RainBo Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 With all the negative thoughts posted here about accounts and money, it is no wonder relationships fail at such a high rate? Either that (Ghee) some people might be hanging around the wrong kind of person thinking life is grand when it isn't. I see nothing more embarrassing for a woman, than to go somewhere and have her BF, HB or what ever reach into his pocket and have to pay for her. If you cannot trust the person you are with, with your money, you are either with the wrong person or you are one greedy SOB! If you believe your partner is going to screw you sooner or later, you are stupid for staying with that person. I would not want to be around anyone in a close relationship that I cannot trust with everything. For some of you old penny pinching fools, wait till the day you fall down on the floor dying of a heart attack and your partner just stands there waiting for you to die without calling for help, because she knows what a cheap penny pinching bastard you were all along. Life is too short, spend money like paper. In the end, we all go up in a puff of smoke with nothing anyways. And Ghee sorry to disagree but it is usually the people that have allot of money are more generous, than those hanging on to their miniscule savings for dear life, scared to death they might go broke. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PlaiFar Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 RainBo..when are we getting married? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shamu Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 I see nothing more embarrassing for a woman, than to go somewhere and have her BF, HB or what ever reach into his pocket and have to pay for her. To be honest i enjoy treating my partner and wouldnt expect her to pay anything for me or for herself when she is in my company.... maybe im an old romantic? On the other side of the coin my ex-fiance did take me out for lunch / meal a couple of times.... i certainly did appreciatte it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beej Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 I would this week.... mines emptly, her's is full. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alvish Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 No... Never. I'm tight and she is **** with money. Already agreed to have independent accounts / money I invest and she spends her money on ****. She prefers having no money cause then her dad can;t pester her for loans all the time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stramash Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 I probably wont share the account..but won't mind spending on his wallet tho !!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: His wallet is my wallet.. My wallet is MY WALLET !! and that, my dear girl, is the reason you are still single!!!! :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hobbes Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 RainBo..when are we getting married? But aren't you already?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john_qq Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 Either that (Ghee) some people might be hanging around the wrong kind of person thinking life is grand when it isn't. it's all in the head anyway issn't it today you're the world's greatest lover and tomorrow the greatest a**hole she's ever met so what's the point of pretending trusting somebody who has 99 percent chance of not being there next year (a gf 4X's sake) with access to your accounts is just daft if and when i do get somebody dependent on me she gets a clear cut from my income on her own account where i have no access like she has none on mine and that'll be hers and hers alone and i don't want discussions over why this and why that life's difficult enough without all that bs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PlaiFar Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 RainBo..when are we getting married? But aren't you already?! no..i will ask you after i finish with him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 If there is enough money. But if times are tight as they've been better to keep track . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treborz Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 Tentative... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
condotown Posted February 9, 2009 Report Share Posted February 9, 2009 With all the negative thoughts posted here about accounts and money, it is no wonder relationships fail at such a high rate?Either that (Ghee) some people might be hanging around the wrong kind of person thinking life is grand when it isn't. I see nothing more embarrassing for a woman, than to go somewhere and have her BF, HB or what ever reach into his pocket and have to pay for her. If you cannot trust the person you are with, with your money, you are either with the wrong person or you are one greedy SOB! If you believe your partner is going to screw you sooner or later, you are stupid for staying with that person. I would not want to be around anyone in a close relationship that I cannot trust with everything. For some of you old penny pinching fools, wait till the day you fall down on the floor dying of a heart attack and your partner just stands there waiting for you to die without calling for help, because she knows what a cheap penny pinching bastard you were all along. Life is too short, spend money like paper. In the end, we all go up in a puff of smoke with nothing anyways. And Ghee sorry to disagree but it is usually the people that have allot of money are more generous, than those hanging on to their miniscule savings for dear life, scared to death they might go broke. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Ghee is the voice of reason and experience. I see nothing negative about the ideas expressed. A little analogy... imagine you have a candy store and you adopt a child and let them take care of it.... A person who grows up with no disposable income and marries a person with assets tends to get all excited about spending the money without appreciating how hard it was to come by. People who have a lot of money and have experience with it are NOT more generous.. they are more careful about how they spend it. It is broke-ass people who tend to be overly generous and not understand how to manage money. Now show your face please.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nave Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 I probably wont share the account..but won't mind spending on his wallet tho !!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: His wallet is my wallet.. My wallet is MY WALLET !! and that, my dear girl, is the reason you are still single!!!! :twisted: Ask my ex...i hardly spent money (on his)... except the diamond rings... 5 years that we were together... 5 sepcial occasions -birthday -new year -valentine's -anniversary -christmas one ring each !! for only five years... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hbkbkk Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 Even if I have 1000 times more money, it is still our money when we are together. Hypothetically: You have 1000 times her money (not uncommon here) Your money is shared. 2 years later you hate each other. She gets half. Do that a few times and see how much money you have left 8) Marriage is grand... divorce is 500,000 grands Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hbkbkk Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 if we were to share cash, should we also share debts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neo Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 Ask my ex...i hardly spent money (on his)... except the diamond rings... 5 years that we were together... 5 sepcial occasions-birthday -new year -valentine's -anniversary -christmas one ring each !! for only five years... One ring to rule them all and in the darkness bind them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nave Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 ah well ghee... only 25 rings and i didnt forget to mention ..just dont wanna scare the new guy away LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hbkbkk Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 ah well ghee... only 25 rings and i didnt forget to mention ..just dont wanna scare the new guy away LOL let not forget about suffering.which is free. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nave Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 Ask my ex...i hardly spent money (on his)... except the diamond rings... 5 years that we were together... 5 sepcial occasions-birthday -new year -valentine's -anniversary -christmas one ring each !! for only five years... One ring to rule them all and in the darkness bind them. This ring ??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hbkbkk Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 i know people who would have unprotected sex but wouldn't share a toothbrush.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ngairo Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 if we were to share cash, should we also share debts? Very very good point.....I'm willing..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yamahacrasher Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 As my beloved auntie married a non-Thai for 20+ yrs. She always the one who manage family financial. Since she can transfer money without any action of my uncle, only his salary go to this account so I assume it's a shared account that one of them can do anything alone. My uncle only have to work while my auntie have to take care of all payments, saving some for tax, kid's education etc and whenever my uncle wants some money he might get it. And they will discuss about it once or twice a year if necessary (esp* at year-end or after tax paid). I think that's a pretty hard work. But my aunt is always good at it tho' it took sometime to gained all trust. They both have the same concept, "No Debt" and all credit card usage might be cleared within 6-8 weeks time (will be used only when they travel around). I wish I get just a bit of her about this but obviously I dont. So I might marry someone who is good at financial management. Very good example, Oiy. Not all Thai women screw their hub's money. Exactly. My gf has one of my atm cards, 7 figures on it, never as much as 1 baht missing when i come back from months of overseas work. Its called trust. Couldnt trust a farang girl as i trust this one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeeMarc Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 Exactly. My gf has one of my atm cards, 7 figures on it, never as much as 1 baht missing when i come back from months of overseas work. Its called trust. Couldnt trust a farang girl as i trust this one. that's called the 'long game' as opposed to the short time game. Lets see in 1 or 2 years if you say the same :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stramash Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 Ask my ex...i hardly spent money (on his)... except the diamond rings... 5 years that we were together... 5 sepcial occasions-birthday -new year -valentine's -anniversary -christmas one ring each !! for only five years... One ring to rule them all and in the darkness bind them. This ring ??? Perhaps this one would be more suitable... (and even gives more pleasure than a diamond ring!!) :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetieBabie Posted February 10, 2009 Report Share Posted February 10, 2009 Exactly. My gf has one of my atm cards, 7 figures on it, never as much as 1 baht missing when i come back from months of overseas work. Its called trust. Couldnt trust a farang girl as i trust this one. that's called the 'long game' as opposed to the short time game. Lets see in 1 or 2 years if you say the same :wink: 55555555555 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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