I love challenging it’s healthy and make me serious focus to get thing done.

I have dinner with my friends, we call our group as “Lame Association” there is a him (my closed friend), as a chairman and a me, as the vice p-, and others friends as our members hehe..

Last week while we were having dinner at his condo, which we call the head office. A him said to me that” U’ll never get a husband coz lame” and 1 of a  friend strongly agreed with him, then I made an announcement to everyone there that I will proved them wrong by saying “I will get a husband which is not a one night husband or temporary husband but a husband by lawfully and chemistry”.

With refer to above and to achieve my goal, I stop reading, cooking, movies and I planned to put my profile in 10 different websites and focus 2 join parties often to meet new ppl and opportunities.

Years ago my standard type age was between 35-40 yrs and 185 + cm tall that was not so serious,

but now between 40-50 or early 50 yrs and 170 + cm tall is ok, due to my bio clock keep ticking I can’t afford to be picky (sound desperate, eh? maybe I am). I saw the experiment that one of my closed friends she went hunt gazelles but turnout to be the wounded wilder beat that left over (maybe gazelles run too fast hehe..)  

And now one of my work friend just got engage, she’s completely stole my planned as she will make an announcement of engaged on 08.08.08 and the wedding on 09.09.09 I can’t believe it, she shown us her diamond ring and when I ask her at our lunch one day that “I don’t expect diamond ring but even aluminum ring, do u think there’s a guy would offer me? Everyone silent but seems like they were going to laugh. Anyway I will get a husband in this life or next…not sure that my planned would success but better than do nothing I have confident to do thing as it is no harm to anyone by any mean but to be an old maid it is such a big burden…hehe don’t want to think about it but…LLL 

I would like to know if anyone here has an idea or expertise in how to make demand meet supply...hehe.

Any suggestion would be welcome and appreciated but not tell me to grab my back pack run after the leaving train or sit in the horse back fully with weapon then gallop into the jungle… 

 Ahem!!!Caution: This is not suited for anyone who is or tends to be allergic & afraid of marrying or serious relationship, please stay away coz my lameness will cause u injured and more….. 

Sincerely Yours,

Soda Y.

Vice p- of“Lame Association”

Haha Soda...let's look at your minimum demands:

Not much more than 50

At least 170 cm.

Aluminium ring :-)

Not a fast runner :-)

Now when you're looking for a job, you usually keep optimistic if you can fullfill about 75% of the demands. So which demand are you going to forget about? :-)

BTW. I never heard about a one-night-husband :-)

...and remember, the more you look, the less you find...I don't know why, but that's how it is :-)

Well now that you have posted here, I'm sure that you will be inundated with offers. Not all of them good ones LOL

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Hello Soda, reads funny at first, but take good care - otherweise it might turn out as a course on "How to get pregnant in 4 weeks without having an appropriate papa".

Honestly, dont sell yourself at discount price to the next-best guy crossing your ways and dont allow anybody put you under pressure, not even yourself.

amazing that such a sweet chic cannot find a husband, surely it must only be a matter of time.

ps. don't forget annual general meeting of lame ass. june 7th

11-11-11 and 12-12-12 are still available....I guess you won't make your 6 month plan with those dates. Who wants 08-08-08 anyway...will be doomed with opening of Beijing Olympics, a fate worse than death.

As they say "once lame, always lame"

I appreciate your openness and honesty in your journal. Maybe you want to give yourself more time, do more social activities (book club, gym, dance class, clubs, networking) as well as the online listings. If you feel desperate you may get married in 6 months, but then separated in 12.