want to know everybody sad coz of him.Anyway...u cant help for make him survive.So, pls spend ur time with him and make him happy or have a good time instead let him know u r sad.Its better ??? *cheer cheer*

Leeftijd is relatief. Nooit te oud om te sterven.

Kreeg gisteren ook dergelijk nieuws. Mijn vader heeft ook nog maar een maand te "leven"

Diagnose : Vliegende long en borst kanker. 14 dagen geleden nog niks aan de hand. Zelfs pas nog een positief onderzoek gehad. En nu ineens zoiets.

Carpe d'iem verdomme.

Sorry Brother .... I will miss you mak mak

Eric,

I will pray for him. Stay close to him and take a little precious time together. Sometime you can talk about something he would like to do.

peace

Lak

Be strong.

I will pray for him.

Sorry for that...

Be strong & Bon Courage!

just spend and share the rest of good ( or bad) time together with him.... as you said, it's life... just be strong, maybe he will stay even longer than the doctor said, i pray for both of u

Don't be afraid of letting him go, that's the best you can do for him. He's going to a better place than this crazy world we're in. Stay strong. I'll pray for him as well.

sorry to hear, Thaibel

terrible news .... sorry for ur troubles.

At least it's not something sudden and you have time to prepare, and to give him the love and the care that he needs right now. While he may be weak, you can be strong for him Eric!

**_** so sorry to hear about that from the bottom of my heart **_**

My Dearest Eric, very sorry and hope God be with you.

with my best wishes.

wow Eric, so sorry to hear this my friend. I will pray anyway for your brother and your whole family. We are all here for you!!

Thanks to everybody here who supported me in this difficult times. Today i could make fun again with some colleague's. But still this awful thing will stay in my head and pops up from time to time. I know I will be strong and serene when he leaves us. I'm not a chatholic, I won't pray. But he will alwys be in my mind every day.

Eric..... I can see it isn't the best for You in the end of September - I will post this to my father together with all the other things. But indeed very bad news for You and Your brother - I do understand your feelings - and therefore even more thanks to U for Your help...Verner son of Igasoq/Rene