British_fellow Posted January 4, 2005 Report Share Posted January 4, 2005 If a Lady is really a boy, should we be told or must we guess. It is not a question I really like to ask in my first message! Anyone spotted any fakers on TF recently? :mrgreen: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
British_fellow Posted January 4, 2005 Author Report Share Posted January 4, 2005 What for?... :roll: What if I am a ladyboy?.. Would you kick me out of here?.... Hey sprite nobody would kick you out but have you heard of the old Crocodile Dundee manoeuvre :mrgreen: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venne Posted January 4, 2005 Report Share Posted January 4, 2005 I have very bad homophobia, but still i think ladyboys can be part of this community. If you scare some chick who you chat with is ladyboy, why you dont just ask??? I would do it like that, but its just my way...! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
germanwulf Posted January 4, 2005 Report Share Posted January 4, 2005 If a Lady is really a boy, should we be told or must we guess. It is not a question I really like to ask in my first message! Anyone spotted any fakers on TF recently? :mrgreen: As i found at many profiles of ladyboys, they are trying to behave fair and had included some hints as " i'm not a real women", "pls read my profile careful" It's more as fair if they are trying to find a partner on this site. And it's not important to mention anythink about if they are just want some internet communication. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnno Posted January 4, 2005 Report Share Posted January 4, 2005 whats a faker and what isn't? faker cos they are a ladyboy? i can think of worse things to be a faker about welcome all ladyboys, ladies and boys men also (said in a deep manly voice) 8) :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpeedTriple Posted January 4, 2005 Report Share Posted January 4, 2005 I'm not homophobic at all, indeed I have a number of gay friends, their sexuality does not bother me. I would however like to know if I the person I am talking to/messenging is male or female. I would welcome friendship from ladyboy/gay man, but I would want to know that person is a man, this would affect whether I would even entertain pursuing that particular relationship romantically/sexually whatever. I would feel tricked if someone I was talking to was actually a man posing as a woman and let's face it, it can be difficult to tell sometimes even close up !! In short, just a little old fashioned honesty is what's required. Rich. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uarewotueat Posted January 4, 2005 Report Share Posted January 4, 2005 im a lady boy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlcoholicA Posted January 5, 2005 Report Share Posted January 5, 2005 I would feel tricked if someone I was talking to was actually a man posing as a woman and let's face it, it can be difficult to tell sometimes even close up !! Actually, when you've spent enough time in Thailand its not so difficult to spot them from certain tell-tale signs. It can be difficult to spot them every time from photographs, but in person there are very few tricks that they can use to hide their true gender. I've known a few ladyboys [purely as plutonic friends] and they can be a lot of fun to spend time with.... but [in my case] not to take home. I don't think that they need to be exposed. Their sexuality and gender is an issue that needs to be dealt with in a polite manner.... also, consider that simply asking every female on the site if they are a ladyboy or not - may be found very offensive whether true or not. In fact when such people approach you, they may divulge that information up-front.... there was one tf member who sent me a message asking me "if I would mind chatting to a ladyboy".... well of course I don't mind chatting. Bottom line is the same as with other members - try to be polite and respectful.... and they will probably return the common curtousy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarryCallahan Posted January 15, 2005 Report Share Posted January 15, 2005 I hope I'm not crossing the line here, but I just can't work this one out. AngelKelly - Arthur or Martha? Stunning body, but the face just doesn't seem right. I'm tending towards LB. Anyone else wanna take a look? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uarewotueat Posted January 15, 2005 Report Share Posted January 15, 2005 I hope I'm not crossing the line here, but I just can't work this one out. AngelKelly - Arthur or Martha? Stunning body, but the face just doesn't seem right. I'm tending towards LB. Anyone else wanna take a look? very harsh hehe ...i say chick not **** :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TLOS4me Posted January 15, 2005 Report Share Posted January 15, 2005 Take a look at their nose (if they havent done any noselift yet) if its big, normally guys have a bigger nose compare to ladies. I just learn that from auntie, and No and auntie is not a ladyboy or a bakla ( slangterm for ladyboys here in PI) BZZZZZT!! Wrong-o, have to disagree with what you've been told there, the nose does not know so to speak. It is the adam's apple that you sould be looking at. It is a far better indicator than a nose. Men generally have much more pronounced adam's apples (aka windpipe) than do women and they cannot be sergically altered like a nose can. At least not to my knowledge anyways... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarryCallahan Posted January 17, 2005 Report Share Posted January 17, 2005 The hands too, always look at the hands. There is no hand-reduction operation. And gonads are a sure give-away too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted January 21, 2005 Report Share Posted January 21, 2005 i used to hang out at bars and clubs in new york that had lots of ladyboys, and sometimes it was easy, sometimes hard to tell. the best way to tell as far as i'm concerned, is the shape of the hips. there are plenty of guys with wide hips, and girls with narrow ones, but almost always the legs attach at a slightly different angle with a guy. the adam's apple, hands etc are good clues. none of these are 100 percent reliable, although i tend to err on the side of caution. (in other words if in doubt i guess ladyboy). one thing that is usually a clue... ladyboys usually tend to dress slightly more flashy than the real girls. i've found this to be true in thailand as well as nyc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted January 21, 2005 Report Share Posted January 21, 2005 yeah a ladyboy friend of mine... here in new york... 'tina sparkles'... from antigua... over 6' tall, solid, athletic. could definitely kick my ass.. west indies very homophobic, when he was a kid ppl picked on him, called him 'anti-man larry'... larry of course beat the living **** out of them.. that's where i got the idea for a drag queen action-hero, which will show up in my gangster script... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smartass Posted January 21, 2005 Report Share Posted January 21, 2005 I hope I'm not crossing the line here, but I just can't work this one out. AngelKelly - Arthur or Martha? Stunning body, but the face just doesn't seem right. I'm tending towards LB. Anyone else wanna take a look? should be a she since the size of the certain part looks real. but i agree with you totally - the face just doesnt seem right.................... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted January 21, 2005 Report Share Posted January 21, 2005 yeah barfly that's what i mean about the hips--the hip *joint* how the leg attaches... life-drawing class was good for something after all :twisted: men with a big gap between the legs still tend to have the legs attached at a different angle than women, (more 'straight down") and the men with a big gap between their legs tend to be wide shouldered, no neck, etc. hardly attractive ladyboys... asking is always an option, and i dont think it's anything to be afraid of... if you open the package and find a toy surprise just say no thanks, not my thing, and move on... although if it gets that far and it hasnt come up it's both your bad and hers (in my experience transgender prefer to be called by the gender they wish they were, so i respect that). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TLOS4me Posted January 24, 2005 Report Share Posted January 24, 2005 So as not to be verbose and re-quote Barfly and Zeusbheld, and recalling things I've seen on PBS / Court TV / History channel, etc. I think you've struck on it. I always recall the anthropologist and other assorted types holding up a femor bone and making statements like this is from a male, so many years old, so tall, and etc. etc. Then again another high tech way of telling them apart would be to do a saliva swab and DNA test. :idea: There's a new product idea, get some spit off of your date's glass and whip out your handy dandy ladyboy detector kit soon to be made by some as yet unknown biotech start up company, and by the time your date returns from the bathroom, you'll know! OK, whose got some venture capitol to throw my way, I know some biotech dudes up in SF. :wink: But since we're just relying on our eyes now and it seems that there are a lot of visual clues evaluate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JTHM Posted December 8, 2005 Report Share Posted December 8, 2005 I just realized something... I'm heavily built, have some hair on my chest, like women and have really short hair.. Does this make me a trucker-lesbian??? Should I update my sexual orientation accordingly?? :oops: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laurence Posted December 8, 2005 Report Share Posted December 8, 2005 RIS is the perfect example of a feminine LB. Might even get a boob job soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobRay Posted July 27, 2006 Report Share Posted July 27, 2006 I hope I'm not crossing the line here, but I just can't work this one out. AngelKelly - Arthur or Martha? Stunning body, but the face just doesn't seem right. I'm tending towards LB. Anyone else wanna take a look? should be a she since the size of the certain part looks real. but i agree with you totally - the face just doesnt seem right.................... Poor girl,hope she doesn't see what harry said,I would bet money that angelkelly is female.There are many ladyboys that live in my soi,and a girlfriend of mine is good friends with some.Hands,feet,how tall they are,their voice is usually a give away,how sexy they dress(most Thai girls even if they "Working Girls" will not show as much skin as a ladyboy).Sorry to say Thailands expert plastic surgeons can now hide adams apples and remove a rib to give that female shape.But they can not change the knees,have a look,guys and girls knees are not the same,check her knees,lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treborz Posted July 27, 2006 Report Share Posted July 27, 2006 The knees! The Knees! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frankenburner2 Posted July 27, 2006 Report Share Posted July 27, 2006 I hope I'm not crossing the line here, but I just can't work this one out. AngelKelly - Arthur or Martha? Stunning body, but the face just doesn't seem right. I'm tending towards LB. Anyone else wanna take a look? should be a she since the size of the certain part looks real. but i agree with you totally - the face just doesnt seem right.................... Poor girl,hope she doesn't see what harry said,I would bet money that angelkelly is female.There are many ladyboys that live in my soi,and a girlfriend of mine is good friends with some.Hands,feet,how tall they are,their voice is usually a give away,how sexy they dress(most Thai girls even if they "Working Girls" will not show as much skin as a ladyboy).Sorry to say Thailands expert plastic surgeons can now hide adams apples and remove a rib to give that female shape.But they can not change the knees,have a look,guys and girls knees are not the same,check her knees,lol errmmm...i think there probably is a perfectly good reason why the knees are all tattered and worn.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeAussieGuy Posted July 28, 2006 Report Share Posted July 28, 2006 I dont think its right to expose peoples names for any reason such as in this thread. I just wonder about the reaction of some of the usual vocal guys here if their girlfriend's name was mentioned as a possible ladyboy or a GG hooker or a drug addict or whatever. And anyway so what if she was, its no ones business right? Why not just ask the person directly as was suggested? No guts? As for the person mentioned I can personally vouch for her, the answer is a "definitely not". Seems anyone that gets a knockback or doesnt like someone for whatever reason can post that persons name for cheap shots. Be a great site if that was allowed to happen, NOT. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
macca_tirana Posted July 28, 2006 Report Share Posted July 28, 2006 Some of the funniest and nicest people i have met on my travels are ladyboys. So if your only looking for friendship why dos it matter but if your looking for more then one would assume you would figure it out before getting to that point. But if you find out when its too late just bend over touch your toes, relax and after a couple of days you will be able to walk normally again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyJellyfish Posted July 28, 2006 Report Share Posted July 28, 2006 i used to hang out at bars and clubs in new york that had lots of ladyboys, and sometimes it was easy, sometimes hard to tell. the best way to tell as far as i'm concerned, is the shape of the hips. there are plenty of guys with wide hips, and girls with narrow ones, but almost always the legs attach at a slightly different angle with a guy. the adam's apple, hands etc are good clues. none of these are 100 percent reliable, although i tend to err on the side of caution. (in other words if in doubt i guess ladyboy). one thing that is usually a clue... ladyboys usually tend to dress slightly more flashy than the real girls. i've found this to be true in thailand as well as nyc. Now, who are we talking about here: Ladyboys/She-Males only, with penis still attaches? Or does the discussion iinclude "post-operational transsexuals"? Thaose are not as easily to spot, and only after it's too late: Their artificial vaginas are rather short and dry! Had the displeasure twice already but it did not stop me from cumming. Now, am I gay or what? Forget all that sexual tupe-casting. We're all pan-sexual, some more so than others, depending on the degree of one's tight-assed-ness or libido/horniness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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