Dating online does not guarantee your results. Here are my observations incase you want to know… 

Most Thai girls will not respond to you if they are not interested. They believe it is more impolite to tell you that they are not interested in you compared to just not responding to you. I think you should choose more than just 1 or 2 ladies to contact. Your chances of receiving a response and finding the perfect lady will increase drastically with the number of contacts you make. Remember the 80/20/10 rules. 

It is very difficult to know for sure which lady will be interested in which gentleman. Everyone looks at everyone else just a little different.  If you choose very attractive ladies with high quality educations then you may not be the only gentleman interested in these ladies and you may have some serious competition.

So, always send or post a handsome, clear picture of yourself along with your initial letter to any lady. Make sure the ladies see a very high quality photo of you and make sure you are neatly dressed and show a big smile. Gentlemen that send quality pictures of themselves tend to receive more responses from the ladies. The majority of Thai ladies are more interested in men that are well groomed, respectable, and personable. (Subjective to personal taste.) Pictures with your shirt off and straining to make your chest pop out just makes them giggle and click next. First impressions are very important to these ladies (just like anyone else). Personal appearances are very important for that fist impression. 

One problem that many gentlemen have is that they choose ladies far too young from them, some with a 20 or 30 year age difference and then wonder why the ladies they choose are not interested in them. You may have better luck if you choose ladies closer to your age group.  Or, they may choose the most beautiful and most educated ladies on the web site and then wonder why they do not get as many responses as they think they should. 

These ladies are looking for someone with a secure career or financial security (like all women). Not that they want you for your money, but someone who is doing something with their life.  Someone who has a reason for being and knows it.

Other tips to improve your chances of finding the perfect lady are; choose ladies that are not too different from your age and the more ladies you choose the better your odds of finding the perfect one.  

Once you find the ladies you want to contact, just send them an e-mail, message, or testimonial… sit back and hope that one day you might get a response from a live one that finds you just as interesting.

This site works very well for most men as long as a little common sense is used. These ladies are also looking for the best man for them just as you would be looking for the best lady for yourself.   If all else fails and you don’t see what you want in here….then get out into the real world and say hello and smile to 15 people a day,  It doesn’t matter who, where, or when, just get out of your office, and say "Hi.." and smile... You are still going to have to play the numbers game, Good luck to all you hunters! 

Cheers!~ Welcome to cyber world..

excellent....

thought of the month ... as i noticed here ...some women are talking to more than one man and telling them all they are serious. lol

Thumbs up for nice post.

"If you choose very attractive ladies with high quality educations then you may not be the only gentleman interested in these ladies and you may have some serious competition."

You could have just remove the "may" out of this sentence...it is called "overexposure", and doesn't require "very attractive" lady, lookin' here the male/female ratio for example...

Uhmmm.... I dont find it that difficult (for me) to tell guys that I am not interested in them.. if of coz they want whatever "more" than friendship I could possibly offer.

I have a good reason - being with a partner.

When I was single, polite responses didnt work coz they kept trying. "yes, maybe, later, probably, perhaps, I'll think about it, blahhhh" didnt work for them.

That's why I think its easier to just cut the crap rather than being polite... Do I sound bitchy? :*)

well, i think women all over the world do this. just no response. it is kind of frustrating, but when the tables turn and your the one that has to blow someone off then it is totally understandable. any response at all just keeps the other person trying, and gives them hope. so, i understand and i'm not bothered as i have sometimes been by being ignored. everyone's got a right to choose who they want to interact with and who they don't. and they have no obligation what so ever to explain themselves or give a reason. yep, it's firstly a numbers game.

i jsut want a free meal

Good post...

lol at Aomerica

Hmm....what happen if guys trying to find "not so beautiful girl" which mean girls who not so attractive will become popular????

Anyway, to say you are bi in your profile and guys stay aways pls.. doesn't stop all guys who want to contact you too.

Oh, if you want to get relationship or friendship, showing your xxx pic doesn't help at all.