Loburt Posted August 9, 2007 Report Share Posted August 9, 2007 This is definitely not classy either sexy. And yet I've seen a few girls (and guys) here post photos of themselves making exactly the same hand sign. I agree with you, Nicky. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Special Posted August 9, 2007 Report Share Posted August 9, 2007 special - so I guess most male on TF are at ape level, including me.. Hey, I didn't say that. It's your own conclusion? But let's say that there are 12 years between us, which may result in totally different view angles on this subject. However to my opinion, the majority of men would support it if Thai women will not be shy of their body. The sparks are starting from a phisical attraction, you can't avoid that, it's all about human (man) nature. But if you insist on women in swimsuits, I recommend you to apply for custodian at the chinese national swim team..those girlies look so lovely and anabolic. Wow! You're totally right, where do I apply for that? Mentioning aquatics and Chinese, I would prefer to become the custodian of the Chinese dive team. Now they're HOT. Ah wait - the female bulgarian weight lifters look even better in their bodysuits...so what youre waiting for? No thank you, the only thing that bothers me is their gross moustache. Speaking of that, the situation in Thailand is not much better!!! A lot of Thai girls must be temporarily blind whenever they look in the mirror. :cry: I guess some of those ladies will remain innocent for all their life. Speaking badly- on their tombstone will be an inscription: "unopen - back to sender" I agree with you, doomed for a sad future if they don't get off the tracks (Thai culture - sad but true) and start openning their mind... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted August 9, 2007 Report Share Posted August 9, 2007 Im enjoying some of them....some posted quiet scary pics tho' If u ask me why I posted pictures like that, off course *I think* I look good in those pics... Im not going to post any pic of mine thatI think I look ugly... whatever u strangers think its not my responsibility... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuessWho Posted August 9, 2007 Report Share Posted August 9, 2007 cute girls in ugly cars. but i often see a cute girl in a nice car..with an ugly driver.. :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KhunEd Posted August 9, 2007 Report Share Posted August 9, 2007 I agree with many of the comments here, and it seems we are all pretty much in agreement on this too. Be proud of what you have, and don't be afraid to be yourself and show the beauty nature gave you. :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koyha Posted August 9, 2007 Report Share Posted August 9, 2007 What!!! She's my wife, were did you get her pic? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joopjip Posted August 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 All men living in Thailand are aware to the fact that the majority of Thai women have strong mental cultural blocks about even wearing a swimsuit, not to mention posting it online. I think Special made a really good point here. The point is just because it's normal or ok in western cultures doesnt make it ok here in Thailand. Being open-minded means accepting other cultures not copying them..you can of course if you see values in them but I just hope people put more thoughts into it. I think the Thais who never live overseas are actually the one who dont hesitate adapting other cultures, not the other way around, becos people never appreciate what they have until they lose it. I don't see what good comes with getting half-naked in public and you should have to justify it simply because it goes against thai culture, the culture that formed our society remember? When you have men raping women everyday and for the 1% that actually went to court the men would say things like "oh they dressed sexy i couldnt help it" cant u see ur giving them excuses that half the country seems to accept and if you think these men are basturds think again...isnt it becos u stuff into their heads something they cant understand, process and r not ready for? I do not care what you do in ur bedroom or with who but something is meant to be private. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 All men living in Thailand are aware to the fact that the majority of Thai women have strong mental cultural blocks about even wearing a swimsuit, not to mention posting it online.Those who hold these mental blocks are to my opinion - not open minded (in other words primitive!). As a farang, I wouldn't like to have a primitive woman to be my wife... i can just hear those millions of little thai girls hearts breaking as we speak !!! did u ever consider these "primitive" girls might not want to marry an arrogant farang a**hole ?? just asking like !!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Special Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 All men living in Thailand are aware to the fact that the majority of Thai women have strong mental cultural blocks about even wearing a swimsuit, not to mention posting it online.Those who hold these mental blocks are to my opinion - not open minded (in other words primitive!). As a farang, I wouldn't like to have a primitive woman to be my wife... i can just hear those millions of little thai girls hearts breaking as we speak !!! did u ever consider these "primitive" girls might not want to marry an arrogant farang a**hole ?? just asking like !!!! Although I don't know for how long have you've been living in Thailand - I assume not so many years, in additition I don't think you come from a muslim country, so I don't get why you think I'm wrong... But still it's probably the age thing. I see some of the 40+ years old guys are holding this belief that it's all OK and should stay like that about Thai girls being extra super shy for no reason except for cultural aspcets. I don't accept it as a good thing and when I get older, I still won't see it as positive. I'm sorry, you might not like my opinion and I saw it the way you responded but a lot of men who are living here are somewhat frustrated from this issue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 and given that it is a dating site, girls who post their pic on their bed in their undies with a 'come hither' look end up looking a bit desperate ,at least desperate for attention. i actually think these type of pics should be encouraged .... not looked down upon !!!!!!! or does that make me sound desperate !!!!!! oh i'm not saying they should be discouraged, mind you. i'm saying they should be encouraged, as should free and easy sex. but i don't think either are the best way to find a husband type. however, not being a husband type myself, i'm all in favor of the come hither pics, free lovins, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 and given that it is a dating site, girls who post their pic on their bed in their undies with a 'come hither' look end up looking a bit desperate ,at least desperate for attention. i actually think these type of pics should be encouraged .... not looked down upon !!!!!!! or does that make me sound desperate !!!!!! the use of the word "desperate" is vastly overrated here on TF EVERYBODY is desperate except when madly in love since this morning or under another form of narcotics, and so what GOOD POINT. "desperate" is redundant with "Thailand Friends." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 All men living in Thailand are aware to the fact that the majority of Thai women have strong mental cultural blocks about even wearing a swimsuit, not to mention posting it online.Those who hold these mental blocks are to my opinion - not open minded (in other words primitive!). congratulations! you've crossed the 'cultural difference' line and landed in the 'overtly bigoted' range! now go out and teach these heathen how to live, bwana. they've been waiting for you to show 'em the light. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Special Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 All men living in Thailand are aware to the fact that the majority of Thai women have strong mental cultural blocks about even wearing a swimsuit, not to mention posting it online. I think Special made a really good point here. The point is just because it's normal or ok in western cultures doesnt make it ok here in Thailand. Being open-minded means accepting other cultures not copying them..you can of course if you see values in them but I just hope people put more thoughts into it. I think the Thais who never live overseas are actually the one who dont hesitate adapting other cultures, not the other way around, becos people never appreciate what they have until they lose it. I don't see what good comes with getting half-naked in public and you should have to justify it simply because it goes against thai culture, the culture that formed our society remember? When you have men raping women everyday and for the 1% that actually went to court the men would say things like "oh they dressed sexy i couldnt help it" cant u see ur giving them excuses that half the country seems to accept and if you think these men are basturds think again...isnt it becos u stuff into their heads something they cant understand, process and r not ready for? I do not care what you do in ur bedroom or with who but something is meant to be private. This is good point you give here also. I think you are right, there's a big problem in Thailand about men raping women and this problem is much more spread in Thailand than it is the in the west. Why's that? Is it new problem in Thailand? Did it emerge since Thai women started to wear bikinis like 10 years ago or so? This problem goes so many years back, the roots of the problem that men disrespect women is maybe in the sidewalk of Thai culture, for that reason also woman?s level is lower than man especially in Thailand compared with western countries. And don?t get me wrong, I hold feminist opinions personally. If the ?bustards? can?t process / understand or are ?not ready for? that makes them extra primitives, yes some Thai men are also primitives. Nevertheless, the people who justify a girl being raped thanks to the fact she was wearing a bikini, well that makes them primitive even more! I didn?t mean to criticize Thai culture, but to some of its aspects regarding dress code, I know a lot of Thai women who wish it would have been more modernized and less restraint. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Special Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 All men living in Thailand are aware to the fact that the majority of Thai women have strong mental cultural blocks about even wearing a swimsuit, not to mention posting it online.Those who hold these mental blocks are to my opinion - not open minded (in other words primitive!). congratulations! you've crossed the 'cultural difference' line and landed in the 'overtly bigoted' range! now go out and teach these heathen how to live, bwana. they've been waiting for you to show 'em the light. Put it how you want, I am not the one who uses brutal words. Some cultures are more advanced than others about accepting and being open-minded regarding new dress codes. That what makes the gaps between cultures. If Thai girls are trying to copy Japan and Korea about fashion, they should also try to copy Japanese and Korean girls about being bold and confident when it comes to showing off their figure? Statistically you can either be a Thai woman or a 40+ aged farang, am I right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Special Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 Actually, I believe JoopJip's point is that the propensity of women in western countries to wear bikinis and show themselves in public is the reason for the higher rape statistics in those countries. (Opinion of course.)Whereas you reckon it's more prevalent here, apparently not because of the women flaunting themselves, but for other, more primitive reasons. (Also opinion.) Well done, good interpretation and summery of our opinions. What's your own opinion? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 All men living in Thailand are aware to the fact that the majority of Thai women have strong mental cultural blocks about even wearing a swimsuit, not to mention posting it online.Those who hold these mental blocks are to my opinion - not open minded (in other words primitive!). congratulations! you've crossed the 'cultural difference' line and landed in the 'overtly bigoted' range! now go out and teach these heathen how to live, bwana. they've been waiting for you to show 'em the light. Put it how you want, I am not the one who uses brutal words. Some cultures are more advanced than others about accepting and being open-minded regarding new dress codes. That what makes the gaps between cultures. If Thai girls are trying to copy Japan and Korea about fashion, they should also try to copy Japanese and Korean girls about being bold and confident when it comes to showing off their figure? actually "primitive" is not only brutal it's bigoted. you come right out and say that your way is advanced, and the value of a culture is measured by how close it is to YOUR way of thinking. that's pretty much the same logic that has dubya wasting american and iraqi lives in iraq. nage Statistically you can either be a Thai woman or a 40+ aged farang, am I right? statistically you are the type who resorts to ad hominem nonsense because you lack the raw wattage of brainpower to construct a cogent argument, am i right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Special Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 statistically you are the type who resorts to ad hominem nonsense because you lack the raw wattage of brainpower to construct a cogent argument, am i right? Don't you think you're off tracks? Regardless of what you think on how or what I write, I'd say you crossed a line here buddy. Being agressive using profane language won't take you anywhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 statistically you are the type who resorts to ad hominem nonsense because you lack the raw wattage of brainpower to construct a cogent argument, am i right? Don't you think you're off tracks? Regardless of what you think on how or what I write, I'd say you crossed a line here buddy. Being agressive using profane language won't take you anywhere. whereas being bigoted will? i think you crossed a lot of lines a long time ago, i find it a little ironic to say the least that you turn out to be so thin-skinned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 statistically you are the type who resorts to ad hominem nonsense because you lack the raw wattage of brainpower to construct a cogent argument, am i right? Don't you think you're off tracks? Regardless of what you think on how or what I write, I'd say you crossed a line here buddy. Being agressive using profane language won't take you anywhere. ps. profane language? ummmm not in the posts i addressed to you as far as i can tell. please enlighten me as to what your'e talking about. if you mean bigoted, the word's not profane, just the way of thinking it describes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Special Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 statistically you are the type who resorts to ad hominem nonsense because you lack the raw wattage of brainpower to construct a cogent argument, am i right? Don't you think you're off tracks? Regardless of what you think on how or what I write, I'd say you crossed a line here buddy. Being agressive using profane language won't take you anywhere. whereas being bigoted will? i think you crossed a lot of lines a long time ago, i find it a little ironic to say the least that you turn out to be so thin-skinned. So "crossing lines" is in the eyes of the beholder. I don't see anyone attacking me personally except you. Have I had really "crossed a lot of lines long time ago" - responses would have arrived from others as well, not only from you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 statistically you are the type who resorts to ad hominem nonsense because you lack the raw wattage of brainpower to construct a cogent argument, am i right? Don't you think you're off tracks? Regardless of what you think on how or what I write, I'd say you crossed a line here buddy. Being agressive using profane language won't take you anywhere. whereas being bigoted will? i think you crossed a lot of lines a long time ago, i find it a little ironic to say the least that you turn out to be so thin-skinned. So "crossing lines" is in the eyes of the beholder. I don't see anyone attacking me personally except you. Have I had really "crossed a lot of lines long time ago" - responses would have arrived from others as well, not only from you. only thing that could be remotely called a personal attack was my response to *your* making it personal: Statistically you can either be a Thai woman or a 40+ aged farang, am I right? my response was merely a parody of what you wrote. as to being the only one, there are at least two: All men living in Thailand are aware to the fact that the majority of Thai women have strong mental cultural blocks about even wearing a swimsuit, not to mention posting it online.Those who hold these mental blocks are to my opinion - not open minded (in other words primitive!). As a farang, I wouldn't like to have a primitive woman to be my wife... i can just hear those millions of little thai girls hearts breaking as we speak !!! did u ever consider these "primitive" girls might not want to marry an arrogant farang a**hole ?? just asking like !!!! but maybe the reason you're not seeing more is that you're right, and thais NEED wise farrangs like you to come in here and teach them how 'real' civilization works. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 statistically you are the type who resorts to ad hominem nonsense because you lack the raw wattage of brainpower to construct a cogent argument, am i right? Don't you think you're off tracks? Regardless of what you think on how or what I write, I'd say you crossed a line here buddy. Being agressive using profane language won't take you anywhere. he's ******* right there u know !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 my response was merely a parody of what you wrote. as to being the only one, there are at least two: All men living in Thailand are aware to the fact that the majority of Thai women have strong mental cultural blocks about even wearing a swimsuit, not to mention posting it online.Those who hold these mental blocks are to my opinion - not open minded (in other words primitive!). As a farang, I wouldn't like to have a primitive woman to be my wife... i can just hear those millions of little thai girls hearts breaking as we speak !!! did u ever consider these "primitive" girls might not want to marry an arrogant farang a**hole ?? just asking like !!!! but maybe the reason you're not seeing more is that you're right, and thais NEED wise farrangs like you to come in here and teach them how 'real' civilization works. do i get paid for that ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 All men living in Thailand are aware to the fact that the majority of Thai women have strong mental cultural blocks about even wearing a swimsuit, not to mention posting it online.Those who hold these mental blocks are to my opinion - not open minded (in other words primitive!). As a farang, I wouldn't like to have a primitive woman to be my wife... i can just hear those millions of little thai girls hearts breaking as we speak !!! did u ever consider these "primitive" girls might not want to marry an arrogant farang a**hole ?? just asking like !!!! Although I don't know for how long have you've been living in Thailand - I assume not so many years, in additition I don't think you come from a muslim country, so I don't get why you think I'm wrong... But still it's probably the age thing. I see some of the 40+ years old guys are holding this belief that it's all OK and should stay like that about Thai girls being extra super shy for no reason except for cultural aspcets. I don't accept it as a good thing and when I get older, I still won't see it as positive. I'm sorry, you might not like my opinion and I saw it the way you responded but a lot of men who are living here are somewhat frustrated from this issue. it's amazing how ppl who know so f**king little, still spout so f**king much !!! i've been coming to thailand for 10 years and been living here for more than 4 years !! i see yet another young turd with this age hang up !! as for thai girls being super shy ... not the ones i know !! but i do know that there are thai females who do not like to wear bikinis or swimwear in public places. now to me that makes them shy (not super shy), self consious, conservative and perhaps lacking a bit of self confidence not primitive !! as the for 40+ bit, maybe we are more respectful of thai girls and their values and culture than arrogant young farang assholes !!! just maybe !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Special Posted August 10, 2007 Report Share Posted August 10, 2007 as the for 40+ bit, maybe we are more respectful of thai girls and their values and culture than arrogant young farang assholes !!! just maybe !!! This has to be the quote of the day. Maybe you should start a new forum post about this prick, tosser, pervert, a**hole, arrogant, blind, dickwad farang. Who the hell is he? If I met him in person I would kill him... Back to the topic? The question here from the beginning was "should or should not post sexy photos"... The one below is a mixed Thai and French: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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