Adam21 Posted March 2, 2005 Report Share Posted March 2, 2005 Why do people cheat on each other? I know this question might sound a bit dumb but it's still an interesting one to look at I have a freind who had a really sweet gf but he cheated on her and then threw her away for this nasty, self centered brunette he met at work. Damn stupid thing to do, I thought, but he doesn't seem bothered by what he did at all. Why??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted March 2, 2005 Report Share Posted March 2, 2005 simple... No Love! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle Posted March 2, 2005 Report Share Posted March 2, 2005 HArder to mean them. Not all people cheat but if a mske a comitment and cheat its a poor reflection on you. Its a complicated thing called love ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alvish Posted March 2, 2005 Report Share Posted March 2, 2005 After a night out in town me and my mate ended up back at my apartment drinking a lot of Sangsom with 3 hookers who managed to wangle their way back with us in the taxi. They were flirting and stuff the entire night about 4 hours with me and my mate until around 7 in the morning where I decided to leave and go to the pool leaving my mate alone with them. Unfortunatly I forgot the sun tan lotion and wasn't goin back into that room so i ended up getting the worst burn you'll ever see after falling asleep on a lilo. It has to be one of the hardest experiences of my life especially under the influence of so much Sangsom and Chang and the girls were so tempting, though I was not tempted (unlike my friend). I told my girl friend all about it that morning and after a day or 2 of arguing and near splitting up everything was good again. Wasn't till this happened I realised how much i loved my girl and how hard it is to be a guy around horny women, we're all human after all. So more or less people either cheat because they are not in love or they are week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle Posted March 2, 2005 Report Share Posted March 2, 2005 We cheat because we are not in love or weak or both !! There are so many levels of love. Thing is if you let someone know you will be only theirs its a potentialy harmfull situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 Why do people cheat on each other? I know this question might sound a bit dumb but it's still an interesting one to look at I have a freind who had a really sweet gf but he cheated on her and then threw her away for this nasty, self centered brunette he met at work. Damn stupid thing to do, I thought, but he doesn't seem bothered by what he did at all. Why??? sorry adam but *yawn* seen a lot of those a**holes, been living with them too. i bet there's something missing in your friend's relationship, no matter how sweet the gf is if he's not satisfied with what he has then he'd be easily tempted and not so faithful. sick of those cheating b*stards, *yawn* i'd just let them go do whatever they want. if they're not happy with me, fine, just go. plently of cute hunks out there. :wink: Controlling our hormones would be a good start to not cheating. A strong belief in respecting your partner. Yeah, it's a tough one though! Yellowsomething, which hunks are you refering to?? 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 [quote name="bobbyboy112003Controlling our hormones would be a good start to not cheating. quote] "control my hormones?"....damn...i'm screwed! HAHAHAHA.....I think you made my point better than I did LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 Many people want the security of a realtionship AND the excitement of sex with someone new.These two urges are usually incompatible yesh... also, ppl cheat when they're in forked-up relationships, and either dont have the spine to leave, or have mixed feelings (wanting to run away and wanting to stay both at once). i suppose that would count as "weak" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 as for controlling hormones, i recommend 2+ hours a day masturbation in addition to servicing your partner at least once a day. 4-6 hours masturbation when you're apart. youll be too tired to cheat. is it me or does this thread remind anyone of marco01? zbh the b is for nostalgic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lefteye Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 ~*~ I wiSH I KnOw......... WhY... I wiSH I UnDeRSTaND....WhY... I wiSH I CouLD ReaLLy fOrTGeT...... < SigH ---> SaDLY ---> SiGH ---> GoOinG TOOoo HaVe a CuP of ~* HoT LaTTe*~ > ~*~ LefTie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 Controlling our hormones would be a good start to not cheating. A strong belief in respecting your partner. Yeah, it's a tough one though! bobby controlling my hormones while sober is next to near impossible, add a few beers and ... well forget it !! as for cheating, men r lousy, cheating, lying bollocks who would get up on a cracked plate if they were pissed and horny enough. well most of my friends would whereas i obviously wouldn't :oops: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 ........keep your monkey caged up??. i still say spank that monkey! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 Yellowperson wrote: "Q for bb: how do you control your hormones!?! LOL, now dont tell me, i know it's creepy! LOL. oh well which hunks i'm refering to? you know boobiesboosterwithbunchofchicks" My hormonal control Miss Yellow? With my mind of course...ok, here's an example: I walk into q-bar one night and see Miss Yellow....my heart speeds up, my mind races, my hormones start having a fiesta in my body. I feel it, I want it...it's supposed to happen when I see a lovely lady, right? Of course it is. The difference is that I use my common sense and judgment. She is a lady. To be treated with respect. My mind guides my body. (Gee Cherry, you know they're gonna tare me up for this explanation, thanks) As far as the "boobiesboosterwithbunchofchicks"...flattery will get you EVERYWHERE LOL Ok guys, go easy on me, ok?....that means you Jay 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
falangboy Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 I think there are a couple of reasons for this from a man's point of view. The first is biological in nature. The evolutionary details were hinted on earlier. The second is socialization. Men are expected to be successful and thus desireable. The more women the more successful. This probably explains why women are drawn towards successful men. They are biologically and socially inclined towards men of success. You ever notice that some men seem to have a lot of women and yet more women are still attracted to them? Even when they know he's got a lot of pots on the fire. Third, human beings are naturally self inclined. They want what they want, when they want it. Plian and simple. And the final reason was very eloquently stated earlier... because they can. Bobby hit it on the head when he spoke about walking into Q bar and seeing that girl that just charges you. You can feel the chems mixing in your body. It doesn't mean you have to act on it. But you can't stop the feeling just as you can't keep from getting hungry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 aha... good descriptive example you got there ajarn bobbysexologistboy. only one more questionL your mind guides your body to do what?... complete the story. yes, you see me, i'm hot, you go fiesta with your err.. thing.. and then? ...? then sbobbysboy goes home and pounds pud! of course! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 as for controlling hormones, i recommend 2+ hours a day masturbation in addition to servicing your partner at least once a day. 4-6 hours masturbation when you're apart. youll be too tired to cheat. is it me or does this thread remind anyone of marco01? zbh the b is for nostalgic Does your left hand think you are cheating with your right hand? Or with anything else? Do they fight over it? :roll: oh yeah! oh no! onan. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uhu_uhu Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 I think it's also depends on experinces of each person and your social too because it has a lot of influence upon your mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babyoiy Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 simple... No Love! No Love .. don't have to cheat on anything .. just say something that you dont love. so silly??? who? :twisted: Dont have to cheat of course... just say it.. yes right... but not everyone do that Some couple aint be together coz love..... there are many reasons... so i still say the same... cheat coz no love.. so scary if u love and cheat too... so wot's the point for ur love? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tallboyno1 Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 I think there are a couple of reasons for this from a man's point of view. The first is biological in nature. The evolutionary details were hinted on earlier. The second is socialization. Men are expected to be successful and thus desireable. The more women the more successful. This probably explains why women are drawn towards successful men. They are biologically and socially inclined towards men of success. You ever notice that some men seem to have a lot of women and yet more women are still attracted to them? Even when they know he's got a lot of pots on the fire. Third, human beings are naturally self inclined. They want what they want, when they want it. Plian and simple. And the final reason was very eloquently stated earlier... because they can. Bobby hit it on the head when he spoke about walking into Q bar and seeing that girl that just charges you. You can feel the chems mixing in your body. It doesn't mean you have to act on it. But you can't stop the feeling just as you can't keep from getting hungry. I like your analysis with ref to Bobby too. I believe in a good relation only when there is a mutual 100% respect and 100% love from both parts -and if not, its better to be single. And if you are in a good relation you have already done your decision when you are coming into the Q-bar decision. Its about respect and love to your partner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 Yellowtroublemakinglady wrote: "aha... good descriptive example you got there ajarn bobbysexologistboy. only one more questionL your mind guides your body to do what?... complete the story. yes, you see me, i'm hot, you go fiesta with your err.. thing.. and then? ...? lemme know what your mind's done to your body... hehehe.... yeah your inner beast is coming out, bloodyboyz.. and it's a trap... " Damn you're good 8) ...ok then, let me help you a bit then: Falangboy wrote: "Bobby hit it on the head when he spoke about walking into Q bar and seeing that girl that just charges you. You can feel the chems mixing in your body. It doesn't mean you have to act on it. But you can't stop the feeling just as you can't keep from getting hungry." He said it better than I could....does this help Miss instigator? Also tallboyno1 wrote: "I like your analysis with ref to Bobby too. I believe in a good relation only when there is a mutual 100% respect and 100% love from both parts -and if not, its better to be single. And if you are in a good relation you have already done your decision when you are coming into the Q-bar decision. Its about respect and love to your partner." See Miss Yellow? Yet another well put point!! As to your second question....um......er, how can I answer without you taring apart my statement as though I'm a Zeus kind of person? 8) I will try anyway, sorry Zeus LOL If I use my mind and my beliefs, I should be able to control "my NATURAL reactions" to a lovely lady such as yourself. Sure, the "animal instinct" is there, but my common sense and respect will over ride it....I hope as I have never met you in person 8) LOL Geez, i'm stopping here krup....ain't giving you more ammo to shoot at me :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 Yellowtroublemakinglady wrote:"aha... good descriptive example you got there ajarn bobbysexologistboy. only one more questionL your mind guides your body to do what?... complete the story. yes, you see me, i'm hot, you go fiesta with your err.. thing.. and then? ...? lemme know what your mind's done to your body... hehehe.... yeah your inner beast is coming out, bloodyboyz.. and it's a trap... " Damn you're good 8) ...ok then, let me help you a bit then: Falangboy wrote: "Bobby hit it on the head when he spoke about walking into Q bar and seeing that girl that just charges you. You can feel the chems mixing in your body. It doesn't mean you have to act on it. But you can't stop the feeling just as you can't keep from getting hungry." He said it better than I could....does this help Miss instigator? Also tallboyno1 wrote: "I like your analysis with ref to Bobby too. I believe in a good relation only when there is a mutual 100% respect and 100% love from both parts -and if not, its better to be single. And if you are in a good relation you have already done your decision when you are coming into the Q-bar decision. Its about respect and love to your partner." See Miss Yellow? Yet another well put point!! As to your second question....um......er, how can I answer without you taring apart my statement as though I'm a Zeus kind of person? 8) I will try anyway, sorry Zeus LOL If I use my mind and my beliefs, I should be able to control "my NATURAL reactions" to a lovely lady such as yourself. Sure, the "animal instinct" is there, but my common sense and respect will over ride it....I hope as I have never met you in person 8) LOL Geez, i'm stopping here krup....ain't giving you more ammo to shoot at me :twisted: well bb i thought this was the most perfect answer to my question... concise and accurate as you are a Zeus kind of person aha... good descriptive example you got there ajarn bobbysexologistboy. only one more questionL your mind guides your body to do what?... complete the story. yes, you see me, i'm hot, you go fiesta with your err.. thing.. and then? ...? then sbobbysboy goes home and pounds pud! of course! huh? hahahahhaaha... why long explanation bb! NO COMMENT :roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeusbheld Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 aha... good descriptive example you got there ajarn bobbysexologistboy. only one more questionL your mind guides your body to do what?... complete the story. yes, you see me, i'm hot, you go fiesta with your err.. thing.. and then? ...? then sbobbysboy goes home and pounds pud! of course! huh? hahahahhaaha... why long explanation bb! NO COMMENT :roll: the prince of darkness ticks item off to-do list: get confession from sbobbysboy CHECK NOTE TO SELF: remind sbobbsboyabunchofnumbers that there is no 5th amendment in hell. *disappears in a puff of smoke* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted March 3, 2005 Report Share Posted March 3, 2005 aha... good descriptive example you got there ajarn bobbysexologistboy. only one more questionL your mind guides your body to do what?... complete the story. yes, you see me, i'm hot, you go fiesta with your err.. thing.. and then? ...? then sbobbysboy goes home and pounds pud! of course! huh? hahahahhaaha... why long explanation bb! NO COMMENT :roll: the prince of darkness ticks item off to-do list: get confession from sbobbysboy CHECK NOTE TO SELF: remind sbobbsboyabunchofnumbers that there is no 5th amendment in hell. *disappears in a puff of smoke* I confessed nothing!! I'm innocent I tell ya, innocent...what were we talking about? Ah!! Yes, I just explained some simple consepts to Miss Yellowstartedallthistrouble. Come back here Zeus...cough...cough....and get rid of the smoke will ya? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CocoaBrotha Posted March 12, 2005 Report Share Posted March 12, 2005 People usually cheat because there is a conflict between their physical and emotional desires, Emotional intelligence is all about using all of our brains and their capacities. We will always be assaulted, so to speak, by feelings we can?t, or shouldn?t act upon. And ?shouldn?t? isn?t always a bad word Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alvish Posted March 12, 2005 Report Share Posted March 12, 2005 Theres always peer pressure some people might feel superior to females etc. gettin as many as they can etc the same old jock stuff... bloody jocks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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