beej Posted February 9, 2007 Report Share Posted February 9, 2007 a good way to meet new people regardless of gender is to find people you share common interests with. also that has the added advantage of putting it on less of a dating footing than if you just go around meeting random people, which may well encourage people to have the wrong idea. there must be other camera dweebs in your town? ......... I SAID NO TO THE NAKED TWISTER OK ZEUS NO! NO! NO! **** I'm having trouble catching my breath after seeing Vbrokers new ACTION movie shots, damn you made me giggle man! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 13, 2007 Report Share Posted February 13, 2007 ......... I SAID NO TO THE NAKED TWISTER OK ZEUS NO! NO! NO! your words say no but your heart says yes, baby. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 13, 2007 Report Share Posted February 13, 2007 interestingly, scandinavians are amongst the most likely to prejudge thais from what i've heard, yet they don't seem to judge those of their own men who are bringing bargirls home (or moving here takiing teaching jobs). Btw : please don?t tell anyone like I did. That?s a poor example well it wont win you a new friend but it was probably fun at the time :twisted: Guess you are the guy Prejudging............ Scandianvians, don't see Americans have any lack of that skill most thai girls living in america have fewer such stories than thai girls living in scandinavia. not sayin' all y'all are like that... and it probably has something to do with american sex tourists tending to go to braziil and marry carioca bargirls rather than thailand... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 13, 2007 Report Share Posted February 13, 2007 not sayin' all y'all are like that... and it probably has something to do with american sex tourists tending to go to braziil and marry carioca bargirls rather than thailand... Could be, in that case I will just say US and Canada sex tourist have lack of taste :shock: they're sissies, they can't take the long flights. besides, not many sex tourists from america. most americans are unaware that they can get a passport, let alone actually USE it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Sassy Posted February 13, 2007 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2007 I will work on making friends both my girl and I can be friends with together. I have concluded that it's not acceptable behaviour for people of the opposite sex to spend time together when either one of them is in a committed relationship. I expect everyone knows what I mean when I say "spend time together". So, in conclusion you'd be asking for trouble big time to accept male friends to help you get out. Female friends only is a must, even though it will probably take a lot more time. That is absolute bollox and you obviously don't have a trusting relationship!! Just wondering, how many healthy realtionships on earth that based on "trust".. let's say a guy goes out with another female 'friend' without having his partner get jealous, vice versa. A woman goes out with a new male friend. Can people really trust their partner ONE hundred percent? nah.. I "personally" don't think so... and this is "my" fact". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
afook06 Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 This is tough to have, because of our social issues......it's fine for a lady to go out with another female for lunch or shopping, etc. But, once there's a guy friend to try to do the same thing, this is wrong because the lady is already with a partner, and thus will be looked upon a totally different way? It just doesn't work, even if it's just a plutonic relationship....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_som_tam Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 This is tough to have, because of our social issues......it's fine for a lady to go out with another female for lunch or shopping, etc. But, once there's a guy friend to try to do the same thing, this is wrong because the lady is already with a partner, and thus will be looked upon a totally different way? It just doesn't work, even if it's just a plutonic relationship....... Really? Are these your values or are you speaking for society? I see nothing wrong with my partner having a PLATONIC (plutonic relationships are celestial in nature.. ask Frogster, she just returned from Pluto) relationship with a member of the opposite sex. What it boils down to is whether or not you are insecure in your relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
afook06 Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 Tatt2dude I Love Som Tam Spiroidal You all have nothing worthwhile to say, so now you're correcting my spelling on my volcabulary Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
macca_tirana Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 This is tough to have, because of our social issues......it's fine for a lady to go out with another female for lunch or shopping, etc. But, once there's a guy friend to try to do the same thing, this is wrong because the lady is already with a partner, and thus will be looked upon a totally different way? It just doesn't work, even if it's just a plutonic relationship....... Eddie. Hypocrisy is your strength. U tell us all that you?re in love with your Dec 06 model, a fairly new and updated version. But at the same time you flirt with ?you?re cute" pm's. How would you feel if your new love was doing the same?? Thx for the PM?s BTW very entertaining On topic In this day an age surely the rules are the same regardless of gender. If you don?t like actions of a partner but feel its ok for you (generalisation to the masses) too do the same then your clearly out of date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beej Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 Hahahaha, thats funny. If my G/F wanted to go out for lunch with a guy friend her she could I would not feel worried one little bit! Its all about trust Fooksie, and most people can only trust others as much as they trust themselves.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_som_tam Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 Tatt2dudeI Love Som Tam Spiroidal You all have nothing worthwhile to say, so now you're correcting my spelling on my volcabulary eddie... do u bother to read anything? are you that obtuse? would you like to borrow my flashlight? it must me pretty dark where your head is at right now :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LingBaah Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 It just doesn't work, even if it's just a plutonic relationship....... According to one of the most high profile new additions to www.urbandictionary.com in 2006, if the girl has plutoed you and relegated your relationship with her to a plutonic state, there isn't a chance in hell that you're getting any. Platonic or plutonic, you're in the dreaded 'friends zone'... like it or not. Urban Dictionary 1. pluto Verb. to pluto someone or something is to downgrade, demote or remove altogether from a prestigious group or list, Like what was done to the planet of the same name. Ex: He was plutoed like an old pair of shoes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beej Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 Urban dictionary.... a scrabble players dream! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 It just doesn't work, even if it's just a plutonic relationship....... According to one of the most high profile new additions to www.urbandictionary.com in 2006, if the girl has plutoed you and relegated your relationship with her to a plutonic state, there isn't a chance in hell that you're getting any. Platonic or plutonic, you're in the dreaded 'friends zone'... like it or not. Urban Dictionary 1. pluto Verb. to pluto someone or something is to downgrade, demote or remove altogether from a prestigious group or list, Like what was done to the planet of the same name. Ex: He was plutoed like an old pair of shoes. probably derived from the fact that pluto has been downgraded from planet status. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beej Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 alot of you seem to be attacking afook06 but he is entitled to his opinion and when you stay on the target its a bit different to your bird going to lunch with a mate, we are talking about a really hot socialble girl going out with farangs in KL and their intentions not hers, she can sure, but dont expect happines in bundles when dudes txt and call you when you are having moments together.mr beejoir, why dont you leave your chick kl and let her hang with new dudes.....im sure your everest-like confidence wouldnt feel a thing... gf :roll: ys I leave my gf to go out with her guy friends in Bangkok..... what would you propose I do lock her up and slip her a bowl of milk under the door once a day. Trust, its a nice thing! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 Hahahaha, thats funny.If my G/F wanted to go out for lunch with a guy friend her she could I would not feel worried one little bit! Its all about trust Fooksie, and most people can only trust others as much as they trust themselves.... Yeah but it's not like she gives you much choice eh? I've seen her lock YOU up at home with a bowl of milk and a cat :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beej Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 Hahahaha, thats funny.If my G/F wanted to go out for lunch with a guy friend her she could I would not feel worried one little bit! Its all about trust Fooksie, and most people can only trust others as much as they trust themselves.... Yeah but it's not like she gives you much choice eh? I've seen her lock YOU up at home with a bowl of milk and a cat :shock: .... two cats now! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 The fact that you want to meet new ?friends? makes me wonder if the prejudice is correct. The fact that tg?s are always on the lookout for the next step up the ladder makes me suspicious. To understand the prejudice is one thing to deal with it is another. I would not endorse what Periboea said, just shows lack of respect for your bf. So you are saying.. after having a bf, I, as being a Thai girl, must stop looking for friends. Completely. What?s your boyfriend thinking about leaving you alone to have a ?terrible experience?? Your bf should be helping you to build confidence. I guess you don't understand how it goes.. Thai girls living in this Muslim country.. you can't stop people from not to show racial hatred.. but hey.. I don't wanna go deep into that because it will be difficult to express into word, unless you experience it yourself, every single day. Racism is present everywhere But I do agree that it can make you feel very alienated. I have lots of guy friends and that's exactly what they are : friends. Any man in my life has to accept the fact that I WILL socialise with other guys (straight or otherwise). As for making guy friends...hm this is quite hard. The best thing to do is to find people you can really talk to. Then make sure they know that you only want a friendship. They WILL step over the line so when this happens, put them firmly in their place. The ones who can respect you as a person will realise their mistake and quit being dickheads while the other ones... ...just throw them out with the trash. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 Hahahaha, thats funny.If my G/F wanted to go out for lunch with a guy friend her she could I would not feel worried one little bit! Its all about trust Fooksie, and most people can only trust others as much as they trust themselves.... Yeah but it's not like she gives you much choice eh? I've seen her lock YOU up at home with a bowl of milk and a cat :shock: .... two cats now! Eh? I thought X'mas was fixed? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beej Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 Shes got a BF! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Sassy Posted February 14, 2007 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 err Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Sassy Posted February 14, 2007 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 I 'LL BE YOUR FRIEND SASSY!If I've misunderstood the point of this thread however, ignore the above and look at this pretty picture instead: THANK YOU !! I'm glad to hear.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Sassy Posted February 14, 2007 Author Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 Well, so far I have seen pretty funny replies over here... more than one missed the whole point but who is counting...?!? 8) ....*I think it was 8 to 9...* :wink: Heh... that was my writing... admin we have bug in TF forum replies!!!!! It came out as Sassy's reply... I honestly DID NOT write that.. why the heck was it under my name? it's not even my speaking style :x what's going on here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beej Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 UH_OH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beej Posted February 14, 2007 Report Share Posted February 14, 2007 .................. I think you lost the point! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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