davybkk Posted August 6, 2006 Author Report Share Posted August 6, 2006 I wroteIf there is no electricity between you for too long she will think of you as a friend She may even think you're a closet gay. A man needs to show his sexual interest quickly I think You have to back off when she makes it clear that she isn't ready But I think women like it better if you show some sexual interest early on rather than none at all. Pam wrote I for one find it charming when a guy takes it slowly. It is a refreshing change fromg guys that try to take you to bed (or other places for such purposes) right on the first date. But there is certain time limit. After a period of time, and the man doesnt seem to take a step forward, I feel that the interest is not mutual. How can you maintain a romantic relationship when it is seemingly onesided? So the relationship slowly slips from romantic to platonic. I have plenty of first hand experience in that. __________________________________ But you didn't kiss my butt after my post ok I'm not as cute as Pam and closet gay is a rougher term than platonic but the gist is the same comuinication is the key but got to show some interest early Well almost the same thing! Its the way its told I guess and who is ding the telling! Your simply no match for PAM! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superskater Posted August 6, 2006 Report Share Posted August 6, 2006 you are right davy no match at all even in my prime I wish you luck I hope you find love and happiness with a great girl at your own pace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam_Bevan Posted August 6, 2006 Report Share Posted August 6, 2006 Maybe I am too traditional and expect a guy to make the first move. Hey , i didnt say anything about closet gay. Which brings up another point! Guys that are "taking it slow" generally are afraid to be perceived as closet gay. So to show you that they are not gay, they will flirt with every female in the vincinity. Somehow, that just doesnt seem right.... Davy, sweet of you to propose, but you are right, education first. Try again in a year or so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superskater Posted August 6, 2006 Report Share Posted August 6, 2006 I said if you don't show her that you interested in her in a sexual way, she'll think you're gay If you don't show her that you are interested in her in a sexual way, she'll think you only want a platotonic relationship To a native speker these are fairly equal statements just one is more colorful I said closet gay this is a joke you said platonic relationship davy understands Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VanillaVodka Posted August 7, 2006 Report Share Posted August 7, 2006 As long as the chemistry is right. I don't mind when it happens because well, it's bound to happen sooner or later. As for teaching my bf how to do it. He has to make the first move and asking to be taught. You know how men's egos are like Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superskater Posted August 10, 2006 Report Share Posted August 10, 2006 men's egos I've had a lot of women ask me in one way or another are they good in bed are they as sexy as other women etc etc their are fragile egos for both men and women Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superskater Posted August 10, 2006 Report Share Posted August 10, 2006 I will let those who get to know me judge me and decide for themselves if I am "too good to be true" you typed too good to be true did you mean to type too goody two shoes to be true just a rhetorical question Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle Posted August 13, 2006 Report Share Posted August 13, 2006 depends LOL :wink: simple answer but probably one of the best on this thread :wink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superskater Posted August 13, 2006 Report Share Posted August 13, 2006 I thought the no sex part came at the end of the relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 I thought the no sex partcame at the end of the relationship no thats shortly after marraige someitmes :shock: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angel_Master Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 Exactly, men?s egos are no more fragile that women?s egos. Try telling a woman how she needs to improve her skills in bed when she isn?t asking and usually even when she is. And yes, many do need to. All women are not just naturally good in bed. Usually it is the beginning of the end of the relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superskater Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 Unfortunately in many marriages, this is true. I think its harder for a woman to be beautiful and sexy most of the time when she is living with a man as opposed to justt dating him and being a mom makes it even tougher. It's much easier for a women to maintain her sexiness when she just has a date with a guy once or twice a week. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
macca_tirana Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 Unfortunately in many marriages, this is true.I think its harder for a woman to be beautiful and sexy most of the time when she is living with a man as opposed to justt dating him and being a mom makes it even tougher. It's much easier for a women to maintain her sexiness when she just has a date with a guy once or twice a week. Therefore your assumption is that beauty and sexiness is only an appearence and not a personality. Again you contradict yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superskater Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 I see no contradiction I've always seen appearance and personailty as two separate things. For me, both are very important in the relationship. It's hard for me to comment because your comment is so short and vague Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
macca_tirana Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 It's hard for me to comment because your comment is so short and vague Perfect - then dont comment PLEASE But i know you will find a way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibel Posted August 14, 2006 Report Share Posted August 14, 2006 Without properly knowing her sex is a tool we use to gratify ourselves and make funny noises. Sex is like strawberry fields with a little bit of heart potion mixed in. I'm afraid this involves getting to know her... yup, put down the remote. ...give her the impression you're a gentleman that's what I say. Go home with a kiss and then make an impression on whatever you use to make your impression on... erm... yeah. This post sponsored by glue? Contact glue? :shock: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angel_Master Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 I say complement her so she knows you find her very attractive, but don't make any moves. If she invites herself up to your apartment, lies down on your bed and looks strait into your eyes, but doesn't say a word... don't expect her back if you don't take action. ;-) If she doesn't just keep on doing what you do best, being great company and her best friend. I haven't found that the becoming just friends issue is really a factor with Thai girls. If you find each other attractive there is always a possibility. Women like a man who knows what he is doing. Learn from your mistakes. Innocent and inexperienced works well or women, it doesn't work for men. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ivory85 Posted August 15, 2006 Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 how could u deny it when both of u do really want it. i never seen anyone who keeps waiting ... they shag cos they want. what da hell u guys waiting for :twisted: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
americanpie Posted August 24, 2006 Report Share Posted August 24, 2006 ya know I used to not give it to much thought when I was younger. You date, you eventually have sex and then the relationship gets borring but the sex is still there and then youre dating for the wrong reasons! Now I always take it slow and I've been blown off froma few because I didn't make any sexual advances toward them after dating for a couple weeks I think they think that you really don't find them attractive or something even though you're kissing them and taking them out!! It's all psycological! So you have to be up front when you have values as these and tell them right fromt he get go that you like to take things slow and aren't looking for Bang bang bang! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
breakofdawning Posted August 24, 2006 Report Share Posted August 24, 2006 Personally... i prefer a guy with experience... full stop. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uhu_uhu Posted August 24, 2006 Report Share Posted August 24, 2006 In term of sex... For me, I prefer a guy who is good in bed but I don't believe that guys who have so many expriences will be so good in bed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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