The girl ask me.. 'How many times for dating before u  decide to have sex'???  I was like,,,,,,lol........ i ask myself too... 'How many time that i dated my bf, and finally made love with him???? .. I got answer for myself. hehehe

 But what I answer to the girl is. 'Its depend. if you like that guy ,if chemistry is right, if everything is right, so Go on. do it..  so.... well... ......How many times????  or what else should i tell her???

If its not a one night drunken stand then I would say the third date....first date, kissing and some clothes on rubbing....Second date, maybe a little oral or hand job...LOL...Third date, screw his brains out....LOL...Any longer than three dates and he's probably out of there...;p

@CaptainSW-----------------lol.................. hahahha... i like second date yes... hahahahah

I think everyone is different. So you can just tell her just as you mentioned above. Also let her decide what is best for herself. She will know what she is/isnt comfortable with.

If anyone's "out of there" after the 3rd date then she's better off without him.

Good guys don't crap out after 3 dates without sex.

Good guys wait as long as it takes until the girl is ready.

Sex tourists / sexpats and players on the other hand....

1st date.... cos there might not be a 2nd!

@Beej----------------------lol......................

depends on how desperate she is to get some treatment for the sick water buffalo ^__^

waste no time.. *just do it*

I prefer to have sex with them before the first date; that way I know whether it is worth having a first date!!

if just sex -- A.S.A.P.

If love -- ya will know when the time is right.

in your friends situation she will know if and when the time is right.

I think this is a question for further discussion by the ladies... (we might learn something)

Ohhhh Sassy ..where have you been all my life! )

Never a rules about others' hearts, desires, she isasking only what others will think and say...

Tell them to shove it! Set your own standards...live for your desires

@Neo - Oh you're SO RIGHTEOUS!

It must be cool to live in your world, being so caring and wonderful to all the poor little girls out there who need your protection.

Maybe you can fly over and 'Neo-kung-fu' kick some guy who is try to have sex with one of these poor maidens. Then you can ride off into the sunset on your white horse and take (celibate) care of her forever.

Or...

A guy can try to have sex on the first date... just in case the girl LIKES sex... just in case she's horny as hell and doesn't NEED saving!

And if a guy bails after three dates, why then you can step in and whisper sweet nothings in her inbox...

@Unny....Yeah second dates are usually the best...better if you combine the second and third though....;P

EB...Dave like your post