this is a bit sad story of me..i have a relationship with a guy since last june.in the beginning was everything fine.... one thing upset me..he had to go to babysitting in EX girlfriends place and sleep there till she came home in the morning. i let him go, coz i trusted him. and then anytime afterwards i couldnt stand it anymore and we fought, coz i wanted him to take the kid with him. i didnt want him to sleep in her place.we f**ked up together, afterwards i found out that he beeing with her and cheated on me.i was very sad and specially very angry!i told me about everything.....now its ten month ago and i allow him to see his kid again, but he has to go to her place.we make out that he can stay for two houres and then he has to come straight home.he promise me he wont do anything with her again.what kind of choice do i have...i have to trust him.but what u guys think???

if I were you, I would pay a sitter and have him back home instead..or tell his ex to bring over the child to sit at your place..but once bitten, twice shy. If trust is gone, it wont be the same as before.

I agree with Damnam1

I agree with iamsamtoo

Judging by your relationship status you have already made your decision.

Good luck.

I agree with Iain about agreeing with Iamsamtoo about agreeing with damnam1.

Sorry to say but its true...Once trust is gone, its going to be a hard life.

i agree w teddy.

he may think he wont, but if she gets naked and says I want you... what you think he will do?

You can't own a guy's cock... unless you're paying for everything and keeping him on a short leash.

Stop trying.

Learn to share, and everyone is happy.

sorry to hear that...... cheers

I think Don says it all,bit blunt but basically correct as you have already given him the right to go to his ex place.

Put it down to experience.

agree w D.cat and along with Condotown.

What goes around comes around. Take care and big hug from me.

I agree with all the people who said, 'Don't trust him.'

So... what are you going to do?

just accept it or let him go, if he not think you are enough then he will never stop

the local nurse

the school teacher

the postal maid girl

7/11 girls

your friends

he will always have someone

you are in a world of hurt and it will never end until you accept or leave

You can't control another person.. You can't make someone love you. The only control you have is over yourself, and your own actions and feelings. Only you can decide what you are prepared to live with, and where the line is drawn for you personally. Good luck.

If he has feelings for you and love you, he wouldn't go there for 'babysitting' in the first place. I say dump him, there's plenty of fish out there. It's his loss.

I think you should go with him and try a 3some

tony_sorco you just make me laugh :-D thanks, but i hate the c*unt Biatch...

I know, if trust is gone, it will never be the same..

he is not going for babysitting anymore, since i found out that they were F*.....G together.

he`s afriad to lose me. but now i want to set him free and make him happy.

so i let him go to visit his daughter. he was surprise and was very happy about my decision.

i think im doin the right thing.

i never cher,...

this gonna be the last chance for him.

you read such as f**k, ... c**t,.... bi***h.. are you sure you belong to the good girls ? Sounds a bit rude to me.

However, good luck to your relationship.

couldnt say about the whole story...

but its enought like this.