The late starters
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Ms. Mistress
Late in last month on Sunday Ms. Mistress calling said she was on her way back to Chonburi, she was at Future Park, Rangsit at that moment she telling me she supposed to date a guy who promised to buy her lunch and movie later, but when he met her he try to take her to his house or a hotel. Which uncomfortable her to comply with. She was wasting time for an hour. After got herself out of his car she hurriedly find somewhere to eat before heading to Ekamai go back home, Chonburi.
When she got home she was calling me again telling how he tries to take her to his home or hotel. And told me that “I already choose a guy who’s not English teacher to date, but still its ending the same” up on hearing my friend saying I don’t know what a proper word to console, but I try to entertain her by saying” its because you have an American turtle’s back and that’s why they want to give you their Anacondas.”
Ms. Mistress is in her mid thirties, she is a sweet girl with innocent look & personality which gives men wrong impression that her look is easily to get. When I look at her whole structure plus her personality, first thing I thinking of her is sex (maybe I have too much male hormone ..lol..) her sweet eyes & shy smile make she look as if an obedient child. And her full epic body is the first language of greeting:
Me: when were you starting date?
Ms. Mistress: after my thirties.
Me: so that’s mean a few years ago.
Ms. Mistress: Yes, that’s right.
Me: did you ever have any stable & genuine relationship?
Ms. Mistress: Yes, I think I had one. A guy that I told you he want to marry me for 2 years so that I can stay with him in Saudi Arabia, then after that he want divorce, because he love freedom.
Me: why didn’t you try to be with him then, I mean maybe after 2 years he may change his mind.
Ms. Mistress: I would, if he lives in other countries but not Middle East.
Since then she still dating on occasion, but no one is fit to her description of what she looking for as a man who’s sweet & romantic, but unfortunately she met only men whose horn….
Ms. Swan
Ms. Swan is a girl that I witness her lovelorn for many years. She is in her mid thirties also and her first date was when she 29 years and almost a year last. After that she was dating a foreigner guy, but she mention that she is not their type. I don’t know exactly what she mean, but assumed it’s because her attitude and personality.
Two years ago she lost her 3 job consecutively and got a new job as net café staff at Sukhumvit soi 4. She was also chatting at the same time of working and she met a Turkish guy who’s said how much he loves her and wants her to fly to meet him there. Over hearing his sweet mouth she was gathering infomation and arranging thing to apply visa to Turkey but one day she found out that the guy was chatting with a bar girl who’s use internet café almost every day. She read her window chatting, seeing the Turkish guy telling that girl he loves her and want to have family together. Ms. Swan told me that she was felt hurt & disappoint over a Turkish guy like this bar girl more than her.
Then she stop chatting with Turkish guy, and start to chat with an Indian guy who has restaurant at Phuket. Not long, she decided to quit her job and heading to Phuket, due to this guy invited her to help him take care his business. I warned her as much I can, but she insisted to go, and that is how she found out that this Indian guy already got two wives. And more over he treated her like his servant, but she has no choice to leave him because when she arrived Phuket she has no money left at all. Let just say I don’t wanna share details of this part more than this…
Almost half a year she’s stay with an Indian guy and at the same time she keep searching for a job and have a job interview in Bkk so she’s back again. She got a job in bkk but didn’t happy of her salary and keep look for job in Phuket I don’t know why she want to go back there to visit Indian guy family sometimes, since she has bad experience. I was surprised when she told me that this Indian’s family changed their mobile number because she keep calling them until they can’t stand her, but she still come by their place tho..
At that time got a job in Phuket but everything was not as she expecting, the job, and salary but one thing that she seems satisfied with was she met a Thai guy, who later exchange mobile number and after that Ms. Swan back Bkk. She was keep calling her Thai bf every day since then. After 6 months calling and visiting him sometimes, Ms. Swan told me that she’s going to get married on October 2009, but I don’t believe her because its unlikely that this guy love her, but use her. She was having a good job that she admitted that this is what she want but she want to be close to her bf so she try to look for a new job in Phuket. After a year searching she got a job there as a real estate broker.
While she wasn’t move to Phuket yet, she gave me reason why he didn’t marry her on October 2009 it’s because they living far away and if she got a work there he would marry her. She move to Phuket last year and I asked her again on March 2010 if it possible that she is going to get marry, she said her bf told her that he will set a wedding party on May 2010, but it’s never happen. Now she admitted that she probably living her life alone after he put her off again and again. She asked him if he want to sign marriage paper, but he said “whenever you pregnant”. This guy is already have 4 kids and he doesn’t want anymore kid, but maybe he knows he can’t have kids anymore that is why he keep telling her.
Whenever we talk about his sex life she said she never know what orgasm is because he never be gentle/foreplay to her, but after spread her legs he stab her immediately instead causing her bleeding sometimes. I don’t really want to hear that part which makes me ill. How can she let him abuse her mentally. She might need to learn more to be happy and love herself more. I always telling her to find another man but she keep saying “even I got a new man he would be same as this one”. I never said a word after that because she would never listen to me or anyone.
Ms. Broccoli
Ms. Broccoli is in her mid thirties, a couple week ago she text me said “Oh I feel so bad & sad, pamper me, Pamper me”. I was calling back to see if she is ok, her voice as if someone who has a big cry. She is the only daughter in her family, a good kid and a proud of family. She’s cute and smart girl but come to her love life she hasn’t success yet. Perhaps because she starts dating so late or less experience.
Back when she was 25 years, I encourage her to find herself a boyfriend, but she said she didn’t want/need any bf because she can take care of herself. She keeps said that until she was 29 years. One day she suffered hypertension and realized that she cannot be alone, she may need someone take her to hospital in case she’s back out.
While she was going to be 30 years she still single and hasn’t opportunity to date yet. At the same time her friends keep telling her that “if you still virgin until you reach 30’s birthday, this virginity will stay with you forever until the end of your day”. Over hearing her friend said so; she was frightening and tries hard to end her virginity before her 30 birthday.
Luckily, she met a Canadian guy who was that time 49 years of age, but she didn’t seem to please because she feels uncomfortable walk with a guy who could be her dad. That guy probably sensed what she felt and even so their relationship last for 6 months before broke up. After broke up with Broccoli not long that Canadian guy text her that he was going to get marry. She was in shock, maybe there’s lots of question in her mind.
She stays single after broke up with a Canadian guy 2 years before resumed her dating. When she starts dating again it look like she start learning again. She met a guy who seemed to like her a lot. He treats her right and takes good care of her well, but relationship last for 9 months and what shocked her most is after broke up a week the guy told her he has new relationship a month ago already. I was surprised of how could that be but I can’t do a thing because she kept herself silent, and turn off her mobile.
This relationship was hurt her deeply because they supposed to marry but it end before time and after a couple months she was went out with friend and drunk. She went to hospital in the next day and found out that she needs to get operation. I visited her in the hospital when she asked me not to tell her family because she didn’t want them to come to Bkk. And also asked me to come to visit her again because she didn’t want to wake up alone after operation. I didn’t tell her family as she asked and pay her a visit as I be told. I don’t know if this illness is connecting to her broke up but she confirm it.
After operation they moved her to waiting room to check if everything alright after operation. When I first saw her she still sleeping from anesthetic and her face swell. I was in tears to see her in that state and thought if she were died I would be the first person who know, and her family the second. When she fully recovers she looks as if she learnt something and be more maturity.
Later on, her parents really want her to marry because her 9 months relationship was about to marry already (she told them) before it ended. And that make she want to please them but when she dated again and realized that didn’t work easy then she decided to tell her parents that it’s not that easy and I think it’s a good because she doesn’t have to be pressured by them.
She was met a guy on a famous dating website who seem to get along well in early 2010, and he came to Thailand on May 2010 to meet her here. He is a nice guy who’s in his late forties but seem he be aware over relationship. So he take thing slow and at first start of relationship it make us in the insecurity state and that is why she text me to console her. And when I call her she admitted that she doesn’t know how to choose a guy due to her less experience in dating. I always keep telling her that “you are dating so late and now you are in the same class as those girls who are in their early twenties or late teen”.
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