How do you gauge your life, your achievements, your failures?  With experience, knowledge of previous mistakes and victories won are great teachers but how do we really learn? Do we simply take notice of life itself or do we take heed in the advice of others and witness their time spent in the pursuit of perfection? To whom do we measure success against? Being truly satisfied with your own endeavours, is that enough? Is it right to  feel the need to compete against a never ending succession of people who will always fare better in life's lottery. To be reflective and analyze...Is this really healthy and productive? Looking at one's self and not liking what you see....I'm a coward to answer my own questions.Relationships....How do you fix things that seem impossible to mend...To be truly sorry for past errors in judgement. If you are repentant to the point of suffering, do you deserve forgiveness?  Sometimes being sorry can lead to being sorry for one's self...Where loss and loneliness are replaced with hate and only understanding for your own predicaments. Knowing you have let down  and do continue to let people down...Maybe you set out with good intentions but somewhere, somehow they are eroded by selfishness and the ability to turn off your emotions...I do love, I just feel I'm suited to be on my own.Anyone for tea?

Trying to justify not scoring on Saturday night Danny? ;-)

Not bothered about scoring mate, I've been celibate for nearly a year. I just wish there were some things that could be unsaid.

" Kettle's on, so don't be long. Mon Cher"

Posted by dannyboy [ 2 March 2009 | 3:14PM ]

Not bothered about scoring mate, I've been celibate for nearly a year. <<<<<

ehhhhhhh ........ is that through choice ??? :-0

when i read no titles i presumed this would be about liverpool's season!!

:{D

Well, I have been back in Thai for nearly 2 months if that's a fair yardstick to measure my celibacy...So yes! I would guess so...8-)

Two lumps or three, Stegee?

better start dipping your biscuit in the tea before it goes stale!

That'll be a Hob-Nob then...

I want to be the TF member with the most Yellow Cards ever...

(I think I'm on 5 now - although one was dubious)

Don't worry Bob. I'm sure things can be arranged...Just carry on and you will be fine...8-)

ok good im glad im not the only one not getting any, I mean celibate... thanks Danny

I've just baked a frexh batch of scones if you would like some to go with your tea Danny...while I ponder whether to take up the gauntlet thrown down by my definitely heterosexual and hairless through choice friend on going for yellow card records...

coffee for me...no sugar...just a bit of milk or cream...i'll give you my breakfast order later...

there you go Danny!! Celibate period over!! It looks like you and garlic are having breakfast together!!! : )