julesnash Posted March 12, 2004 Report Share Posted March 12, 2004 I pose these questions because it is a subject that is on my mind at this moment in time...... Are there TFers out there who have had a "cyber" relationship together? How did it go? Are there TFers out there who have started a real life relationship together? Was the transition from "cyber" to "real" smooth or did it have unexpected problems? Did it all work out in the end? Or did it go completely "Pete Tong" (wrong). I realise that ppl might not want to tallk about this in public for fear of being embarassed. So if this applies to u, then drop me a message [i wont tell anyone ] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gin Posted March 12, 2004 Report Share Posted March 12, 2004 i met someone online here on internet but forget where i met him lol coz at first i really hate him. he used to be on this TF site but he already quit. i talked with him for a year may be over a year and he seem to be nice as i know him. i can't tell what will happen in the future.. but he's coming this june gin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbyboy112003 Posted March 13, 2004 Report Share Posted March 13, 2004 I'm very lucky to have made some really good friends here. I have never had a cyber relationship, but believe it has worked for others before. If two people are meant to be, then it should be, regardless of where they met. bobby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gin Posted March 13, 2004 Report Share Posted March 13, 2004 in my opinion, it's just a different to meet ppl online or in real life. in cyber world you just meet and talk frirst (except you have your pics online) and only can talk without seeing each other ( dont' use cam!! lol ) in real world you just fall in someone cause her/his look outside. mmmmm i dont' know for other opinion but i do believe in love any where as long as you are sincere and honest to each others. everything depend on yourself it's only you who can choose it to be gin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S123arpedon Posted March 13, 2004 Report Share Posted March 13, 2004 Yes it can be a little dangerous as you can say whatever you want about yourself...but if you wanted to take it to a more serious level then you would have to come clean eventually about any little details you may have left out... I dont see any reaon why it cannot work though. I generally post ont he forums and add comments to other journals. I have sent a few messages but not with too many replies!! The members who i have been messaging are pretty cool though. I originally joined jsut to meet new people but never say never!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luke_hudson Posted March 18, 2004 Report Share Posted March 18, 2004 I dont think i have to worry too much about this subject. For every 20 people i contact with a civil and polite message i average a return rate of one... I signed up for the 3 month minimum and dont think i may even see that out yet.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ling_dtua_khaao Posted March 22, 2004 Report Share Posted March 22, 2004 I met my gf online quite by chance (actually, math played an obscure part hahaha). The first time we chatted was a little over a year ago. We quickly became good online friends, often spending way too much time chatting. There seemed to be some attraction for both of us, and a lot of flirting. I work from home a lot, so sometimes we'd be online together for huge amounts of time in a day. I'd have a nap, come back, chat some more... etc. etc. Anyway we did this for 5 months, I'd phone her sometimes too, and I got to hear about various of her dates among other things. It would always make me a little sad! I didn't want her to end up with some other guy before I got the opportunity for a date with her! But she would always tell me that no problem I'd get to have a date for sure LOL. I came to Thailand in July last year, originally my reason was to see family, but by then I had become just as interested in meeting her for real. Hmm we saw each other a lot, clicked and it didn't take too long for us to become very special friends When I went back to Canada in September our status was a little unclear, we were both interested in continuing but the big distance etc. etc. I said I'd come back in December. Then Admin started TF in early September, and she was one of the first people on board (before it was officially launched). It started off just as friends of Admin. But she told me about the site and so I joined too and became one of the very early members also. Hmm, we went back to chatting phoning etc. But something happened in late November I think that made our relationship take a more serious turn, and that was improved with my visit in December and January I'm coming again in May. So we managed to convert from online to real world, but I think because we didn't fall in love online, we just became great friends. Both of us knew it might be different somehow in reality even without either party lying or deceiving, and I'm pretty sure I can't fall in love with someone I've never met. There have been a few hiccups but overall things have been good despite the long distance. There are some plans for plenty of in person time later this year --Ling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bware Posted March 25, 2004 Report Share Posted March 25, 2004 yeah I hate it when women just want me for sex! damn them!! Don't they know that I'm more than just a piece of meat!! More like: - I'm a vegetable too ? Kidding, thaibeast hey even worse, some girls don't even want any kind of meat .. they want that quality piece of beef.. you know the kind the butcher uses to make long german sausages with ..lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bware Posted March 25, 2004 Report Share Posted March 25, 2004 he he he .....how about a long fat salami ? The kind that smiles like garlic ? nah Gives girls a bad breath ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
julesnash Posted April 3, 2004 Author Report Share Posted April 3, 2004 well in response to my own original question , i am about to jump into the deep end with a TFer... hope i stay afloat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s1lv3rtwenty2 Posted April 5, 2004 Report Share Posted April 5, 2004 and are we allowed to know who it is? you know, so slurms will stop hitting her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
julesnash Posted April 5, 2004 Author Report Share Posted April 5, 2004 Sorry guys, it's a secret Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coopjt Posted April 5, 2004 Report Share Posted April 5, 2004 good luck to both of you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnnyFavorite Posted April 6, 2004 Report Share Posted April 6, 2004 Hello to all, I am "the new guy" on the block around here and for that and besides the fact that I will complete 53 years of age this years, most of the girls, women and ladies tiptoe around me. When I was younger and in Thailand, I had ten girls on every arm, which make me no different than most of the farangs in those times, (1971-1972, 1981, 1986, 1993, 1996). My profile tells the story of me finding the former Miss Thailand and marrying her in 1971. Aside from incredible beauty and the long, ebony hair, I put her on a pedestal and treated her like a queen. She succumbed to breat cancer in 1979, but she gave me 3 perfect children who, themselves, are as half Thai, very good looking. I raised them alone and they are married, have babies, homes and are gone. I am just retired from 32 years active duty USN special forces and I am a FULL BIRD CAPTAIN in the Naval Fleet Reserve. Since arriving I have made it no secret that I wish to find a woman to spend the rest of her life with me. I have a 90ft. Yacht, I will take a Capt., first mate and a merchant seaman with me when I leave for "The Orient" and S.E. Asia May 5, 2004. I will work on my Thai during the trip, I remember a lot, but still cant make a full sentence that makes any sense. The crux of this note is to say, I am looking for a lovely woman to spend the rest of my life with me. What do I have to offer? I might ask the same question. But I am clean, a gentleman and I want to be love and to love a woman passionately once again. You ask why I never married until now. The answer is that I decided in 1979 that my children would know their 2 heritages and I gave them ALL the extra time, all the attention I could. I did not wish to bring strange women int the picture. Well, My son left two years ago. I just got back from a Presidencial order to report to a duty station I cannot talk about and I spent a year there. No women. So I hope my profile catches some lady's eye and I will be in constant contact. Meantime I am here and though I think I have contact half the women in this club, I will work on the other half now, to be fair. Love to all, JOHNNY FAVORITE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pierre_cardin Posted August 27, 2004 Report Share Posted August 27, 2004 You guys are scaring me.. :shock: Does anyone have a story bout a cyber relationship that actually ended well? I've been in one for about 7 months (another TFer :oops: )and so far, nuthin has gone wrong. I plan to be in Thailand by the end of this year,and might probably stay if it works out..(PLANS) But this brings back the fears...(THNXZ) :idea: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smartass Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 Hmmm.. I dont have anything to reveal about TF relationships besides so far I've met/talked to some pretty cool folks. Anyway, anyone would like to update their stories? Jay? Jeff? Oops :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnno Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 my wife and i met on icq about 5 years ago now. we have been married for nearly 2 years now cyber relationships will work if they are real paople you are cybering with 8) :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GirlFromMars Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 Good luck to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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bored Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 ...Anyway, anyone would like to update their stories? ... ok. the moment of truth has arived. in my infamous adventure with this mental institution (TF) i've had 795 relations with ppl i met on line. around 500 of them were women, 150 were men and the rest ... fcuk knows what they were. we started in the usual way, through the magic eye of the web-cam. isn't this small electronic device the most important discovery after the vibrator and sex change operations? after inducing blossoming sensations into each other via on line, i met all this ppl one by one or one by five (the volume doesn't matter but the lenght) and i can say it was aye (at least with 300 of them). so, after this experience i can sincerily tell you that TF relations are the best, much better than bkkchat, icq, stickmanbkk etc. your always faithful, DonJuan deNana :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 I am dealing with a long distance relationship at the moment and it all started from here...A nice hairdo was a short msg i drop him on his mailbox and then we started to chat chat chat n chat.Coversation keep flowing naturally.When we made it to 2 months we started to realise that we could not stop talking to each other.We have been doing it as a routine.We were talking online using cam for almost 3 months then we met up in Bangkok, arranged the trip to the south.I would say that this is more than i have been expecting.I am glad i found someone i feel click with and now we just cant wait to see each other again !!! GOOD luck to you the secret is out ... we need to either have a nice hairdo or compliment a girl on her nice hairdo and it's then all plain sailing ... maybe !! guess that's me knackered then !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GirlFromMars Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 *dropping you a msg* .....You look so damn sexy with that head shaved!! Wanna go for a ride? *LOL* gfm 's clone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CiaranM Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 *dropping you a msg* .....You look so damn sexy with that head shaved!! Wanna go for a ride? *LOL* gfm 's clone hmmmm do u know what a ride is in ireland ?? who cares ... let's go Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GirlFromMars Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 *dropping you a msg* .....You look so damn sexy with that head shaved!! Wanna go for a ride? *LOL* gfm 's clone hmmmm do u know what a ride is in ireland ?? who cares ... let's go I wont mention sth i dunno Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uarewotueat Posted January 13, 2005 Report Share Posted January 13, 2005 Are there TFers out there who have had a "cyber" relationship together? How did it go? thats as far as i got ...am meetin her in 21 days maybe i will post here again if all goes well i shall not reveal who she is ...u gotta guess :twisted: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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