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<b>Should I or shouldnt I?

Aphrodite

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Just got an email from my friend who I would be supposed to stay with when I'm going to Netherlands that he wont be going home by the time I'd be there. So I guess that would make me a homeless! I am still trying to think hard about whether I should go for it without him. I mean I am going there with other 2 Thai friends. I know one of them pretty well but the initial plan is that we're gonna stay separately with our mutual friends in Netherlands. Then we would meet up from time to time. These 2 friends are going to stay with our friend in Amsterdam while I would be staying in Den Haag. I just dont know what to do at the moment. I was shocked when I received the news. Cry Now I think I need to look for a new place to stay. I dont want to bother our friend in Amsterdam because these 2 Thai friends will stay with him and his family already. I do have other friends in Amsterdam but I am not sure if I could get in touch with them and ask them if I could stay with them within today. I really need the answer by today cos I'm going to ask for a visa tomorrow. I cannot postpone it (or can I?) I already made an appointment with the embassy. I really feel lost (for a bit) here.UndecidedThe question is should I or shouldn't I apply for a visa tomorrow? I got everything in preparation, a letter from the company, a travel health insurance etc. One of my initial motif to go there is I wanna see DJ Tiesto in Sensation white concert. Well hopefully he would be there. If he wouldnt be there, it'd still ok cos I think (and I heard) this is one of the greatest world biggest concerts I should not miss. I also want to meet up some old dutch friend who used to live in Bangkok and some online friends I have not met. If I dont go there now, I'd have to travel there for alone some other times. Its not that I cannot travel alone. Its just this is such a good opportunity for me to meet up with a lot of friends at the same time for some special event and its summer there and I dont wanna miss a thing!! YellThis is probably one of the reasons I'm taking a break off TF. I just need to do some thinking whether I should go there or not. I just dont want to spend a lot of money for nothing you know.  
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Just got an email from my friend who I would be supposed to stay with when I'm going to Netherlands that he wont be going home by the time I'd be there. So I guess that would make me a homeless! I am still trying to think hard about whether I should go for it without him. I mean I am going there with other 2 Thai friends. I know one of them pretty well but the initial plan is that we're gonna stay separately with our mutual friends in Netherlands. Then we would meet up from time to time. These 2 friends are going to stay with our friend in Amsterdam while I would be staying in Den Haag. I just dont know what to do at the moment. I was shocked when I received the news. Cry Now I think I need to look for a new place to stay. I dont want to bother our friend in Amsterdam because these 2 Thai friends will stay with him and his family already. I do have other friends in Amsterdam but I am not sure if I could get in touch with them and ask them if I could stay with them within today. I really need the answer by today cos I'm going to ask for a visa tomorrow. I cannot postpone it (or can I?) I already made an appointment with the embassy. I really feel lost (for a bit) here.UndecidedThe question is should I or shouldn't I apply for a visa tomorrow? I got everything in preparation, a letter from the company, a travel health insurance etc. One of my initial motif to go there is I wanna see DJ Tiesto in Sensation white concert. Well hopefully he would be there. If he wouldnt be there, it'd still ok cos I think (and I heard) this is one of the greatest world biggest concerts I should not miss. I also want to meet up some old dutch friend who used to live in Bangkok and some online friends I have not met. If I dont go there now, I'd have to travel there for alone some other times. Its not that I cannot travel alone. Its just this is such a good opportunity for me to meet up with a lot of friends at the same time for some special event and its summer there and I dont wanna miss a thing!! YellThis is probably one of the reasons I'm taking a break off TF. I just need to do some thinking whether I should go there or not. I just dont want to spend a lot of money for nothing you know.  
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guttes2

I think you shall go.As u said u have more friends there,and bet someone can help you.

This seems to be something you want to do so do it.

If you had been going to Sweden i had helped u.To bad.lol

But go,and email all u friends there if they can help u.

And i also thnk u not bother u friend if u ask him.2 or 3 girls dosent matter i think.lol

I whish u best of luck and a wonderful trip

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shortyg

Last 2 times I went to Thailand I went with a friend and both times we went our separate ways after a few days, it was great neither of us had plans just went off freestyle and done whatever came our way and both had a great time and loads a stories to share on the plane home.

Go for it, sometimes no real plan is the best way.

you may regret it later if you don't do it when you can.

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Cosmo

Depend on what is your primary reason for going there.

To spend time with this friend who has just told you he won't be there or are you going there to see Amsterdam, Europe, attend festivals and concerts.

If he was the primary reason, then you should consider cancelling it altogether, afterall, no use in wasting "money for nothing".

But if you are there to see Amsterdam and Europe, then go for it.

Just my opinon

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Guest Tatim

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I am sure you can get a cheap hotel or bagpacker place there... just becasue you can't stay at your friend place and make you cancel all your trip. It's sound funny. I hope you can sort thing out soon.

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Poul

Well May, I can't really give you an advice here...of course, if you were going to Denmark, I'd gladly offer you my guestroom :-)

...but why take a break from TF because of THAT???

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sirjoe55

May I totally agree with Cosmo if this friend was your main reason then a lot of things will change ,and only you know the details ,how much they change since this person will not be there , , well I will be in Rome LOL

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Mackerel

Yeah just go! Things will solve itself...! I will also think about some possibilities.. Some info is needed, for instance the time you'll be here in Holland, when do you arrrive et cetera. Get in touch quickly then.. :)

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Drowsy_Piaw

Hey P May, i have a friend who lives in west amsterdam i guess and i told him about TF so now he's TFer. He's nice person i knew him already for like 5 years. If u wanna talk to him about it so email me...

P may, u should go cos once in a lifetime and yeah pls done things what u wanna do ok...wish u luck na ja sister.

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lostandfoundbkk

Hmmmm.... bad news!

well, I would go... but I would check out where I could stay before May! Hotels in Amsterdam are pretty high in the price , specialy during summer!

just call the embassy and tell them u have 2 postpone your appointment.

if we were talking about Berlin... u would have no problem! ;-)

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Aomazon

Staying with friend is not an issue na P may. You can stay at the hostel, cheap clean and safe. I promise. cuz I was once left before hopping on the plane to singapore :P

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kanyapilai

i really want to go there too. I mean if i have a chance and know what is my point to go there then i will go and do what i want to do. When does the concert take place?if you can go ,it's good then you can share experience with me. I will ask you about asking a visa. maybe next year is my turn. I just hope so.But i must be ready for all like money,documents,.. ect. I hope you have a wonderfull trip.Cheers!

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shortyg

I cant see any messages of don't go here

so I think you know what the TF verdict is

now get that form ready to drop off tomorrow

have a happy holiday

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bryanwhat

You gotta live life here. Go and check it out, it's always an adventure to travel in another country and with your personality I don't think meeting new people would be an issue. So just do it!!

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angel_l

go for it sweetheart at least get the visa first after that you still have time to contact your friends or find somewhere to stay and you need holiday..

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