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hmmmmm as far as i'm concerned ppl should deal with it however they want and whoever doesnt approve should mind their own biz, however...

for the sake of this discussion, i think it makes sense to recognize that hymen and virginity are not the same thing...

i dont think one loses one's virginity playing sports, unless that's one NASTY locker room...

and horseback riding? dont' even go there...

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...when all the guys wanna do is finding every opportunity and reasons they could ever think of to shag us?

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So whats your problems guyzzz? :twisted:

personaly i don't have any problem. i take it like making love, i don't consider it just a shag.

making love to somebody doesn't mean that u have to buy a washing machine, a chevrolet zafira or a couple of gold rings together.

the word love includes making it as well. every person is special. we don't have to wait for "the special somebody". that person might never come but meanwhile enjoy giving and receiving love.

and that shag thing? let's be serious ladies. men or women we are all the same. i don't want to sound like bangkokbob but let's open our eyes, especially on this site.

Don Juan DeNana

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don't let's assume that every guy thinks this way. i expect most of the guys in TF do not, at least the louder ones.

there are some guys anywhere who think this way, but ladies, do you really want to date a hypocritical *sshole, however cute he might be?

any guy that demands to marry a virgin damn well better be a virgin. me personally i prefer to avoid virgins (although i'll be one in a month).

i dont think sex has to represent a lifetime commitment (but i'd damn well expect it to be part of one), and i have no problem with the past of anyone i might get involved with---as long as it doesnt involve diseases! not to say that there's anything wrong with a lifetime commitment either.

as far as relationships go i'm generally a LOT more afraid of meeting someone who doesnt like sex than someone who has had practice.

i follow a pretty simple rule generally, let people do what they want, and expect everyone else to let people do what they want. (note that this does not include letting ppl who want to hurt ppl do what they want.)

how are we supposed to keep ourselves virgin when all the guys wanna do is finding every opportunity and reasons they could ever think of to shag us?

If you keep ur self preserved, they say your boring. If you have sex with them, ur a f***ing slut!?!?

So whats your problems guyzzz? :twisted:

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"every person is special" :shock:

Men's perspective :!:

:arrow: it means "there is no one special in particular.. as everyone is special".

So when you are told .. " you are special" they mean " you are specail as everyone else that I used to sleep with"... errrrrrr lol

lol

C :wink:

not necessarily, everyone's created equal but some are definitely a lot more equal than others :wink:

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I use to date women 30 + and in this generation you still can find a lot of virgins, they keep themselfs for mr Right, and if he doesn't come, they keep themself !!! period !!! Even in the Big Mango.

I agree that a lot changed in Thailand ( and surely in BKK :) ) the last 10 years,but that is no reason to forget that there are PLENTY of virgins in Thailand.

And I agree that it is no fun at all to be for the first time with a virgin: too much stress :shock:

p'Ghee!! it's damn right naa. If i can vote 10 point i will do jaa 8)

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...So when you are told .. " you are special" they mean " you are specail as everyone else that I used to sleep with"... errrrrrr lol

lol

C :wink:

same idea, different approach.

like i said, make love not shag. yes, i discern before. otherwise it's easier to spank the monkey. hassle free guarantee.

so............anybody wants to feel special :?: :lol: :wink:

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how are we supposed to keep ourselves virgin when all the guys wanna do is finding every opportunity and reasons they could ever think of to shag us?

If you keep ur self preserved, they say your boring. If you have sex with them, ur a f***ing slut!?!?

So whats your problems guyzzz? :twisted:

No problem. If you're sleeping with me it doesn't mean I think you're a slut. If you're sleeping with me and five other guys too, well .... (I'm not sleeping with you and five other women. If I was you could call me a dog.)

I don't want a virgin. I don't want to deflower a virgin. I appreciate a woman who is experienced and knows what she's doing.

I've got nothing against virgins. I just don't want to go out with them. That's a headache for someone else.

It's more of the Asian guys that I find hypocritical (not all of them). Several have told me they must marry a virgin. But they will also have mistresses because the sex is better. I find that insane. Marry a woman you love and you're sexually compatible with and cherish her. Forget the mistresses.

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speaking for myself i wouldn't rule it out but smart money says it's not likely...

the type of woman i usually go for: smarter than me, cheeky, brassy, and artsy.. i think most men r scared of them heheh. havent found too many of them to be virgins but it's not impossible, esp since i dont care much about age (last 2 gfs are 20 years apart, with me sitting in the middle age-wise).

also i'd be worried if someone's a virgin and has a high enough sex drive to keep me happy---would they have gotten their 'wild oats' out of their system? once their funky motor gets started will they have a 'wild phase'? i sure did, and i know it isnt just boys who do that...

so the short of it is, virgins frighten me!

I don't want a virgin. I don't want to deflower a virgin. I appreciate a woman who is experienced and knows what she's doing.

I've got nothing against virgins. I just don't want to go out with them. That's a headache for someone else.

Hmmmmmmmm we never know....

Someday you might be smitten/struck by a super Sexy :shock: Virgin!!

Never say never :!:

lol

C :wink:

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[.. but whether or not i will do it is another story : P

Hi Filurina,

does this mean that you still have the choice???

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ohh thats a top secret hehe :wink:

I just dont understand that why is it such a big deal for not being a virgin! I mean lets say more than half of this world population arent virgin and really enjoy having sex! I think virginity is something very special that u can gave to ur first love (who perhaps could become ur last love) well do u guyz still remember ur first time sex? Horrible? Great? I think it depends on each person's conception of virginity anyway. I think most women just wanna keep it with her as much as she can but would never regret when losing it to someone she loves.

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oki as long as we're on the true confessions tip (jeez dig through the forums i think all my embarrassing 'secrets' are in here somewhere) :ooops: ...

my first time was a mistake more or less. i was sober though and arguably too young (we'll leave the number out heheh).

all my schoolmates were boasting about having sex so i figured i'd better go out and catch up, so one time when i was staying with my cousin i pounced on his neighbor's babysitter, had no idea what i was doing. she was considerably older (19 or 20) and not terribly attractive and must have been desperate indeed. :oops: she was nice enough but it was still a sad spectacle.

a few years later when my peers lost their virginity again, i felt quite ripped off by their bullshit.

however since i got my fumbling and stumbling out of the way early, and um... worked extra hard to learn from my mistakes, my sex life has been wonderful.

the moral of the story? parents and older siblings: advise kids that their peers are full of ****.

the other moral of the story? if you screw up and your'e not dead, you're not out of the game, hang in there.

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Actually I will just state my opinion of this topic... I think if a person is sensible he/she will realize virginity is pertaining to his/her sexual past/ love-life, and if it REALLY meant something to you, youd want to keep it between you and the partner in which you shared the moment with, not online on a public site, as if it was attending a concert or watching a movie, Its the most special thing any 2 people in love can share, the most intimate act together and shouldnt be treated as common as watching a movie.... perhaps the person who began this topic is searching to find if he is one of the only few remaining virgins? why would this question weigh so heavily on his mind? if his intention was to learn others' views on virginity, the question would best been addressed by asking "do you feel virginity is common and important"? rather than how many are still virgins? lol ok i know someone will read my opinion and feel mad or offended, NOT my intention, but wanted to exercise my right to add my comment......

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