I’m only 18 and 22 :)
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I hear people saying quite often that life is too short. When I’m being around with friends or cousins who younger than me I keep encouraging them to keep dating just to learn how to handle man. When I say dating I don’t mean sleeping but sometime they misinterpret my suggestion. The reason that I tell that is because I want them to learn about men, manner, and expand knowledge which I used to do that for 1 whole year before it was long time ago. And that make me more maturity and attitude is changing in positive way. That doesn’t mean I know it all but I still lack behind many girls who’s younger and older than me.
Though I got myself a bf for a year (I must say that is a hard job to find a guy to be bf) and still enjoy some events here to have fun with friends as usual. in fact, I’m not that a party person but my bf want me to enjoy my life so….
There was earthquake in Christchurch early September I was concerned of his safety due to he has to fly to Christchurch as an urgent matter. But I’m a bit relief to know his eldest brother is also with him, even he saying his brother snoring loudly at night but that doesn’t bother him at all I know he’s sleeping like a baby. On the night that a big aftershock took place he slept through it. I was glad to hear because I don’t want he witness horrible moment. I imagine, he probably dreaming of lying in a hammock on a tropical beach somewhere. I keep checking aftershock everyday since he has postponed his flight twice. I try to give him incentive and morale by saying that “you can’t be hurt or anything because you are going to get a wife”, it turn out my word I scary him to dead more than he’s in Christchurch …lol….
On 15.09.10 my boss flown to BKK to meet a guy from Malaysia. When a guy from Malaysia arrived he introduces himself as Mr. M. he is friendly and shy and that also make me awkward as well. So I try to break the ice by saying “its nice to meet you too and you are so handsome”. Then I felt my surrounding silent instantly, I can hear a pin drop. I turn around seeing my boss and Mr. M they both look at me as if they want to ask me “what did you just say?” I realized I did something wrong when my boss left me with Mr. M and he asked many questions. I answer him but dare not to have eye contact afraid it might give him wrong impression again. I was keep pinching my arm all the way in taxi with them to remind myself that I shouldn’t try to break the ice with stranger by saying so.
Last night my friend called tell me that whenever she talks to me about her dating guys, my advice always frustrated her. I didn’t mean to frustrate her but I want she open up to something more realistic. She always tell me that most of the guy she date no one is fit to her description. I asked her what type of guy that she looking for. While describing her dream guy I couldn’t help to interrupt her that “from your description I can imagine a guy is look like Brad Pitt”.
Several months ago we have lunch together at Fuji Emporium she was show a guy pics in her mobile phone.
Friend: here is a guy that I promised to show you.
Me: oh wow you take his naked photos on your mobile.
Cousin: can I see the pics?
Friend: here, this pic he is not yet big and this one he is 8”
Cousin: eew..have you guys realize that we are about to eat..
Me: oh yes, that’s why my raw fish is smell like penis.
We are chatting quite often and sometime I advise her to understand nature of men and accepted.
Me: why don’t you date guy who’s in his forties? Guy in this age is likely to settle down.
Friend: A man who suits me best is someone about your bf age.
Me: 39 years?
Friend: yes, 39 years is perfect to me.
Me: well, 40’s is considered as same age gap.
Friend: No way, they are too old for me.
Me: you are 35 now and think about it.
Since then, and after 3 months she told me she will accept a guy who’s in his 40. And after 3 months she told me again that she will accept a guy who’s in 43. And after another 3 months she tells me that she will accept a guy who’s in 45. I am hoping to hear 50’s something in the next 6 months. She keep asking me why handsome men are always horny, which I can’t supply her the right explanation.
she wants to know how to make them over horniness. if you know how please advise.
Anyway, today is the day I turn 18 and 22, which I planed to keep this secretly to myself but 5555…nothing I can be shame about….. Mr. Grizzly keep reminding my age for most for 3 weeks even I keep I tell him that “ how rude!!”. This year is a year of surprising I’m quite satisfied with what ever God send... 
Have a lovely day to all TFers ja
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