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Stu_thailand

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Well, the saga continues...I had a big shock when I arrived home this evening - an email from the Mother of My Son whom I have had no contact with since talks and whatever else broke down a year ago.Nice email, basically saying that we should build bridges and think of Robin (My Son) instead of ourselves. If I had 1 baht for every time I tried to tell her that already, I would have nothing more to worry about.Putting together the fact that I have had no contact for a year, AND then suddenly, an email pops up, AND knowing her as I do, (money money money, more more more), I suspect that there is a lot more to this email than meets the eye. But, once again, I will play along with her little game, and see where it leads. I just want to see my Son.Reading the email of course, made me think a lot about him, so I have been sitting here with my friend, Johnny, Looking at his photo's and video's. I would like to share a couple of vids with you Guys. I took them in Manila in November 2005, which was the last contact I ever had with Robin.As all little Boys do, he was determined not to miss a trick, and was doing his best to fight his tiredness, but eventually it got the better of him:) I hope you enjoy...Ladies, Gentlemen, Australians, Kiwi's. Friends, Family - I give you - my Son:) 
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Well, the saga continues...I had a big shock when I arrived home this evening - an email from the Mother of My Son whom I have had no contact with since talks and whatever else broke down a year ago.Nice email, basically saying that we should build bridges and think of Robin (My Son) instead of ourselves. If I had 1 baht for every time I tried to tell her that already, I would have nothing more to worry about.Putting together the fact that I have had no contact for a year, AND then suddenly, an email pops up, AND knowing her as I do, (money money money, more more more), I suspect that there is a lot more to this email than meets the eye. But, once again, I will play along with her little game, and see where it leads. I just want to see my Son.Reading the email of course, made me think a lot about him, so I have been sitting here with my friend, Johnny, Looking at his photo's and video's. I would like to share a couple of vids with you Guys. I took them in Manila in November 2005, which was the last contact I ever had with Robin.As all little Boys do, he was determined not to miss a trick, and was doing his best to fight his tiredness, but eventually it got the better of him:) I hope you enjoy...Ladies, Gentlemen, Australians, Kiwi's. Friends, Family - I give you - my Son:) 
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changNoi_99

you know your ex better than us maybe she is playing games

but dont give up.

every moment you miss with your son you can not get back

you cant be with him all the time now but he should grow up knowing who his father is

and knowing you love him and the reason your not around has nothing to do with your feelings for him

just my opinion

good luck

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Franck1972

Well well..in french we say "badly acquired never profits".

I think future will play in your favor, sooner or later...take the time, I see the videos are worth it to be patient ;-)

Good luck !

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MikeAussieGuy

Mate knowing you as I do I would think you had a miserable night last night thinking about your little guy. You have a lot of support from your friend mate, it will, somehow work out positively for you both, we just have to somehow make sure that it does.

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CocoaBrotha

Good fathers should be given a chance. I am a divorced father of 3 and I have been to court a few times to fight for my parental rights and I know what I am talking about. Anyone who uses their child as an income is a lowlife ******* bastard. And deserves NO respect...EVER!

It is no different than child abuse anytime your child becomes something else then the center of you, but don't fret Stu, Time is always on your side.

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JBJE

The little guy needs you. Who else will teach him to play football?

Changnoi 99, MikeAussieGuy and CocoaBrotha are right.

I lived apart from my boys for 51 months, during which time I would only have the younger one on the weekends, and Tueday and Thursday nights for football practice, and the older one hardly at all. Since September 1, however, my little guy (not so little any more, he just passed me in height, the "little fooker" -- that's what the local Newcastle expat dads call him on the pitch, LOL) has been living with me. And just recently the older one said he too wants to live with me. . . we shall see! Would be funny/ironic/poetic if the boys, the GF and I become a family of four . . . five if the GF gets her wish, maybe?

Best to take him a proper football on your next visit . . .

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bigKus

>>Ladies, Gentlemen, Australians, Kiwi's. Friends, Family - I give you - my Son:)>>

Thank you, I promise that i will be good auntie as much as can :-) .. So, when i can take him to my home ?

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CiaranM

Stu no matter what difficulties or problems with ur ex u gotta do the best u can for ur son. must hurt having so little contact with him.

not an easy situation for u (speaking from experience) so good luck mate !!

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Stu_thailand

Thank you all. I am actually overwhelmed by the comments left here, both from people I have met, and smoe I have not. Just goes to show that what I have always siad is true...TF must be one of the best communities on the web.

I have had sms's, calls all day long wishing me well, and like I say, I am so touched.

I had another email from his Mum tonight, promising me some up to date photo's of him, I hope I will get them soon and will share them with you when I do.

Thank you all once again

Stuart.

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Ngairo

At the end of the day, he needs you....and you have the presence to have

a great relationship with him....

The manipulation by parents over their kids never lasts...the kids grow up...

Bet you get more and more e-mails.......life's great....

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