khun_lung Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 I'm really curious to know what is it about Thai girls sleeping with pillows or something to hug.This really seems to be a Thai (or Asian) thing since it's very uncommon for Western girls to do this and yet I don't think I've ever met a Thai girl that doesn't hug a pillow (or their guy) when sleeping. So why does almost every Thai girl do this? And why? Are you taught by your parents or friends or what? It doesn't seem to be a naturally universal thing to do! Hmmmm...maybe Thai guys do it too. Have no idea about that. Please explain, ladies!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bored Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 come on! i clicked on this forum cuz i thought the title is "thai girls and sleeping with THEM". who cares about the pillows, teddy bears, bolsters, dildos, vibrators etc? let's try to link both of the ideas and have another infamous thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khun_lung Posted February 11, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 come on! i clicked on this forum cuz i thought the title is "thai girls and sleeping with THEM".who cares about the pillows, teddy bears, bolsters, dildos, vibrators etc? let's try to link both of the ideas and have another infamous thread. Hahahaha bored! That's why I put this tread in the "G" rated section. Didn't realize how my subject line was gonna be truncated! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s1lv3rtwenty2 Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 hahaha...this is hilarious. i had no idea, but it all makes sense now. a thai female friend of mine recently had a birthday. i asked he what her bf got her and she said, "a big pillow for me to hug while i sleep." i'm curious now, is this typical of all thai girls? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khun_lung Posted February 11, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 hahaha...this is hilarious. i had no idea, but it all makes sense now. a thai female friend of mine recently had a birthday. i asked he what her bf got her and she said, "a big pillow for me to hug while i sleep."i'm curious now, is this typical of all thai girls? Believe me, it's more than typical, it's almost the rule! That's why I'm asking WHY! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 uh oh... i sleep with a big pillow... i tell myself it's coz ofmy back, but the truth is? i secretly wish i was a thai girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khun_lung Posted February 11, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 uh oh... i sleep with a big pillow... i tell myself it's coz ofmy back, but the truth is? i secretly wish i was a thai girl. That's kinky. I would expect nothing less from you Zeus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpeedTriple Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 i secretly wish i was a thai girl. you do???? That can be sorted these days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 Zeus: 80,000thb they will make all for you... cut your d..k and make big boobs !!! Good luck on your new way... and personality ! hahaa... but are you then farang baby or Thai... !? maybe pay some more and they will make asian eyes as well... swing !!!! :shock: ummm.... i hate fake boobs.... and i am rather fond of my 2cm of majesty so i shall not have it cut off... but when i sleep when i dream, i am a thai lesbian girl and that big pillow oh my GOD she is sexy :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 Then i need a lot... i have 5 pillows ! hahaa... hmm... any help !? :wink: hmmmmm maybe you are also a thai lesbian girl in your mind... i think i need lust more than i need love coz when i woke up i was french kissing my big pillow.. panyan: 5 pillows? you need an orgy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khun_lung Posted February 11, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 not really the RuLe!! Although i do hug the pillow and dolls, my sister doesn't hug anything at all. I didn't hug anything when i was young too...not until i started learning about being lonely :cry: i also found that people who have to hug something while sleeping, he or she just needs love BNB Well it might be lonliness or security or whatever. I know very well about the lonliness thing, but a pillow or µØê¡µÒ doesn't work for me at all. Well, the thing you say about love may be true, but it still comes back to my original question. Why do Thai girls hug something and Western girls don't? That's what I want to know! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
x_megs_x Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 well im a 'western' girl, and i hug a pillow when i sleep? maybe i caught it off the thai's .. My bf cant sleep without one, so its not only us girls ! My bf thai by the way... so that answers ur question ! :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 MEGS thanks for clearing up my identity crisis... for a while there i thought i was a thai lesbian trapped in a white guy's body.... ummmm it's normal for guys sleep with stuffed hello kitty too right? and the pink frilly silk teddy? that's normal too right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bored Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 oh god! and i thought we gonna have some hot confessions about sleeping like in ...you know what. all we got is just "hello kitty". ok then, let's continue. "how is jay?" for christ sake. please give some wan..ng material for the wan..rs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bored Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 ... and jeff, was that you the "sexy girl" who told me <<hallo handsome man>> 2 hours ago? *she* had a very unusual sound. probably she smokes too many cuban cigars. viva zapata, viva la sexual revolucion! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bored Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 zapata and cuba. too much drink gets you there doesn't it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tallboyno1 Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 I sleep with.... lets see.... one pillow... one bf.... one blanket.... one smaller blanket....and apx 15 stuffed animals But what I really want is one of those pillows that looks like a big hot-dog! Anyone know what I mean :?: Yeah I know what you mean I have two of them and three pillows. Learnt this from my ex thai gf and it have to be "Santas" too" :roll: But now I love it and cant be without it but like someone said maybe its because you miss someone? :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 ... and jeff, was that you the "sexy girl" who told me <<hallo handsome man>> 2 hours ago? *she* had a very unusual sound. probably she smokes too many cuban cigars.viva zapata, viva la sexual revolucion! depends. did 'she' twist your nipples? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 11, 2005 Report Share Posted February 11, 2005 zapata and cuba. too much drink gets you there doesn't it? yeah i dont think zapata ever *went* to cuba except when you're drunk eddie :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
breakofdawning Posted February 12, 2005 Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 Never thought of it before. But I am one who have to hug something while I sleep.. always need an extra pillow when I'm not at home with my fave side pillow. I guess, you are right Khun Lung. It's loneliness, love, security. I guess it happens in Asian culture coz one thing we lack is hugging. It's just Asian Way that parents don't really show much affection to their kids, fearing too intimate relationship will cause disobedience. That kind of belief might have changed a lot nowadays, yet if you go around, I think you might notice what I've just mentioned. An extra pillow for me please! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khun_lung Posted February 12, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 Never thought of it before. But I am one who have to hug something while I sleep.. always need an extra pillow when I'm not at home with my fave side pillow. I guess, you are right Khun Lung. It's loneliness, love, security. I guess it happens in Asian culture coz one thing we lack is hugging. It's just Asian Way that parents don't really show much affection to their kids, fearing too intimate relationship will cause disobedience. That kind of belief might have changed a lot nowadays, yet if you go around, I think you might notice what I've just mentioned. An extra pillow for me please! That's the most logical answer so far Shannon. But why is it so universal in Thailand? Pillow hugging isn't something natural and has to be a learned behavior. So the question is who do you learn it from? Parents? Friends (most likely I think)? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unigue_me Posted February 12, 2005 Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 Personally i prefer to cuddle something that can cuddle me back (no pets!) Oh We share something in common. hehehe :twisted: KhunLung : I don't think it's weird 'cause I think we all love to cuddle and be cuddled, don't we? I think hugging bloster while sleeping fulfils the loneliness u have. I do agree with Hideko !! ac69uk : Yr story was really quite something! hehhehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
khun_lung Posted February 12, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 Well, it may seem natural to you guys but when I sleep I don't hug anything. Never have and probably never will. Back when my ex-gf slept with me for the first time she hugged me like a teddy bear all night long! I was a prisoner, but it was nice too though I couldn't sleep. After the third night, I bought her a big teddy bear and said, "Give me some space so I can sleep!" She was happy (I think) and so was I. hehehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Down2Earth Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 I'm one of those girls. I call them "Animals on the bed" coz not only teddybear i have. I also have camel, dog, elephant and even a buffalo! It's not the rule but it's what i like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
breakofdawning Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 That's the most logical answer so far Shannon. But why is it so universal in Thailand? Pillow hugging isn't something natural and has to be a learned behavior. So the question is who do you learn it from? Parents? Friends (most likely I think)? Another logical answer for you, Khun Lung. I am not sure if it can apply to people at other age range, and not sure if it is the answer to your question. When I was a baby, my parents had me sleep on the side. It was a common thing to do during that time. Coz they believed that the kid's head would be in a better shape than having them lie flat on their back. Lying on the side, a side pillow came into use. But if my theory is right then this should apply to Thai guys as well. Maybe if you get a chance to spend some nights with a Thai guy, you might be able to prove if my theory is correct. :wink: Ciao Khun Lung. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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