GirlFromMars Posted February 24, 2005 Report Share Posted February 24, 2005 Have you ever been in the situation of getting back again with your ex girlfriend/boyfriend? How does it work? Better or Worse? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 24, 2005 Report Share Posted February 24, 2005 99 times out of 100 it's worse. it's not impossible but i think usually it's VERY risky. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GirlFromMars Posted February 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 24, 2005 99 times out of 100 it's worse. it's not impossible but i think usually it's VERY risky. What is that have to do with Ris? :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted February 24, 2005 Report Share Posted February 24, 2005 *risky* not frisky ris but i'm sure she has an opinion... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robbie36 Posted February 24, 2005 Report Share Posted February 24, 2005 Sometimes it works well if you get back together as 'giks' rather than bf/gf. Well, works for me anyways/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Malky Posted February 24, 2005 Report Share Posted February 24, 2005 It is usually not a good idea to get back with an ex-partner It might start off again all sweet and romantic, but if someone has been hurt during the original split, old memories can not be forgotten. Sure, some people can learn through their mistakes, but it's probably best to make a fresh start with someone else as opposed to continue with a troublesome relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexx Posted February 24, 2005 Report Share Posted February 24, 2005 My ex and I started sleeping together again after we'd been splits for a few months... which, after about 3 months, basically led to us being a couple again though we never really said it... then BANG! We had a huge fight about the same thing we'd always fought about, surprise surprise. And that was that. The fight was really really bad and left me wondering why the hell I'd *ever* been out with him (a year later, I can answer that question, but it took me a bloody long time to reach that point). If we'd just stayed friends, then I probably wouldn't have gone through the really difficult, bitter period after the final break-up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GirlFromMars Posted February 24, 2005 Author Report Share Posted February 24, 2005 Thanks for you guys opinions,really appreciate them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s1lv3rtwenty2 Posted February 24, 2005 Report Share Posted February 24, 2005 a bad relationship is like spoiled milk. you can put it back in the refrigerator, but the next time you take it out, it is still spoiled. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted February 25, 2005 Report Share Posted February 25, 2005 it may work if 2 people really want to do.. well I dont think its gonna be the same at all even u back to be together.. love and then loose love.. so how will it get back again.. sound tough to me. I have no experience about this.. my rule is never step back.. If i been with someone else already I can never back to old one. why u curious GFM? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GirlFromMars Posted March 2, 2005 Author Report Share Posted March 2, 2005 it may work if 2 people really want to do..well I dont think its gonna be the same at all even u back to be together.. love and then loose love.. so how will it get back again.. sound tough to me. I have no experience about this.. my rule is never step back.. If i been with someone else already I can never back to old one. why u curious GFM? I am just curious according to a q that my ex asked me But I REALLY do not wanna to bury myself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tallboyno1 Posted March 2, 2005 Report Share Posted March 2, 2005 Believe it?s very difficult to get back together again with the same feelings that you had before. But it depends of what happened to destroy your love and relation. And then also what kind of personalities you both are, life cycle, kids Try some counseling help from a third experienced part that can try to solve things that cant been solved by the two of you alone. :idea: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tallboyno1 Posted March 2, 2005 Report Share Posted March 2, 2005 well I can always forgive I someone does a mistake once but as someone said here too, you never forget...unfortunately. But we are all humans and everyone can make mistakes in life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uarewotueat Posted March 2, 2005 Report Share Posted March 2, 2005 Have you ever been in the situation of getting back again with your ex girlfriend/boyfriend?How does it work? Better or Worse? it only ever happened once to me... i dumped a girl i was living with and moved to my mates house! then after a couple of weeks i got back with her but lived apart ...it was all ok again ...but then we bought a house together and about 5 months after movin in she dumped me wot goes around comes around :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aphrodite Posted March 2, 2005 Report Share Posted March 2, 2005 im getting back with my baby *gradually* hopefully i do believe that there's always a reason behind the broken relationship. well i'd try to fix it as much as i can. ppl have million reasons why they broke up. u just have to think twice and carefully whether its worth to give another try. u know everyone always deserves a *second* chance. but if it doesnt really work out, there shouldnt be a third try. this is a life.. bitter and sweet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adam21 Posted March 2, 2005 Report Share Posted March 2, 2005 Getting back together again after a break up rarely works. It never has for me, anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tallboyno1 Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 It depends ... Not that it is no chance to make the 2nd time to be working. Nothing is ever black and white. I wish I could get back together with my ex-bf anyway Cos the reason we broke up is we live so far from each other ,he couldn't stand that situation. Not that we stop loving each other or else. We still talk to each other everyday. He dosen't have any new relationship with other girl ,not even try. Well, I don't know if it will be working if we back together. I don't really know But ,if we're meant to be,we're meant to be ..... hope so Well things isn?t always they way you want but then you still have a good relation and maybe in the end you will be together anyhow if destiny, time and both of you want that. Just trust and be yourself, live your life happily meanwhile and keep a good contact with the guy. Time will bring you apart or together sooner or later. Hmmm I sounds like a stupid Dr Phil but I am not!..lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gerryjam Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 My honest opinion is: No, it will not work! The problems why you got separated are not away if you come together again. Perhaps after some happy time you will see it: Nothing changed! This sounds perhaps hard but I think it's better for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
friends Posted March 8, 2005 Report Share Posted March 8, 2005 I don't think it will work again!! get to know a new guy interesting than back to ex-guy!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
falangboy Posted March 8, 2005 Report Share Posted March 8, 2005 I think Dr. Phil is right. Just live your life. Don't go out and LOOK for a new guy but if one comes along, great! I don't think you should ever be looking for a guy/girl. Then you put too many expectations on the relationship. Just let it happen. As for the current guy, if it's meant to be then you will both make the effort to be together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wanika187 Posted March 10, 2005 Report Share Posted March 10, 2005 My situation is..That..My exbf said " I almost started telling people I'wll get back to my exgf. But they way he act is different and strange for me..Sometime I think he just kidding me. I don't know it will work out or not. But I will let everythings move on.. If anything happen I will wait and try to handle it. Anyway, I will not close myself from others..Just for waiting exguy to come back.......Maybe he will naver come back. ( But only said he would like to come back and make you wait for him as the rain that have never rain...... Good luck to You and to me...If you can get back together.... I don't think girl want to have many ex. ex , and ex guys. I prefer one if posible...lol...Tired to learn or apply myself to new relationship more and more.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wanika187 Posted March 10, 2005 Report Share Posted March 10, 2005 I always forgive...But not forget. Forgiving is good..make you feel not so heavily in your heart. But forget is so hard...Sometime I tried to forget..But It's so hardddddd Anyway, I will give second chance for everyone who want to get second chance....especilally a guy who I used to be and enjoy with and can even called him as my bf. Nobody perfect! But only second chance ...lol No third, forth...lol Too much to patient about that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OIC Posted March 10, 2005 Report Share Posted March 10, 2005 I don't think it will work again!! get to know a new guy interesting than back to ex-guy!! yep...thats right 8) but still we can be friends 8) . Cheers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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