daniel0420 Posted November 15, 2012 Report Share Posted November 15, 2012 Hi folks, i'm a newbie here...just wanted to seek for advise on any hints that a Thai girl is really falling for u... I've been seeing this Thai girl for almost 3 months...have been visiting BKK & her hometown for sveral timesandshe has also came to my country to visit me...both have met each other's parents, family members & friends as well... During my stay in Thailand or her stay in my country, we slept together on the same bed but there was no sex involved, YES, kindahard to believe but there was NO SEX...we hug each other during our sleep, that's all...she is texting me everyday on her routine activity on what she is doing when we are not together... The thing is that i sometimescan't really figure out her and is wondering whether she is treating me as a good friend or she is falling to me... Seeking advise from all the memebers here... Thanks. :o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaunitz Posted November 15, 2012 Report Share Posted November 15, 2012 Well, I think it would be important to know the family background. Normally, in Thailand, once a girl bringing her bf to her parents is a great show of determination (i.e. she is serious about the relationship). Of course, if the family is a Pattaya (or similar) one, they know how things are working and I have been told awful stories about that. Of course, there might be one or the other family from a poorer area of Thailand like Isaan or elsewhere who would think the same but the chances are very low that you just fall on one of these. E.g. my that time gf (nowadays wife) brought me to her parents and I asked her about this later.She said that she would have lost her face (in front of ALL of the village!!!) if I would not have been serious with her, so it was quite a daring thing for her. So if your gf's family is from an area away from Thailand's known sex tourism areas, you can be quite sure that she is serious with you. Just my two cents..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daniel0420 Posted November 15, 2012 Author Report Share Posted November 15, 2012 [Of course, if the family is a Pattaya (or similar) one, they know how things are working and I have been told awful stories about that.] sorry bro, i don't really get you in this sentence...kind to elaborate more? my Thai girlfriend is, so coinsedently is from Chon Buri, Pattaya...so any advise? Nice to know that you are happily married now as it gives me a sense of relief and assurance on being together with a Thai girl... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaunitz Posted November 15, 2012 Report Share Posted November 15, 2012 [Of course, if the family is a Pattaya (or similar) one, they know how things are working and I have been told awful stories about that.]sorry bro, i don't really get you in this sentence...kind to elaborate more? my Thai girlfriend is, so coinsedently is from Chon Buri, Pattaya...so any advise? Nice to know that you are happily married now as it gives me a sense of relief and assurance on being together with a Thai girl... Maybe I really was not too accurate but it is not easy to be. Chonburi is a big province but Pattaya is a notorious area. My first "contact" with this area was that a colleague of mine (me at that time not knowing anything of Thailand) told me about his girlfiend and that everything was ok and that (more than 20 years ago) he paid 200 USD per month because he lived there, the mother washed his clothes and he got along with the girl. Annoyed he was when coming to Thailand the next time realizing that his "girlfriend" was busy with another customer. As I said, you may have met a good one, but one from Pattaya gives something to think.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted November 15, 2012 Report Share Posted November 15, 2012 if u have to come onto TF asking if ur gf of 3 months (who u haven't shagged yet) is serious about U ... u've bigger issues than ur gf !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daniel0420 Posted November 15, 2012 Author Report Share Posted November 15, 2012 well...i get what you mean now...no point cracking my head thinking about it...i guess time will tell... thanks for the advise though...appreciate it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matrix1279 Posted November 15, 2012 Report Share Posted November 15, 2012 In my humble opionion ... If she hasn't given anything up yet then it means she is not one of those bad girls. She is probably more old fashion. You may even have to wait until marriage or sin sod? But if she has and you have met all family it does mean she is serious. If she has introduce you as your bf or more than even better. Thais usually do not come straight out and tell you stuff, you just have to know. But if she sleeps in same bed and holds you at night I would say you two are a couple. Especially if she used her money to fly to your country to stay with you. As far as sex ... it is probably up to you to make first move or wait until marriage since it seems she is old fashion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daniel0420 Posted November 16, 2012 Author Report Share Posted November 16, 2012 hmm...she is a decent lady but don't think so she is the old fashion type but...ya...i think i would have got it (sex) by now if i made the first move...still it is just my guess...that's the problem, i'm not very good at figuring out what's on her mind...but i think normal girl friends won't sleep on the same bed and hold u throughout the night right? thanks for the opinion bro... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
English_Bob Posted November 17, 2012 Report Share Posted November 17, 2012 In my humble opionion ... If she hasn't given anything up yet then it means she is not one of those bad girls. She is probably more old fashion. Or she may have a penis she doesn't know how to tell you about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Admin_2 Posted November 18, 2012 Report Share Posted November 18, 2012 Or she may have a penis she doesn't know how to tell you about. It's the lead up to the big surprise thats most exciting! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted November 19, 2012 Report Share Posted November 19, 2012 Or she may have a penis she doesn't know how to tell you about. there's never a good time to find that out !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twoyg2 Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 hmm...she is a decent lady but don't think so she is the old fashion type but...ya...i think i would have got it (sex) by now if i made the first move...still it is just my guess...that's the problem, i'm not very good at figuring out what's on her mind...but i think normal girl friends won't sleep on the same bed and hold u throughout the night right? thanks for the opinion bro... Stop over analysing it all and go with your feelings while keeping a close hold on your wallet. What I mean is go with your heart but have a prenup signed first. If she really cares for you the prenup will be no problem, if she objects you may or may not have a problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twoyg2 Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 there's never a good time to find that out !!! If she has one and you love her then what's the problem, get it removed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Admin_2 Posted December 4, 2012 Report Share Posted December 4, 2012 If she has one and you love her then what's the problem, get it removed What would Darwin say? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stramash Posted December 4, 2012 Report Share Posted December 4, 2012 What would Darwin say? He'd probably say; 'Gadzooks! That lady doth have a penis!' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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